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THE GOOD LIFE WHAT TO DO WITH CREMATED ASHES? 10 Mountain Views-News Saturday, May 6, 2017 SENIOR HAPPENINGS NIFTY GADGETS THAT CAN HELP SENIORS WITH HEARING LOSS HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …May Birthdays* Joann Serrato-Chi, Harriett Lyle, Jean Coleman, Birgitta Gerlinger, Donna Mathieson, Dorothy Murphy, Linda Wochnik, Marian Woodford, Debbie Sheridan, Joanne Anthony, Carole Axline, Kika Downey, Shirley Hall, Annie Scalzo, Janet Ten Eyck, Jane Thomas, Ray Burley. * To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737. YEAR of birth not required ................................................................... ACTIVITIES: Unless listed differently, all activities are at the Hart Park House (Senior Center) 222 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre Hawaiian & Polynesian Dance Class: Every Tuesday morning from 10a.m. to 11a.m. Join instructor Barbara Dempsey as she leads you in the art of Hula. Bingo: Every Tuesday beginning at 1:00p.m. Cards are only $0.25 each! Everyone is welcome to join. May be canceled if less than five people. Free Blood Pressure Testing: 2nd Tuesday of the month from 11a.m. to 12p.m. No appt. is necessary. Brain Games: Thursdays, 10:30a.m. to 11:30a.m., improve your memory and strengthen your brain. Activities facilitated by Senior Volunteers. Free Legal Consultation: Wednesdays from 10:30a.m. to Noon. Attorney Lem Makupson is available for legal consultation. He specializes in Family Law, Wills, Trusts, Estates, and Injury. Appointments are required by calling 626-355-7394. Senior Club: Meets every Saturday at the Hart Park House Senior Center. Brown Bag Lunch at 11:30a.m. Tax Assistance: Every Wednesday beginning on February 1st through April 12th from 1:00p.m. to 2:00p.m. - Don Brunner is available for income tax consultation. Appointments are required by calling 626-355-7394. Chair Yoga: Mondays and Wednesdays from 11:00 to 11:45a.m. with Paul Hagen. 3rd Monday of each month, a variety of balance exercises are practiced. All ability levels are encouraged and welcomed! *A suggested donation of $5 at one of the classes is requested, but is not required. Case Management: Case Management services are provided by the YWCA and provide assistance in a variety of areas. Appointments are required and can be scheduled by calling the Hart Park House Office at 626-355-7394. Birthday Celebrations: Every 2nd Thursday of the month at the Hart Park House, share some free birthday cake provided by the Sierra Madre Civic Club. Game Day: Every Thursday starting at 12:00p.m. Come join this group of Seniors in a poker game. Other games are offered to all. Please note time change. Free Strength Training Class: Every Friday from 12:45p.m. to 1:30p.m. with Lisa Brandley. This energetic class utilizes light weights for low impact resistance training. All class materials are provided. Stress, Resilience, Positivity: Finding Balance - by The Kensington Sierra Madre Four Tuesdays, March 7 - 28th from 2:00 - 4:00p.m. Register by calling 213-821-6919 or 213-821-6908. SEASONAL FUN AT THE SENIOR CENTER Thursday, May 25th from 10:30a.m. – 11:30a.m. at the Hart Park House! Just in time for spring! Join us in making a silk flowers planter. All supplies will be provided. Let’s get creative... Please call the Hart Park House, 626-355-7394, to make your reservations. Invite your friends and family for some arts and crafts fun and take home your planters for the season SENIOR EXCURSIONS MAY EXCURSION BOWERS MUSEUM - SANTA ANA Date: Tuesday, May 30th Time: 9:15a.m. to 3:00p.m. Meeting Location: Hart Park House Cost: $15.00 (Not including Lunch) The Bowers Museum is an art museum located in beautiful Orange County. The museum’s permanent collection includes more than 100,000 objects featuring notable strengths in areas of pre-Columbian Mesoamerica, Native American art, the art of Asia, Africa, and Oceania, and California plein-air painting. Participants will have time to explore the museum and have lunch on their own. Restaurant is open in the museum and fast food places are a short walk away. There will be a docent-guided tour in the afternoon which will feature highlights of galleries throughout , providing a great overview of the museum’s unique collections. Level of walking: Medium – High; please call us at the Hart Park House for reservations at 626-355-7394! Dear Savvy Senior, What types of products can you recommend to help people with hearing problems? My 65-year-old husband has some hearing issues, but doesn’t think he needs a hearing aid, so I’m looking for some alternative devices that can help. Loud Talker Dear Loud, If your husband feels he’s not ready for a hearing aid but needs some hearing help, there are dozens of “assistive listening devices” on the market today that can make a big difference. Assistive listening devices are over-the-counter electronic products (they are not FDA approved hearing aid devices) that can amplify and improve sound to help your husband in different listening situations. It’s also important to know that these products are best suited for people with mild to moderate hearing impairment, and they usually aren’t covered by insurance or Medicare. Here’s a breakdown of some of the different devices that can help. Personal amplifiers: For better hearing, especially in noisy environments, there are personal sound amplification products that can be worn in the ear like a hearing aid, and are designed to amplify sound while reducing background noise. Two top rated products to consider that were recently recommended by Consumer Reports are the SoundWorld Solutions CS50+ and the Etymotic Bean. The CS50+, which costs $350, looks like a Bluetooth cell phone headset, and has customizable settings that can be programed with a smartphone. The Etymotic Bean, which costs $399 a pair or $214 for one, is ready to use right out of the box and is best suited for those with high-frequency hearing loss. If these are too pricy, there are also a number of small hand-held or body-worn amplifiers – like the Williams Sound Pocketalker ($139) and Bellman & Symfon Mino Personal Amplifier ($188) – that have a microphone and headphones or earbuds that are very effective too. TV amplifiers: To hear the television better, there are TV listening devices that will let your husband increase the volume and adjust the tone to meet his needs, without blasting you out of the room. Some of the best options include wireless infrared, radio frequency or Bluetooth devices that come with standard or stethoscope headphones. Sennheiser makes a variety of quality products with prices running between $130 and $450. Or, for a more affordable solution, consider the Serene Innovations TV Sound Box for $120. This is a wireless amplified TV speaker that would sit near your husband, and provide clear stereo sound from the TV without the need for headsets. Amplified telephones: To have clearer phone conversations, there are a wide variety of amplified telephones that offer enhanced volume and tone adjustments, and they usually come with extra loud ringers and flashing ring indicators to alert him when a call is coming in. Some top makers of these products are Clarity, ClearSounds and Serene Innovations, and a top seller today is the Clarity XLC2+ Amplified Phone ($144), which is a cordless phone that provides three tone settings and 50 decibels of amplification. Alerting devices: There are also a variety of alerting devices that can help people who have trouble hearing the doorbell, phone, alarm clock, smoke detector or even weather radio. These products use flashing lights, multi-tone ringers or vibrating devices as a means to alert you. Some popular products in this category include: The Bellman & Symfon Care Home Alerting Solution that provides door and phone notification with a flashing alert ($198); the Silent Call Weather Alert Radio with strobe and bed shaker ($165); and the all-in-one Serene Innovations CentralAlert CA-360 Clock/Receiver Notification System, which provides alarm clock, doorbell, phone, motion and storm warning alerts ($180). To locate these and any other hearing loss products visit Harris Communications (HarrisComm.com, or call 866-476-9579), which offers more than 2,000 assistive devices and provides customer support services to assist you. Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book. I’M STILL SO GLAD I’M NOT YOUNG ANYMORE! This article originally appeared in the Mountain Views New years ago. But even after all this time, I’m STILL so glad I didn’t go to prom! Youth is a wonderful thing. The young are mostly healthy, beautiful, and, in middle and upper class America, blissfully unacquainted with the harsh realities of financial self- reliance and a diminished metabolism. Youth involves rites of passage. Kids learn to drive. Girls get training bras; boys’ voices go through a crackling journey to manly tones. Everyone needs to use deodorant, contrary to the belief that “some people don’t sweat.” And usually somewhere in there is a “formal dance.” Stopped in traffic by the Arboretum one spring day, I noticed a fashion shoot taking place on a grassy knoll. Five women, in thigh-high halter-top dresses, posed as the photographer fired off rapid shots. After they were finished, the group headed toward some young men in suits and tuxedos. As the women awkwardly stepped into a stretch Hummer it dawned on me. That’s not a fashion a shoot –that’s someone’s prom! It goes without saying that proms have changed over the years. My mom enjoys telling how she fooled her date (a well- known prankster) by opening the front door in a very old fashions, dumpy dark turquoise taffeta dress and her Stouffer’s waitress shoes (think the Queen Mum). She and her dad got a big laugh after he snapped a picture of the boy’s horrified face. She then changed in to her real dress. Yes, things are different these days... I have a few regrets about my youth. I wish I had put more effort into my second language courses (although I doubt it would’ve helped), and I suppose it might’ve been good to attempt a sport. But one thing I’ve never regretted is not going to prom! I know that sounds bitter and antisocial, but even approaching 20 years later, I can still say I didn’t miss a thing! In the same vein as class elections, proms seemed to be another means of social exclusion. Every detail of the night involved decisions about who was “in” and who was “out.” Who’s house do we meet up at? Who’s riding in the [the ostentatious vehicle of choice]? Who’s sitting at our table? There’s only room for eight, so that eliminates [the least-liked classmate].” It gave me a nervous ulcer just listening to it. To drive home the point that prom was overrated, my boyfriend-less friends all complained about their dates’ behavior the next day at school. Heck, even some of the girls who had boyfriends complained! Of course, another reason I nixed the prom was because I’m cheap. I just couldn’t rationalize the cost of the tickets, dress, etc. Even as an unemployed teenager, I had some concept of the value of money. On top of everything else, prom tends to bring out the worst in people –administrators as well as students. There’s always a few headlines about some poor kid getting kicked out of prom for a dumb reason. Back when I first submitted this article, a boy in the Midwest asked his crush to the prom by writing “Will you go to the prom with me?” on a large poster. And she said “Yes!” Aww! But there was trouble in paradise when the villainous principal banned the boy from the prom because his placement of the sign was against school rules. In response to the national outcry against her decision, the principal finally reneged and allowed the young lovers to attend the prom. It would be one thing if this were an isolated incident, but it seems that every year there’s some news story about power-crazed administrators concocting frivolous reasons for excluding students from the prom. One girl was denied admission because she came without a date. It’s bad enough if you can’t get a date, let alone the school broadcasting it! Like Maurice Chevalier crooned, “I’m --STILL-- so glad I’m not young anymore!” SCAM ALERT: WHO’S CALLING? By Monica Vaca Acting Associate Director, FTC The millions of people who reported scams last year told us that imposters were the top fraud of the year. Imposters have called many of us – maybe even most of us, pretending to be anyone from the IRS to a family member in trouble, from fake tech “help” for your computer to a business selling things that turned out to be bogus. Their goal? To get your money as quickly as possible. Thanks to the Legal Aid Society of Hawaii, we recently heard about scammers calling to ask for contributions to the “Legal Aid Society” and pretending to be from the “national legal aid/defenders office.” A quick search of the phone number the callers used showed complaints for different kinds of imposter scams. (Of course, scammers can make caller ID show any number – even the name that shows up on the display. So don’t rely on caller ID to help you decide if a call is legit.) Imposters can pretend to be anyone, but the twist on this imposter scam is that the scammers are pretending to be from well-respected community service organizations and appealing to your civic spirit. To make sure your donation dollars are doing the good you want them to, learn more about giving wisely. If you get a dubious call, or one that pressures you to donate right away, tell the FTC so we can investigate. We rely on you – and our partners in your community – to tell us what you’re seeing. In fact, our most recent imposter scam case – against a company that pretended to be from a community help center, the government, radio stations, and companies like Walmart – came about because of a tip from a legal services group in Washington, DC. So every report, from everyone, makes a difference. 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