Mountain Views-News Saturday, April 30, 2022
SPECIALIZED MOVING SERVICES THAT HELP SENIORS DOWNSIZE
AND RELOCATE
Dear Savvy Senior:
Can you recommend any businesses or services that specialize in helping seniors downsize and relocate? I need
to find some help moving my mother from her four-bedroom home – where she’s lived for nearly 50 years – to
an apartment near me. Overwhelmed Daughter
Dear Overwhelmed:
The process of downsizing and moving to a new home
is a big job for anyone, but it can be especially overwhelming
for seniors who are moving from a longtime
residence filled with decade’s worth of stuff and
a lifetime of memories. Fortunately, there’s a specialized
service available today that can help make your
mom’s move a lot easier for her, and for you.
Senior Move Manager
To help your mom get packed up and moved into her new home, you should consider hiring a “senior
move manager.” These are trained organizers (they are not moving companies) who assist older people
with the challenges of relocating and can minimize the stress of this major transition by doing most of
the work for you.
A senior move manager can help your mom pare down her belongings, decide what to take and what to
dispose of, recommend charities for donations and help sell her unwanted items. They can even create a
customized floor plan of her new home so your mom can visualize where her belongings will fit.
Senior move managers can also get estimates from moving companies, oversee the movers, arrange the
move date, supervise the packing and unpacking and help set up her new home, have the house cleaned
and just about anything you need related to her move.
If you want to do some of the work yourself, you can pick and choose only the services you want. For
example, you may only want a move manager’s help with downsizing and selling excess furniture and
unwanted belongings but plan on doing the actual packing and moving yourself.
The cost of working with a senior move manager will vary depending on where you live, the services
you want and size of the move, but you can expect to pay somewhere between $60 and $125 per hour or
more, not including the cost of movers.
How to Find One
To locate a senior move manager in your area, visit the National Association of Senior Move Managers
website at NASMM.org or call 877-606-2766. The NASMM is a trade association with an accreditation
program that requires its members to abide by a strict code of ethics that ensures integrity. They currently
have around 1,000 members across the U.S.
You can also search at Caring Transitions (CaringTransitions.com), which is the largest senior relocation
and transition services franchised company in the U.S. They currently have nearly 200 franchises
throughout the country.
But, before you hire one, be sure you ask for references from previous clients and check them, and check
with the Better Business Bureau too. Also find out how many moves they have actually managed and get
a written list of services and fees. And make sure they’re insured and bonded.
If you can’t find a senior move manager in your area, another option is to hire a certified professional
organizer who specializes in downsizing and relocating. To find one, check the National Association of
Productivity and Organizing Professionals, which has a searchable database on its website at NAPO.net.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.
org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.
FAMILY MATTERS
By Marc Garlett
HOW NAMING GUARDIANS FOR YOUR KIDS IN
YOUR WILL CAN LEAVE THEM AT RISK
If you are a mom or dad with children under the age of 18 at home, your
number-one estate planning priority should be selecting and legally documenting
both long and short-term guardians for your kids. Guardians are
the people legally named to care for your children in the event something
happens to you.
A Far Too Common Problem
If you’ve only named guardians for your children in your will (the standard way most estate planners
do it), your children could be vulnerable to being taken out of your home and placed in the care of
strangers. This might be temporary, while the authorities figure out what to do, or they could even
end up being raised to adulthood by someone you’d never choose.
While it’s rare for something to happen to both parents of a minor child, it does occur, and the consequences
are simply too severe to not take the few simple steps to select and legally name guardians
the right way. Regardless of whether you own any other assets or wealth, it’s vital to complete this
process immediately, so you know the ones you care about most—your kids—will always be in the
care of people you’ve chosen, no matter what.
What’s So Complicated About Naming Guardians?
Naming and legally documenting guardians for your kids might seem like a straightforward process,
but it entails several complexities most people simply do not think about. Even lawyers with decades
of experience typically make at least one of six mistakes when naming long-term legal guardians.
If you named legal guardians for your kids in your will—whether on your own using a do-it-yourself
(DIY) online document service or with the help of another lawyer—consider each of the following
scenarios to see if you have a blind spot in your estate plan that would leave your kids at risk:
Did you name back-up candidates in case your first choice of guardian is unable to serve? If so,
how many back-ups did you name?
If you named a married couple to serve and one of them is unavailable due to injury, death, or
divorce, what happens then? Would it still be okay if only one of them can serve as your child’s guardian?
And does it matter which one it is?
What would happen if you became incapacitated by illness or injury and are unable to care for
your kids? You might assume the guardians named in your will would automatically get custody, but
did you know that a will only goes into effect upon your death and does nothing to protect your kids in
the event of your incapacity? Have you created a guardianship plan that goes into effect if you become
incapacitated?
Do the guardians you named live far from your home? If so, how long would it take them to
make it to your house to pick up your kids: a few hours, a few days, or even a few weeks? Who would
care for your kids until those guardians arrive? Did you know that without legally binding arrangements
for the immediate care of your children, may be placed in foster care until those named guardians
arrive?
Would your care providers know where to find your will and other legal documents if you didn’t
make it home? If not, what would the authorities do while they tried to figure out who should care for
your kids?
If you named a family who live nearby as guardians, what happens if they are out of town or
otherwise can’t get to your kids right away?
Assuming the guardians you named can immediately get to your home to pick up your kids, do
they know where your will is located? How will they prove they are the people you wanted named as
your children’s legal guardians if they can’t find your estate planning documents?
The Kids Protection Plan®
These are just a few of the potential complications that can arise when naming legal guardians for
your kids, whether in your will or as a stand-alone measure. And if just one of these contingencies
were to occur, your children would needlessly suffer emotionally, even if just for a short period of
time.
If the idea of this is as frightening to you as it was to me when I discovered it, you should consider
implementing a Kids Protection Plan® which provides parents of minor children with a wide array of
legal planning tools—including legal documents to name short- and long-term guardians, instructions
for those guardians, medical powers of attorney for your minor children, an ID card for your
wallet, and much more—to make sure there is never a question about who will take care of your kids
if you are in an accident or suffer some other life-threatening incident.
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …APRIL Birthdays*
Howard Rubin, Anita Hardy, Hattie Harris, Wendy Senou, Mary Harley, Bette
White, Doris Behrens, Freda Bernard, Beth Copti, Terri Cummings, Marilyn
Diaz, Virginia Elliott, Elma Flores, Betty Jo Gregg, Barbara Lampman, Betty
Mackie, Elizabeth Rassmusen, Maria Reyes, Marian DeMars, Anne Schryver,
Chrisine Bachwansky, Colleen McKernan, Sandy Swanson, Hank Landsberg,
Ken Anhalt, Shannon Vandevelde
* To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737.
YEAR of birth not required
THE HART PARK HOUSE SENIOR CENTER IS OPEN!!!!
SIERRA MADRE SENIOR CLUB Every Saturday from 11:30am-3:30 pm in the
Hart Park House Senior Center. Join us as we celebrate birthdays, holidays and pay
BINGO. Must be 50+ to join. For more information call Mark at 626-355-3951.
DOMINOES TRAIN GAME Wednesday, 4/6 & 4/20 11:00 am— 12:30 pm Hart
Park House The object of the game is for a player to play all the tiles from their hand
onto one or more trains, emanating from a central hub or “station”. Call Lawren with
questions that you may have.
PAINT PALS
Tuesday, 4/12 & 4/26,, 10:30 am—Hart Park House If you enjoy painting, sketching,
water color, or making some other form of artistic creation please join our new
program, PAINT PALS!!! Bring a project that you are working on to the HPH and
enjoy some quality art time with other artists looking to paint with a new pal.
TEA AND TALK SENIOR BOOK CLUB Tuesday, 4/6 & 4/20— 9:00 am Staff has
launched a new book club series, Tea and Talk, which meets twice a month to discuss
the fun, suspense, intrigue, love and so much more that each selection will have in
store!
FIBER FRIENDS Tuesday, 4/5 & 4/19 —10:00 am If you enjoy knitting, crocheting,
embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or cross stitch then we have a
group for you! Bring your current project, a nonalcoholic beverage, then sit and chat
with likeminded fiber friends. We meet in the Hart Park House
BINGO Tuesday 4/12 and 4/16 1:00 pm- 2:00 pm Come on down to enjoy this
time with friends. We are trying a new spin on BINGO fun so please bring your good
luck charms and BINGO markers!
TAX ASSISTANCE WEDNESDAYS 1:00 -2:00PM LAST DAY APRIL 6TH Don
Brunner is available for income tax consultation. Please call 626-355-5278 x 704
CHAIR YOGA Every Monday and Wednesday, 10-10:45 am Please join us for some
gentle stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall relaxation with Paul. Classes are
ongoing and held in the Memorial Park Covered Pavilion or the Hart Park House..
HULA AND POLYNESIAN DANCE Every Friday, 10-10:45 am Bring a lei, your
flower skirt or just your desire to dance! Hula in the Park is back and waiting for you
to join in on all the fun! Memorial Park Pavilion.
SENIOR CINEMA WEDNESDAY, 4/13 1:00 PM EASTER PARADE PG 1H 43M
Don Hewes and Nadine Hale are a dancing team, but she decides to start a career on her own.
So he takes the next dancer he meets, Hannah Brown, as a new partner. After a while, this new
team is so successful that Florenz Ziegfeld is interested in them, but due to the fact that Nadine
Hale also dances (and stars) in the Ziegfeld Follies, Don says no. Despite the fact that he is in
love with Hannah, he keeps the relation with her strictly business. So Hannah is of the opinion
that he is still in love with Nadine, and her suspicion grows when he dances with Nadine in a
Night Club Floor Show.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
MAYBE WE SHOULD GO BACK TO SMOKE
SIGNAL COMMUNICATIONS.
I must admit that commu
nication is an essential part
of my life today. The longer
I live, the more sophisticated those communications
become, and it’s challenging to me.
Recently, I was working on my latest book using
my latest computer and its programs. As
I was working, I remembered that I did not
always use a computer for writing. I used one
of those archaic machines called the "typewriter."
Does anybody today know what a
typewriter is?
I still remember my first typewriter. My
mother got it for me for Christmas one year
and I couldn't have been happier with any
Christmas gift than that one.
I hammered out many articles and even poems.
I wished I had copies of those, but I'm
glad I lost them. I'm sure those were the worst
poems ever hammered out on a typewriter.
I got an electric typewriter after graduating
from high school and thought I had died and
gone to heaven. I've never been able to type
faster than on that electric typewriter.
The problem I've had with those typewriters
was, if I made a mistake, I had to throw
out that page and start all over again,. Yes, I
had carbon copies, but I still had to start all
over again. How frustrating that was in many
regards.
While I was writing my first book, I thought
maybe I should up grade to a computer. I had
to think long and hard about that because I
loved my typewriter. Eventually, I succumbed
to the times and bought a computer.
Those first computers did not have any internal
hard drives and everything had to be
done on a 5.5-inch floppy disk. When I got
my computer and learned how to use it, I was
ecstatic. I didn't mind putting in the floppy
disk and taking it out and replacing it with
another floppy disk. That seemed to be easy
work at the time. I never had to throw away a
sheet of paper and start over again.
Over the years, I kept climbing the ladder of
technology and got the latest computer technology
and was quite happy with it.
Now I can sit in front of my computer screen
and dictate what I'm writing. There's a keyboard
there, and I only use it when I have an
emergency. But now, I can talk everything
into my computer, which has become a great
experience for me.
When I first used this dictating program, The
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage was in the
other room listening. Finally, she said, "Who
are you talking to? There's no phone in your
room."
It took a while to explain to her that I was talking
to my computer while writing an article.
She never heard of that before, and I never
did either. Finally, I was able to convince her
that it was the computer I was talking to. Who
else would listen to me?
Things have developed over the years that
are beyond my imagination. In our home, we
have the latest media service, TV, telephone,
and Internet service.
I never knew how much I appreciated all of
this service until one day this week.
I had just finished my latest book manuscript
and was ready to email it to my publisher. My
deadline was crunching down, and I used
every minute to work on the book. I finally
finished it, got to my deadline, and was now
ready to email it.
Nothing is more satisfying than getting the
project done and sending it to the publisher.
As I set it up to email it, I suddenly realized
that everything was down. So I could not
send my manuscript out.
Just a half-hour before this, everything was
closed: the TV, cell phone, and the Internet.
So there is no way I could get this out on time.
The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage called
the company and finally got through and was
told it would be up and running by 7 p.m.
I can’t explain how frustrated I was. I checked
my temper, and it was boiling over with heat.
Probably there was some steam coming out of
my ears. I wanted to give them a piece of my
mind, but there was no way I could get it to
them. Everything was down.
It was then that I realized how important all
of this modern technology is. I didn't know
that I had built my life on technology, but, it
seems like I have done just that.
Technology is wonderful when it works.
When it doesn't work, it is the most annoying
thing in the world.
I began thinking about the days when communication
was done with smoke signals. I'm
not sure how that worked, but they were able
to convey their message across the country
with smoke signals from one mountain to the
next. But it got through, which was all that
matters.
Maybe we should go back to the good old
smoke signal communication days.
I had a few moments to think about this.
When thinking about communication a certain
verse of Scripture came to my mind.
“Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned
with salt, that ye may know how ye
ought to answer every man” (Colossians 4:6).
Sometimes it’s very important to think before
you speak and I have discovered if I do think,
I sometimes don’t speak.
Dr. James L. Snyder lives in Ocala, FL with the
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage. Telephone
1-352-216-3025, e-mail jamessnyder51@
gmail.com. Website is www.jamessnyderministries.
com.
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