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7 JUST FOR BEST FRIENDS Mountain Views-News Saturday, April 14, 2018 HEALTHY LIFESTYLES THE MORAL OF THE PRECARIOUSLY PRICKLY PORCUPINE Happy Tails by Chris Leclerc REJUVENATION OF THE MIND Practices I return to again and again focus on rejuvenating the mind. Of course, I make sure to take care of my body with exercise, sleep, and nourishing foods, but it’s the mind I have to watch. Stress accumulates and the mind becomes disturbed. When the waves or vrittis of the mind ripple, things can become unclear quickly. We all understand this feeling. The first order of business is to quiet the disturbance no matter the cause. For that which will settle the mind, look to the wisdom of ancient philosophies of yoga and ayurveda (the sister science to yoga). Both deep relaxation and systematic rejuvenation approaches are needed. First, body therapies such as self- massage with warm oil and heat therapy have a profound effect on the mind. It takes the mind to a bliss state of being - closer to our natural sense of joy and divine bliss. Second is silence-- long periods of silence sitting in meditation or simply not talking or communicating. Third, yoga settles the mind, particularly sitting postures held for a longer time. The sitting poses in yoga are incredibly beneficial in creating a deep internal awareness which calms the mind almost immediately. Fourth, a pure diet without stimulants does wonders for body and mind! The avoidance of caffeine and limiting sugar decreases anxiety significantly and, believe or not, conserves real energy. There are many more tools and suggestions, but the final one I’ll give is REST. The utter lack of motion will increase vital energy reserves and help rejuvenate the mind. Remember, when the mind is nourished, there is patience for all. We must stop doing for a while to put back in. The mind needs a chance to gather new ideas, new vision and feel contentment and relaxation. This week, utilize just one of these tools to combat stress and disturbance in the mind. Be aware of how you feel - do you feel more like yourself? Learn more about these techniques and about yoga and meditation. Contact me today! keely@keelytotten.com Namaste friends, Keely Totten, E-RYT 500, Yoga & Meditation Teacher, Mind Rejuvenator I once received an e-mail from a dear friend of mine, offering an interesting moral derivative about what might be considered a somewhat controversial survival technique employed by the porcupine. When I read the message, I was immediately inspired to write about that curiously contentious, yet undeniably cute little creature. The e-mailed story was entitled, “The Moral of the Porcupine” and it included a few photos of infant porcupines nestled in human hands. To me, the baby “porcs” in the pictures looked a lot like small bundled-up balls of fur with minute, mouse-like faces that you can’t help falling in love with. As far as my memory serves me, I believe that was the first time I’d ever seen a baby porcupine, and I was amazed at how adorable the young ones really are. The baby porcupine somehow reminds me of the woodlouse, which is a strangely pre-historic looking insect that most of us have seen crawling about in our yards and gardens. Very much like the woodlouse (more commonly known to lay- persons such as myself as the “rollie pollie“), baby porcupines know how to curl themselves up into a tight round ball as a means of protecting their soft and very vulnerable underbellies any time they sense the danger of a potential intruder. Although the two have very little else in common, the porcupine and the oddly armored woodlouse termite do happen to share one particularly unique characteristic. They both have upper sides to their bodies that serve as an effective protective defense mechanism. The main difference is that the upper side of the woodlouse’s body is comprised of a hard shell, whereas the porcupine’s upper side is designed more like a bed of needle-like nails! The basic gist of the “moral” given in the e-mail I received, is that while the long & pointy pokers on the upper side of the porcupine may serve as an important means of survival against a threatening predator, they also have the potential to prohibit vital bonding, by getting in the way when the infants simply want to snuggle with their siblings. Indeed, this is where the valuable lesson comes in to play. And, if it is interpreted, understood and applied properly, this is a lesson that can actually help lead to a longer, happier life for we sometimes somewhat simple-minded humans. The fond fable of the porcupine goes like this: It was the coldest winter ever, and many of the wild animals in the region had already died from exposure to the freezing temperatures. Realizing the situation, the thoughtful porcupines decided to group together to keep warm. It seemed like the logical thing to do, to share the warmth of each other’s bodies and thereby survive through the cold winter. However, the closer the tiny porcs came together, the more their quills began to inflict wounds on the soft under flesh of the loved ones they were closest to. After some time passed, the little porcupines decided to distance themselves from one another to prevent the poking effect, and before long they each began to die alone and frozen like the other animals that had succumbed to the elements that season. Soon it became clear that the poor desperate porcupines had to make a choice; either accept the painful pricks of their closest companions’ quills, or die alone. Wisely, the young porcupines opted to stick close together and learn to live with the relatively small wounds caused by the quills of their siblings, in order to share the warmth and survive the chill of winter. And so, the moral of the story is that the best relationships in life are not necessarily those which bring together perfect people who do not chafe or “rub one another wrong“. Rather, one must learn to live with the prickly, uncomfortable wounds that may come with meaningful relationships while learning to appreciate the good qualities of a companion and the warmth they share, if one wishes to survive and thrive in this world. For what it’s worth, this simple short but sweet story about the precarious porcupine comes with an enormous bit of wisdom that had a huge impact on me and it is my hope that the moral of this story will be valued by others who hear it. Animals can teach us so many wonderful and unique lessons in life. I say, let them be our teachers. May we humans learn to respect all living things, and may we learn to humble ourselves enough to love and let live! BEST FRIEND Charley is a charming and gentle Labrador Retriever mix with beautiful dark brown eyes, a soft reddish tan coat, a cute black button nose, and a big friendly smile! Weighing about 47 pounds, this friendly pooch is the quintessential sweet ol’ man! He makes for great company, whether it’s going out for walks or cuddling up in bed. This sweet seven-year-old gentleman is housebroken and leash trained! He is easy to walk, has medium-level energy and knows his basic commands like sit and down. Charley was surrendered by his former owners because there wasn’t a love connection between him and the resident cat and dog. For this reason, Charley will do best in a single-dog home where this delightful senior dog can spend his golden years soaking up all the love from his forever family. If you’re looking to make a difference in the life of a senior dog who’s seen a lot in life and are able to provide the best home that sweet Charley deserves, please come by and prepare to fall in love with this handsome fellow! His adoption fee is $145 and includes neuter surgery, vaccinations, microchip and a free wellness exam at a participating veterinarian. Feel free to call us at (626) 286-1159 for more information. He currently resides at the San Gabriel Valley Humane Society located at 851 E. Grand Avenue in San Gabriel which is located off San Gabriel Blvd, north of Mission and south of Las Tunas Drive. To arrange a ‘Meet and Greet’, please stop by any time from 10:30am to 4:30pm Tuesday through Sunday.Website:www. sgvhumane.org. Lori A. Harris THE MISSING PAGE Real Life Tips from LIfe's Instruction Manual SEEMS BENIGN, BUT IT'S NOT Everyday day we hear the greeting, "How are you? or How's your day going?" Those can seem like throwaway questions and a waste of time and space. They aren't; those questions are opportunities. We can hear those queries hundreds of time per day, and most of us aren't listening to the questions, and few of us pay attention to the responses. You are what you believe you are. Humans are powerful magicians. You have the power to make yourself what you are right now, but it's not your reasoning mind that controls your power, it's what you believe. -----Don Miguel Ruiz Each time someone asks, the question, "how are you?" Recognize that it is an opportunity to declare something good you know to be true and celebrate it. The truth is you get to decide how you are and what kind of day you are going to have. Noticing what we are noticing is one of most powerful self-care tools we have in our arsenal. Watch your self-talk. Most of us have a running tape constantly operating in our minds. You can decide to change the message. I invite you to try an experiment. Take a twenty- minute brisk walk for one week. As you are walking repeat this mantra to yourself: "Day by day in every way, I'm getting better and better." You may find it difficult at first, but as you continue your mind will start to search ways that statement is true. You will remember that you have been feeling a bit better. You did a great job handling that difficult client yesterday. You made some healthy food choices this morning. You're feeling pretty good. When you ask someone, "how are you?" Look them in the eye and wait and listen to the response. Let them know that you see them, you hear them and that you appreciate them. There is no greater gift than the gift of YOU and YOUR TIME. I asked a court reporter yesterday, and her pitiful response surprised She woefully said, "Well, it's Wednesday." I said, "Yes it is! This is a beautiful day. One that has never been lived before and we will never see THIS day again." She smiled, and responded, "Humph, I guess you're right." How are you? Ask Les Brown that question, and he happily responds, "better than good and better than most!" How's your day going? Decide, don't wait for conditions to tell you, make a decision. Notice the beautiful sunset. No one else is standing at the spot where you are. That's your sunset, notice and appreciate it. " Beautiful, my day has been beautiful." This is the start of your gratitude practice. Declare this day to be good. Claim perfect health and a sound mind and be grateful. Declare what you want to be true about you, your day and your life. I am hosting a webinar soon. Want to learn more about it? Sign up for the newsletter at LoriAHarris.com. THIS IS THE ONE! Lookin’ for a cute cuddler? Meet THOMAS! Age 1 or 2, he’s just adorable! Just look at that cute tongue! Maybe he wants to give you a raspberry! This adorable boy is a friendly, curious purrbox! He loves to snuggle and bury his head in your arms! He was found in an overpopulated cat colony, and he practically ASKED to be rescued from there! Once in his foster home, Thomas adjusted quickly, and, on day one, he even let his rescuer trim his nails with NO fuss, just purrs! Call 626-676-9505 or email us at info@lifelineforpets.org for more information. See more pictures and adoption information on our website, www.lifelineforpets.org. Walter Cailleteau, DVM Free Exam! 927 N. Michillinda Ave. For New Clients Pasadena, CA 91107 Bring this coupon to save! (626) 351-8863 Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||