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B2 BUSINESS NEWS & TRENDS ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT Mountain Views-News Saturday, October 20, 2018 Jeff’s Book Pics By Jeff Brown FAMILY MATTERS By Marc Garlett WHEN SOMETHING IS NOT BETTER THAN NOTHING Go online, and you’ll find tons of websites offering do-it-yourself estate planning documents. Such forms are typically quite inexpensive. Simple wills, for example, are often priced under $50, and you can complete and print them out in a matter of minutes. In our uber-busy lives and DIY culture, it’s no surprise that this kind of thing might seem like a good – if not great – deal. You know estate planning is important, and even though you may not be getting the highest quality plan, such documents can make you feel better for having checked this item off your life’s lengthy to-do list. But this is one case in which SOMETHING is not better than nothing, and here’s why: A false sense of security Creating a DIY will online can lead you to believe that you no longer must worry about estate planning. You got it done, right? Except that you didn’t. In fact, you thought you “got it done” because you went online, printed a form, and had it notarized, but you didn’t bother to investigate what would happen with that document in the event of your incapacity or death. In the end, what seemed like a bargain could end up costing your family more money and heartache than if you’d never gotten around to doing anything at all. Not just about filling out forms Unfortunately, because many people don’t understand that estate planning entails much more than just filling out legal documents, they end up making serious mistakes with DIY plans. Worst of all, these mistakes are only discovered when you become incapacitated or die, and it’s too late. The people left to deal with your mistakes are often the very ones you were trying to do right by. The primary purpose of wills and other estate planning tools is to keep your family out of court and out of conflict in the event of your death or incapacity. With the growing popularity of DIY wills, tens of thousands of families (and millions more to come) have learned the hard way that trying to handle estate planning alone can not only fail to fulfill this purpose, it can make the court cases and conflicts far worse and more expensive. The hidden dangers of DIY wills From the specific state you live in and the wording of the document to the required formalities for how it must be signed and witnessed, there are numerous potential dangers involved with DIY wills and other estate planning documents. Estate planning is most definitely not a one-size-fits-all deal. Even if you think you have a simple situation, that’s almost never the case. The following scenarios are just a few of the most common complications that can result from attempting to go it alone with a DIY will: . Improper execution: For a will to be valid, it must be executed (i.e. signed and witnessed or notarized) following strict legal procedures. If your DIY will doesn’t specific guidance or you fail to follow this procedure precisely, your will can be worthless. . Court challenges: Creditors, heirs, and other interested parties will have the opportunity to contest your will or make claims against your estate. Though wills created with an attorney’s guidance can also be contested, DIY wills are not only far more likely to be challenged, but the chances of those challenges being successful are much greater than if you have an attorney-drafted will. . Thinking a will is enough: A will alone is almost never sufficient to handle all of your legal affairs. In the event of your incapacity, you would also need a health care directive, and/or a living will plus a durable financial power of attorney. In the event of your death, a will does nothing to keep your loved one’s out of court. And if you have minor children, having a will alone could leave your kids’ at risk of being taken out of your home and into the care of strangers, at least temporarily. In many ways, DIY estate planning is the worst choice you can make for the people you love because you think you’ve got it covered, when you most certainly do not. A local attorney and father, Marc Garlett is on a mission to help parents protect what they love most. His office is located at 55 Auburn Avenue, Sierra Madre, CA 91024. Schedule an appointment to sit down and talk about ensuring a legacy of love and financial security for your family by calling 626.355.4000 or visit www.GarlettLaw.com for more information. The Library Book by Susan Orlean On the morning of April 28, 1986, a fire alarm sounded in the Los Angeles Public Library. As the moments passed, the patrons and staff who had been cleared out of the building realized this was not the usual fire alarm. As one fireman recounted, “Once that first stack got going, it was ‘Goodbye, Charlie.’” The fire was disastrous: it reached 2000 degrees and burned for more than seven hours. By the time it was extinguished, it had consumed four hundred thousand books and damaged seven hundred thousand more. Investigators descended on the scene, but more than thirty years later, the mystery remains: Did someone purposefully set fire to the library—and if so, who? Weaving her lifelong love of books and reading into an investigation of the fire, bestselling author Susan Orlean delivers a mesmerizing and uniquely compelling book that manages to tell the broader story of libraries and librarians in a way that has never been done before. In The book, Orlean chronicles the LAPL fire and its aftermath to showcase the larger, crucial role that libraries play in our lives; delves into the evolution of libraries across the country and around the world, from their humble beginnings as a metropolitan charitable initiative to their current status as a cornerstone of national identity; brings each department of the library to vivid life through on-the-ground reporting; studies arson and attempts to burn a copy of a book herself; reflects on her own experiences in libraries; and reexamines the case of Harry Peak, the blond-haired actor long suspected of setting fire to the LAPL more than thirty years ago. Along the way, Orlean introduces us to an unforgettable cast of characters from libraries past and present— from Mary Foy, who in 1880 at eighteen years old was named the head of the Los Angeles Public Library at a time when men still dominated the role, to Dr. C.J.K. Jones, a pastor, citrus farmer, and polymath known as “The Human Encyclopedia” who roamed the library dispensing information; from Charles Lummis, a wildly eccentric journalist and adventurer who was determined to make the L.A. library one of the best in the world, to the current staff, who do heroic work every day to ensure that their institution remains a vital part of the city it serves. Brimming with her signature wit, insight, compassion, and talent for deep research, The book is Susan Orlean’s thrilling journey through the stacks that reveals how these beloved institutions provide much more than just books— and why they remain an essential part of the heart, mind, and soul of our country. It is also a master journalist’s reminder that, perhaps especially in the digital era, they are more necessary than ever. Leadership: In Turbulent Times by Doris Kearns Goodwin In this culmination of five decades of acclaimed studies in presidential history, Pulitzer Prize-winning author Doris Kearns Goodwin offers an illuminating exploration of the early development, growth, and exercise of leadership. Are leaders born or made? Where does ambition come from? How does adversity affect the growth of leadership? Does the leader make the times or do the times make the leader? In Leadership, Goodwin draws upon the four presidents she has studied most closely—Abraham Lincoln, Theodore Roosevelt, Franklin D. Roosevelt, and Lyndon B. Johnson (in civil rights)—to show how they recognized leadership qualities within themselves and were recognized as leaders by others. By looking back to their first entries into public life, we encounter them at a time when their paths were filled with confusion, fear, and hope. Leadership tells the story of how they all collided with dramatic reversals that disrupted their lives and threatened to shatter forever their ambitions. Nonetheless, they all emerged fitted to confront the contours and dilemmas of their times. No common pattern describes the trajectory of leadership. Although set apart in background, abilities, and temperament, these men shared a fierce ambition and a deep-seated resilience that enabled them to surmount uncommon hardships. At their best, all four were guided by a sense of moral purpose. At moments of great challenge, they were able to summon their talents to enlarge the opportunities and lives of others. Presidents of War by Michael Beschloss From a preeminent presidential historian comes a groundbreaking and often surprising saga of America’s wartime chief executives. Ten years in the research and writing, Presidents of War is a fresh, magisterial, intimate look at a procession of American leaders as they took the nation into conflict and mobilized their country for victory. It brings us into the room as they make the most difficult decisions that face any President, at times sending hundreds of thousands of American men and women to their deaths. From James Madison and the War of 1812 to recent times, we see them struggling with Congress, the courts, the press, their own advisors and antiwar protesters; seeking comfort from their spouses, families and friends; and dropping to their knees in prayer. We come to understand how these Presidents were able to withstand the pressures of war—both physically and emotionally—or were broken by them.Beschloss’s interviews with surviving participants in the drama and his findings in original letters, diaries, once-classified national security documents, and other sources help him to tell this story in a way it has not been told before. Presidents of War combines the sense of being there with the overarching context of two centuries of American history. This important book shows how far we have traveled from the time of our Founders, who tried to constrain presidential power, to our modern day, when a single leader has the potential to launch nuclear weapons that can destroy much of the human race. All Things By Jeff Brown SLEEP DEPRIVED TEENAGERS Teenagers who don’t get enough sleep are more likely to engage in risky and even suicidal behavior, according to a new study. Researchers examined surveys completed by 68,000 high school students between 2007 and 2015. They found that, compared with teenagers that got the recommended minimum of 8 hours sleep a night or more, students who slept less than 6 hours were twice as likely to drink alcohol, smoke, use drugs, or engage in risky sexual behavior. They where also 3 times more likely to engage in self harm and consider or attempt suicide. Those whose slept 6-7 hours a night were also more likely to engage in unsafe behaviors than those who hit the 8 hour mark; overall, more than 70% of the students weren’t getting the recommended 8 to 10 hours. Lead author Matthew Weaver, from the Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston, tells Reuters.com it’s possible that sleep deprivation may cause changes in the brain that led to” more impulsive and emotionally driven decisions.” CREATIVE ARTS GROUP’S 2018 ANNUAL ART FESTIVAL Calling all art lovers, discriminating shoppers and those who enjoy a festive fall evening under the November stars. Creative Arts Group is proud to present its annual Art Festival in the charming foothill village of Sierra Madre. More than 60 artists will be represented in a variety of media including oil, watercolor, acrylic, enameling, ceramics, metal work, sculpture, batik, jewelry, mosaics, assemblage, wood-working, mixed media and more. Free-form to functional, primitive to refined, contemporary art embodying a variety of styles and disciplines will be available. The festival kicks off with an opening reception from 7-9 pm, Friday, November, 2nd, and includes a student sale in addition to the juried artists. Come and enjoy an evening of entertainment provided by acoustic guitarist, Mark Achoff, tasty hors d’ouevres and libations, and art demonstrations in a lively and convivial atmosphere. Meet the artists and learn first-hand the techniques and inspiration for their unique work. Discover one-of-a-kind gifts for everyone on your holiday list. Festival continues Saturday from 10 – 5pm and Sunday from 11 – 4 pm. Creative Arts Group is a non-profit art center offering classes, workshops and events to those in the San Gabriel Valley and beyond. Creative Arts Group is located at 108 N. Baldwin Ave. in Sierra Madre. For more information go to creativeartsgroup.org. HEALTHY LIFESTYLES TRY LAUGHING Yoga is ultimately a practice of building awareness. It invites the student to find individual awareness and environmental awareness. This covers everything from our family and work environment to the actual forces of nature and seasons. They all play a huge role in our life and affect how we feel. Think about the windstorm that just occurred. It sure blew things around - it caused allergies for many people, and the force itself disrupted the flow of the day. Did you notice a sense of agitation? The environment plays a significant role in shaping our emotional state. This is important to recognize. Is important to recognize for two reasons. First, so we are aware and can cultivate an opposite balancing action. (i.e. if I am agitated, I can soothe the agitation with calm) And second, so that we can stay healthy. Positiveor negative emotions affect our health and chemistry. Let’s look at Joy-- just one of the emotions held in body and mind. It happens to be an emotion of the elements of fire and water – many times originating from the seat of fire within the belly. Many times, when we are joyful, there is laughter. The very act of laughing causes us to engage our belly muscles and draws energy to the center. Sometimes we are laughing so hard we must grab our belly! This is activating to the energy system. Levels of serotonin increase and levels of cortisol decrease. It is a healing experience to laugh. It changes everything! In Peter Marchands book, The Yoga of the Nine Emotions, he describes the effects of Joy, or Hasya, in the body, “Hasya is very healthy and rejuvenating. It reduces tension, anger, fear, or depression and helps in digestion. Indian people have the healthy habit of always telling jokes after a meal. The fire element produced aids the digestive fire. Humor and Joy also improve our immunity against infections and strengthen our cardiovascular system.” This wisdom is telling us to laugh more and to experience more joy and kama (pleasure). It helps digestion and brings happiness. Environments which bring joy and laughter are nourishing. Slowly, built up tension can be eased away. The physical practice of yoga helps too. If you are normally more uptight, yoga helps loosen your body and mind. If you are less serious and more easy going by nature, it can give you an avenue for discipline and internal insight. Either way, stay alert to how the outside affects the inside and move in the direction of balance. Namaste, Keely Totten, Yoga & Meditation Teacher, Joyful Leader, www.keelytotten.com THE MISSING PAGE Real Life Tips from LIfe's Instruction Manual AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER-AFFIRMATIVE THOUGHT Two weeks ago I shared two of the five steps of affirmative prayer. Each of the world's five most popular traditions includes an aspect of prayer or communion with Spirit. Sometimes we think of prayer as a form of begging and beseeching for something that we lack. Instead, allow me to introduce to you to another approach. Rather than pleading for what you want, instead proclaim your desire in present tense as the truth of your being. As in Joel 3:10: "let the weak say, I am strong." It's time that you remind yourself of the truth about you and the truth of your nature. You are connected and created by the Infinite. Stay in alignment with this fundamental truth. We think thousands of thoughts each day, we have a constant internal dialogue running in our minds. Most of the ideas floating around inside us are negative, but that need not be the case. We can decide to guide our thoughts in the direction of our hearts desires. Stop feeding your fears. In this third step in affirmative thought today, you learn to tell yourself the truth. Affirm the truth even in the presence of facts that look limiting. You can look at the facts, but don’t let the facts determine your choices. You don’t get a choice in whether you will think today, but you do get a choice in whether you will use your thoughts constructively. No matter what the facts are, you are more than that because you are one with life. The final two steps are thanksgiving. Be grateful for this realization of truth and then release it. Free yourself of further concern or worry, it is done. My prayer for you: Recognizing that there is only one Life. That Life is present everywhere and in everything. I am so happy grateful for this realization, knowing that this Life lives, moves and has its being in, through, as me, I celebrate my union with the only Life that is. Just this union is true for me, it is true for each of the readers. I know that each of the readers of this paper is divinely blessed. Their lives are an expression of the Most High. In this awareness, I claim for them perfect health, peace and joy. I am so grateful for this awareness of truth. I release this word, knowing that it is done, and so it is. Amen. Lori A. Harris is a lawyer and coach. She helps people live lives that they love living. If you would want more life, contact her a lori@loriaharris.com. Lori A. 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