THE CONVERSATIONS.. Talking About The Things That Are On Our Mind
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Mountain Views News Saturday, October 3, 2020
LETTER TO THE EDITOR:
PORTRAIT OF OUR NEIGHBORS by Stuart Tolchin
JEANNETTE ESPINOZA
Jeannette Espinoza is
an Independent Living Skills
Instructor with brightly colored
red hair which reaches half-way
down her shoulders. I say “How
do you do it? You look like
you’re always enjoying yourself.”
She says “I love my job!” As
an Independent Living Skills
Instructor” she provides services
to disabled adults who receive
Social Security payments (SSA).
Her specific duties are to assist
with transportation to medical
appointments and pharmacies.
She helps her clients by sorting
their medications and stays in
constant contact with them
so they do not skip taking
their pills. If her client has an
operation, she will be there for
them. She helps with their grocery
shopping, and reminds them
about personal hygiene. She tries
as hard as she can to make her
clients happy, and healthy, and
to be sure that they are not being
taken advantage of. She describes
herself as often acting like a Court
Jester, doing anything, “to put a
smile in their hearts.”
One of the great advantages of her position, she says, is that her relationship with
her clients is often long term. She has known some clients for a decade or more. Successes
in these relationships is observable in “baby-steps” as she sees them improve “little by little”
as they become less isolated or depressed and willing to utilize resources that are available.
Of course, at this time during the pandemic most of these resources are not functioning and
it is very tough on her clients. She admits to bonding with her clients and seriously cares
about their welfare and their future. This, despite the fact, that her supervisors emphasize
that no personal attachment should be formed with her “consumers”. Frankly, she says this is
impossible and that a big part of her job is caring. She emphasizes to me that she does not act
as a “parent” but rather as resource of support. She informs her clients about resources or jobs
but has no authority to direct her clients to do anything.
Jeanette’s journey to becoming an Independent Skills Instructor was unusual. Her
early ambition was to be a game warden. She loves the outdoors and animals. Growing up she
went camping, hunting, and fishing with her parents. Police work was also of interest, and she
described the duties of a game warden like a police person in the forest. So at age thirty, as her
sons were old enough to allow her to go to College, she began taking courses to prepare for
this position when she was involved in a terrible auto accident.
She knew her injuries would make it impossible for her to pass the physical
requirements to be a policemen or a game warden. Still she wanted to be of help and could
not imagine working in an office. As a part of her recovery she became involved in tai chi and
later taught classes. When she was finally able she became a volunteer at Senior Centers and
Schools for ten years. Fortunately, her sister became a supervisor within the ILSI program
and directed Jeanette to the classes necessary to qualify for the position. She also explained
that most of her skills result from On the Job Training which has taught her never to preach
to people and by all means to treat her clients with respect and to likewise expect to be treated
with respect. In her thirteen years on the job she has rarely felt that her relationship with
a client was not positive and on those rare occasions she has requested that the client be
provided with another worker.
I learned from this interview that one of the keys to satisfaction is to recognize early
what your interests are and to adapt to the inevitable obstacles that appear but to not lose sight
of what you want to do. It is not the salary or the prestige of a job that is important but rather
how that job coincides with your own vision of yourself.
President Trump’s announcement early Friday that he had contracted the coronavirus upended
the presidential race in an instant, inviting significant questions about his cavalier attitude toward
the pan-demic and the future of his campaign just 32 days before the election.
Mr. Trump had already been trailing Joseph R. Biden Jr. in the polls, in part because of his mishandling
of a virus that has unsettled the day-to-day lives of voters for over six months. The president
com-pounded his difficulties by disregarding and at times belittling the basic precautions, such
as wearing a mask, that his health advisers were urging Americans to take to protect themselves.
Now, though, his personal indifference toward the virus could threaten his own health, the stability
of the country and his already dimming hopes for re-election.
Strategists in both parties and even senior aides to Mr. Trump said the president would face a
harsh judgment from voters for throwing the country into greater uncertainty after one of the
most trying years in American history.
JB, Sierra Madre
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