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B2 ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESS NEWS & TRENDS Mountain Views-News Saturday, December 15, 2018 Jeff’s Book Pics By Jeff Brown FAMILY MATTERS By Marc Garlett SAVING WHAT MATTERS: 12 MUST-HAVE ITEMS TO PACK IN YOUR GO-BAG It’s the middle of the night. The authorities just notified you that you have 20 minutes to evacuate your home before a raging wildfire cuts off the exit from your neighborhood, leaving you trapped. The fire is advancing at the rate of a football field every second, so the actions you take in the next few moments will determine whether you and your family can get to safety or not. While this may sound like a scene from a blockbuster disaster movie, it’s the very scenario faced by many California families recently. And it’s a possibility we should all be ready to face. Be ready to go I’ve always believed the responsibility for protecting my family lies squarely with me. I may not be able to count on, or in the worst of circumstances even hope for, outside help. If I can’t shelter in place and protect my family, evacuation is my Plan B. And as the recent wildfires should remind us all, when you have mere minutes to evacuate, you won’t have time to think about what you should bring with you to survive the days—or weeks—to come. To be optimally prepared, have a “go-bag” on-hand packed with the essential items needed to survive for AT LEAST three days following a disaster. While numerous online retailers sell fully equipped go-bags for such emergencies, and both FEMA and the American Red Cross provide checklists to help you pack your own, I’m providing a basic summary of the most-recommended supplies here. 1) ID and other essential documents: Bring copies of your passport, driver’s license, and/or state ID card and store them in a sealed Ziplock bag. Other documents to consider packing include the deed to your home, vehicle titles/ registration, printed maps, and a recent family photo with faces clearly visible for easy identification. 2) Cash: Carry at least $250 in relatively small bills and keep it with your ID in a waterproof bag. 3) Shelter: A lightweight tent, along with mylar emergency blankets can help keep you warm and dry no matter where you must spend the night. 4) Water and filter: One gallon of water per person per day is a good estimate of needs. Bring as much bottled water as possible, but also include a water purification straw and/ or purification tablets, along with a steel container to boil water in. 5) A multi-tool: These modern-day cousins to the Swiss Army knife come with a wide array of essential tools, from a knife and screwdriver to tweezers and a can opener. 6) First-aid kit and prescription medications: Whether you buy one ready-made or pack your own, the likelihood of injury skyrockets in the wake disasters, so not having a first-aid kit can make a bad situation worse. And don’t forget to include prescription medications and other life- sustaining medical supplies if needed. 7) Light: Flashlights with extra batteries are great, but headlamps are even better because they’re ultra-compact and leave your hands free. 8) Fire: Fire can keep you warm, purify water, and cook food. I keep a plasma lighter, waterproof matches, a small portable stove, fuel and tinder in my personal go-bag. 9) Solar-powered emergency radio and cellphone charger: Without power, you’ll need a way to stay in touch with the outside world. Today you can find devices that include a combination radio, cell-phone charger, and flashlight all in one, with the extra option of hand-cranked power to keep things charged even in the dark. 10) Sanitary items: Pack toilet paper, baby wipes, hand sanitizer, soap, as well as tampons and/or pads if needed. 11) Clothes: You only need enough clothes to keep you warm and comfortable for a few days, so don’t try to bring your entire wardrobe. Stick to essentials like underwear, socks, extra shoes, a jacket, a poncho, a hat, and gloves. 12) Food: Focus on high-protein, high-caloric foods that will give you the energy you need to live and get from point A to point B. The most recommended options include, energy bars, MREs (Meals-Ready-to-Eat), freeze-dried survival food, and meal-replacement shakes. Stay totally safe and secure While go-bags are a critical part of helping your family survive the immediate aftermath of a natural disaster or other emergency, they’re just a start. For instance, this list doesn’t address any of your precious sentimental items, such as photos, old love letters, and treasured cards from the past. Nor does it mention estate planning documents or insurance policies. Copies of your insurance policies and estate planning documents should be uploaded to the cloud and stored online. You should also store sentimentals, like family histories and photos online, so you don’t have to worry about packing any of that in the event of a natural disaster. Indeed, safely storing your sentimentals online is so important, we are constantly innovating ways to help our clients do more of this. Of course, to keep your family totally safe and secure, you’ll need to make sure you have the right insurance coverage and necessary legal documents in place to cover possible emergency contingencies. Contact us if you have questions about what you need or how we can support you. Dedicated to empowering your family, building your wealth and defining your legacy, A local attorney and father, Marc Garlett is on a mission to help parents protect what they love most. His office is located at 55 Auburn Avenue, Sierra Madre, CA 91024. Schedule an appointment to sit down and talk about ensuring a legacy of love and financial security for your family by calling 626.355.4000 or visit www.GarlettLaw.com for more information. Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover ONE OF TIME’S TEN BEST NONFICTION BOOKS OF 2018 An unforgettable memoir about a young girl who, kept out of school, leaves her survivalist family and goes on to earn a PhD from Cambridge University.“Beautiful and propulsive . . . Despite the singularity of [Tara Westover’s] childhood, the questions her book poses are universal: How much of ourselves should we give to those we love? And how much must we betray them to grow up?”—Vogue Born to survivalists in the mountains of Idaho, Tara Westover was seventeen the first time she set foot in a classroom. Her family was so isolated from mainstream society that there was no one to ensure the children received an education, and no one to intervene when one of Tara’s older brothers became violent. When another brother got himself into college, Tara decided to try a new kind of life. Her quest for knowledge transformed her, taking her over oceans and across continents, to Harvard and to Cambridge University. Only then would she wonder if she’d traveled too far, if there was still a way home. The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah Alaska, 1974. Unpredictable. Unforgiving. Untamed. For a family in crisis, the ultimate test of survival. Ernt Allbright, a former POW, comes home from the Vietnam war a changed and volatile man. When he loses yet another job, he makes an impulsive decision: he will move his family north, to Alaska, where they will live off the grid in America’s last true frontier. Thirteen-year-old Leni, a girl coming of age in a tumultuous time, caught in the riptide of her parents’ passionate, stormy relationship, dares to hope that a new land will lead to a better future for her family. She is desperate for a place to belong. Her mother, Cora, will do anything and go anywhere for the man she loves, even if means following him into the unknown. At first, Alaska seems to be the answer to their prayers. In a wild, remote corner of the state, they find a fiercely independent community of strong men and even stronger women. The long, sunlit days and the generosity of the locals make up for the Allbrights’ lack of preparation and dwindling resources. But as winter approaches and darkness descends on Alaska, Ernt’s fragile mental state deteriorates and the family begins to fracture. Soon the perils outside pale in comparison to threats from within. In their small cabin, covered in snow, blanketed in 18 hours of night, Leni and her mother learn the terrible truth: they are on their own. In the wild, there is no one to save them but themselves. In this unforgettable portrait of human frailty and resilience, the book reveals the indomitable character of the modern American pioneer and the spirit of a vanishing Alaska-- a place of incomparable beauty and danger. The Great Alone is a daring, beautiful, stay-up-all-night story about love and loss, the fight for survival, and the wildness that lives in both man and nature. A Good Man, a Great Dad and a Loving Husband: Every Man’s Guide to a Brilliant Life by Bradley Brown “In this book you will find common- sense approaches to help you to be a good man, a great dad and a loving husband. I have invested 55 years into researching this book. Like any good scientist, trial and error have played a major part in my findings. Wisdom is about learning from what we have done or what others before us have experienced and evolving as a result.” Brad Brown.’ Over the years I’ve had the privilege of interviewing thousands of business people, leaders, visionaries and entrepreneurs. Bradley has always been someone who has stood out for me as a genuine, caring person who is grounded in reality, and achieving extraordinary results as a consequence. Widely recognized as a pioneer and innovator when it comes to human resource management and leading organizational change, Bradley has achieved results in his professional life that many others only will ever dream about. He has led numerous companies within various industries over the past three decades to have phenomenal increases in revenue, profit and staff numbers, while simultaneously transforming their workplace cultures. I wholeheartedly recommend this book for anyone intent on pursuing their passion both professionally and personally, and learning how to lead a brilliant life, even if it’s against all odds.’ Lee Woodward CEO, Real Estate Academy. Look for the hardback on Amazon.com/scroll down on Amazon to find it. All reviews are from Amazon. All Things By Jeff Brown BOOKS! “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies . . . The man who never reads lives only one.” – George R.R. Martin “So many books, so little time.”– Frank Zappa “A room without books is like a body without a soul.” – Marcus Tullius Cicero “Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.” – Mark Twain “A great book should leave you with many experiences, and slightly exhausted at the end. You live several lives while reading.” – William Styron “Books are my friends, my companions. They make me laugh and cry and find meaning in life.” - Christopher Paolini, Eragon “In a good bookroom you feel in some mysterious way that you are absorbing the wisdom contained in all the books through your skin, without even opening them.” - Mark Twain “I read a book one day and my whole life was changed.” – Orhan Pamuk HEALTHY LIFESTYLES HOLIDAY YOGA The holidays can be an intense time with extra parties, errands, and visits with people we don’t see often. It can be overwhelming. Conversely, a lack of these extra events/ merriment can bring its own set of emotions. During this time, it’s best to figure out how to dial down the intensity and stay centered. Yoga is the perfect remedy. I’m happy to share a few essential holiday yoga poses: For energy, try Utkatasana, or chair pose. On the inhalation, bring the arms in line with the ears. On the exhalation, bend knees and sit in a chair that’s not there. Don’t go too deep, and try to keep the chin tucked in but eyes lifted up straight ahead. Stay in the pose for just the inhale and exhale, release, unbend knees, come to stand. Try a few more times dynamically and then hold the pose, breathing steadily. For grounding and balance, try Prasarita Padottanasana. It’s a wide-leg forward fold. Step the feet about 3 1/2 - 4 feet apart and have the feet point straight ahead. On the exhalation, soften knees slightly and fold over between your legs. Take several steady breaths here. Try to draw shoulder blades together on your back to not over-round the back. Release the neck too, then release from the pose entirely after 8 breaths or so. For centering, try Supta Matsyendrasana, a simple supine twist. Come to lie on your back and draw knees to chest. With knees to chest, roll over completely to one side (fetal position). Then, open up the top arm and look toward the arm that is outstretched. Hold steady for several breaths. Make sure to do both sides. For added centering, add a little abdominal work such as a low boat pose or something similar. For digestion and to ease tension in the lower back, try Apanasana. Lie on your back and draw knees to chest. Stay for several breaths and feel free to move a little to massage the lower back. In whatever you do, remember to BREATHE. It’s the connection — the gateway— between inside and outside, body and mind, and mind and energy. Breathing with intention and steadiness will bring calm. Please don’t hesitate to reach out, keely@keelytotten.com or see current events at www.keelytotten.com. Namaste, Keely Totten, Yoga & Meditation Teacher THE MISSING PAGE Real Life Tips from LIfe's Instruction Manual CREATE MEMORIES December can be stressful. As parents, good friends, and partners we are tempted to overindulge. Sometimes we overeat, we spend too much money, or we talk too much. Some of you hate the holidays because you feel pressure. What causes you to feel pressured? Are you concerned about having an awkward conversation at a holiday meal? Do you worry about overextending yourself purchasing extravagant gifts? Are you concerned about putting on another five pounds? I invite you to return to your mindfulness practice. Rather than getting caught in an endless cycle of spending and consuming, stop. Decide who you want to be this holiday season and how you will interact with your family and friends. It is an excellent time to remember your power of making an advanced decision. It's time to flip the script. Decide how you want to feel this holiday season and what kind of memories you want to create. Your lover may not remember the noise canceling headphones that you charged on your credit card, but I suspect they will love if you made a picnic on the living room floor with all of their favorite snacks. Considering creating a unique activity for your loved ones instead of buying another object to toss in the closet. Make pancakes and let your kids add the berries or chocolate chips. Think of activities that you love and would love to share. It's fun to fellowship around the table, but it doesn't feel great to overeat. This year try letting everyone else go first in serving themselves. Take time to inquire about your dinner companions and what's new with them. Decide now not to take offense at anyone's comments or conversations, give the gift of giving your dinner mates the benefit of the doubt. Decide now that you won't take anything personally. Deliberately slow down while you eat. Put your fork down between bites and chew your food thoroughly. Make a goal of creating a connection and helping your fellow diners feel seen and heard. This holiday season make it your goal to create a great memory. Lori A. Harris is an author, speaker, and coach. She loves helping people live extraordinary lives. She offers individual and group coaching programs at www. loriaharris.com Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||