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7 BEST FRIENDS & MORE Mountain Views-News Saturday, July 14, 2018 BEST FRIEND Happy Tails by Chris Leclerc Heritage is a sociable young guy who comes forward to greet visitors to his room and politely asks for their undivided attention. He settles into a lap clearly with a plan to spend the day and likes to have his soft brown and white tabby fur coat gently brushed. Play time calls for dangly strings that snake across the floor. The laser dot seems to bore him. Maybe because he’s smart enough to know he can’t catch it. Or maybe he’s waiting for a larger play room in his forever home that will give him more space to run after it. The word “heritage” can mean an inherited or established way of thinking or feeling. Heritage inherited such sweet genes that, even when laying down resting his paws form a heart. Heritage is feeling ready to give and receive love. Please come to the Alhambra PetSmart, a San Gabriel Valley Humane Society adoption partner, on Fremont and Commonwealth to meet Heritage. The adoption fee is $99 and includes neuter surgery, vaccinations, microchip and a free wellness exam at a participating veterinarian. Feel free to call us at the San Gabriel Valley Humane Society at (626) 286-1159 for more information. Website: www. sgvhumane.org A PET PAMPERER’S PREPONDERANCES One of the many unexpected, and perhaps undeserved gifts that I have come to receive from the pets I get to pamper, is the feeling of inner peace their presence brings to me whenever we are together. You‘re probably thinking, “Oh boy, here we go, right off the bat this story is sounding pretty deep and introspective“, and that’s probably because it is. Of recent months, I have been much more mindful of what’s going on “inside” myself while I am out walking my canine clients. This relatively recent increase in inner-self-mindfulness has turned out to be an awesome asset for me. It proves particularly valuable at times when I feel somewhat surrounded by the chaos that can occur on the outer surface of every day human life. Making a pointed effort to maintain some semblance of serenity within, while moving through a busy day has helped me stay happy, regardless of any noisy commotion that may erupt around me. I’ve been told I’m a sensitive soul. I’m not sure what that means exactly, but I imagine it has to do with my tendency to be overly vigilant with regard to loud noises, bright light, extreme temperatures and spatial invasion - all of which happen to be inherent to living life in southern California. Thankfully, I have lots of dogs who take me for daily walks out and about where I am subjected to what I may perceive to be intrusive stimuli, so that I am forced to adapt and become accustomed to it. For this I am grateful, because if there is one thing I have learned about myself it is that, left to my own devices, I will avoid situations that take me out of my comfort zone. OK, enough about my strange sensitivity. I’ll move on now, and get to the point of this meandering tale. There is something very therapeutic about the silence I share with the pets I spend time with. No one among us feels the need to fill the air with senseless chatter. It is a luxury; that unique quiet time, during which I often engage in introspection and more recently, I use the time to listen for the still small voice of God. I know without a doubt that God speaks to me through other people, through the animals, through nature and sometimes His thoughts even come to me from within. While on a recent walk with a couple of pups, I experienced a few of what I like to call “God thoughts” that really stuck with me, so I decided to share them in this week‘s Happy Tail. The air was very still that morning, as were the leaves on the trees and other fauna that “Patches“, “Puck” and I passed by during a walk around their block. But one plant caught my eye as we walked by. It stood out among the others because its long, frond-like leaves were tossing to-and-fro for no apparent reason. I thought it quite mysterious that with no wind whatsoever, the leaves of that one plant would be dancing while all the others remained unmoved. I found it remarkable enough to mention to a man I saw doing yard work nearby. He smiled and said, “That is probably because a gopher or mole is below, gnawing on the roots.” Now, I hadn’t thought of that before but it made total sense to me. Immediately the thought followed that there are many things in life that I’m either perplexed by or make erroneous assumptions about, because I am unable to see the whole picture. Indeed, there are many instances in life wherein my view is very limited, and I would do better refraining from making rash inferences based on what limited view I do have. My eyes see and perceive only those things that are within my field of human vision, but there is so much more going on beneath the surface. To take that thought to a deeper level, much of what goes on in life happens outside the perimeters of my limited capacity to, not only see, but to truly understand. There is definitely a bigger picture - a back story as it were - only a portion of which I have been made privy to. That little plant brought a great amount of insight to this humble human that day. During another walk last week - this time with Vinnie, a sweet senior female husky - I saw my friend, Carolyn who also happens to be one who listens for God’s voice in her life. We had a quick visit that could easily have fallen fate to the waste of meaningless chatter, but instead turned out to be a thoughtful moment of fellowship between two like- minded ladies. I can’t remember exactly how the conversation started, but it ended with me sharing a metaphoric morsel that came to me a bit earlier that morning during the silence of walking with Vinnie. I told Carolyn that I often pray for patience, and after that prayer I have learned to brace myself for a life challenge that will require me to be just that - patient! It‘s like when someone places a new plant in their yard. They want it to grow and sprout beautiful flowers to be enjoyed by all who see them so they pray for the flower to grow, and low and behold along comes a storm! But who prayed for a storm? Nobody. The storm was the answer to their prayer, because without the storm the flower would not grow. And that’s how it goes…there’s a lot we don’t know in this life - thank God, He does! OUR MOST BEAUTIFUL! This is BASIA, age 7, (pronounced Basha & means Barbara). She’s our beauty & a Siamese mix. Just look at those big baby blues and that gorgeous, latté creamy fur! Basia will be shy at first, but our patient volunteers know that once she knows and trusts you, she will come out of her shell and be right next to you, getting treats and pets! This may take some time in a new environment, but Basia is well worth the effort. She loves to play with the feather wand. Basia would be most suited to a quiet, patient home. She would do well being the only “princess” in the house; however, she is friendly to other, younger cats. Basia’s been waiting a long time for a true home--please don’t pass her by. See adoption info, more pics and 2 videos on our website. Contact us for a “meet & greet.” Basic will come current on vaccines, spayed, and chipped. $100. Adoption info at www.lifelineforpets.org. Good news: Baby Krissy has been adopted. THE WORLD AROUND US OUT TO PASTOR A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder CHRISTOPHER Nyerges DON’T BE A PART OF THE “CRAZY 15%”: PRACTICE SURVIVAL SKILLS – Don’t Just Read About Them I FELL FOR IT… AGAIN An old saying more or less defines my life, “What we learn from history is that we don’t learn from history. When I was younger, I assumed that the older I got, the smarter I would become. I have not achieved that at this point in my life. It gets so tiresome to repeat the same mistakes over and over again. I do hope though, that this will change somewhere along my life. I am hoping it changes before I die. I was reminded of this flaw in my personality several weeks ago when the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage and I spent a little bit of vacation time at St. Augustine. Someone had given us tickets for several nights in a bed and breakfast. We spent the whole week just enjoying ourselves. I should correct that though. I spent the whole week reading and meditating with my eyes closed. The other side of our relationship went to all the thrift stores in the area. She would leave right after breakfast, stop back for lunch, then spend the rest of the day until suppertime going from one thrift shop to another. How she can do this for days on end is beyond my wildest dream. Several times, she asked if I wanted to go with her, but I declined this most gracious invitation. I remember the last time I took her up on that offer and we bounce from one thrift store to the next thrift store. They all started to look alike after a while. It only takes me five minutes to thoroughly examine the thrift store, while my wife takes two hours to go through bit-by-bit every aspect of that thrift store. Every thrift store in the area knows her by name at this point. I, the lazier part of the marital equation, chose to stay in our room and just relax. I am just as addicted to relaxation as my wife is addicted to thrift store shopping. I am not certain who suffers the worst addiction. To be honest, she has gotten many wonderful deals at some of these thrift stores. Whenever we need anything, she knows exactly which thrift store to go to and she can barter them down to the very bottom. How they make any money on her shopping I do not know. Every once in a while I suffer this awful nightmare. I wake up sweating and breathing really hard. The nightmare is that we have opened up our own thrift store. No dream can get any worse than that! I never tell her of these nightmares because I do not want to plant any ideas in her head. I lean strictly away from that idea. In spite of all of this, I still have failed to learn anything from history. My wife had spent most of the day visiting these thrift stores, and also buying things from these thrift stores, and had come home and we had a little bit of supper in our room. I assumed we were in for the evening. I wish I would know when to keep my mouth shut. As we were finishing our casual supper, I said something that I now regret very much. I said, “Boy, it sure would be nice to have one of those lap desks so I could use my computer while I’m sitting here in the bed.” I did not mean for this to be a point of discussion just a casual observation, that is all. Then I took it a step further. “Have you ever seen any lap desks in the thrift stores that you visit?” If there is anything I could ever take back in my life, this would have been one of them. I did not know how serious the subject was. “I don’t know,” she said most enthusiastically, “but I’ll go and find out right…” Before she could say the word “now,” she had gone out the door and shut it most soundly. The rest of the evening she was visiting thrift stores all over the place. I was afraid, very much afraid, that she would actually find one and bring it back. I suppose they are to be found in thrift stores somewhere. But I just meant it as a passing bit of conversation. Four hours later, she returned and was very much excited. She had found something she had been looking for, for a very long time. It was a very eloquent teapot with 6 cups and saucers to it. “Look what I found,” she said most excitedly. “I’ve been looking for this and we can use it at our next lady’s tea.” According to her, this tea set matches the one she had back home. She was so excited about it. I would not say anything, but I think she forgot why she went to the thrift stores in the first place. Now I have learned something from history, and that is not to remind her of the lap desk that she was going to look for. To this day, I have never mentioned it. I like what the wise old man in the Bible said, “A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak” (Ecclesiastes 3:7). There is a time to “keep silence” and it is a wise man who knows when. That may be why people say that silence is golden. The Rev. James L. Snyder is pastor of the Family of God Fellowship, 1471 Pine Road, Ocala, FL 34472. He lives with the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage, in Ocala, Florida. Call him at 352-687- 4240 or e-mail jamessnyder2@att.net. The church web site is www.whatafellowship.com. [Nyerges is the author of “How to Survive Anywhere,” and “Enter the Forest.” Information about his books and classes is available from Box 41834, Eagle Rock, CA 90041, or fromwww.SchoolofSelf-Reliance.com.]. In the “First Aid” chapter of How to Survive Anywhere, I address specific simple ways of dealing with the common medical emergencies that one can expect in the aftermath of a major disaster, or if lost and hurt in the woods. What would you do if a major earthquake struck Sierra Madre tomorrow? Also consider that it is not only the physical accidents that we need to be concerned about in the aftermath of some disaster. In studies that have been done of the survivors of major disasters, the following conclusions have been made about the mental state of the survivors. Approximately 15% made quick, appropriate, and efficient choices and actions which were well-suited to their safety and security. Another 15% “went crazy,” making wild irrational choices and even getting hurt as a result of their “losing it.” The rest, about 70% of the survivors – a full majority – neither went crazy nor did they make wise and efficient choices and actions, but rather wandered about somewhat zombie-like, spaced-out, in a state of stupor and shock, simply not knowing what to do, where to go, what to think. This shocked majority tends to be passive, but will take orders from someone who seems to be in control and who seems to know what they are doing and why. The point: None of us wants to be a part of that majority, and definitely we don’t want to be a part of that “crazy 15.” No one would want to be wandering around Sierra Madre Blvd. in a dazed state of mind. What can we do to ensure that in a time of disaster, we find ourselves in that 15% category of wise, appropriate, efficient actions? None of us reallyknows what we will do until we are actually tested in difficult, stressful real life conditions. It is impossible to predict what you might do when you are seated comfortably in your home drinking a warm beverage. The only way to expand our mental and physical limits is to actually put ourselves into situations where we can discover more about ourselves during situations of less sleep, less food, more work. People in the military often get that experience. Some survival schools offer these experiences. And anyone (with a group of friends and supporters) can regularly plan such trips with the express purpose of expanding limits, learning how you will react in times of stress, and attempting to make the right choices when it is not easy to do so. TAKE CLASSES Some of the practical information that you can learn in classes includes emergency first aid; I encourage everyone to take the Red Cross Emergency First Aid course, and learn how to deal with everyday first aid problems. Other useful class topics includes firearms instruction at a range, home vegetable gardening, and canning. Many skills can be practiced with friends, such as how to purify water, repairing common plumbing and electrical problems that might results from an earthquake, simple fire drills, and basic camping skills which might be useful in the aftermath of an earthquake. Consider enrolling in classes where you can learn about wild foods and very basic survival skills The schedule for the classes I teach can be seen atwww. SchoolofSelf-Reliance.com, or write to Box 41834, Eagle Rock, CA 90041. Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||