Mountain Views-News Saturday, November 26, 2022
CHRISTOPHER Nyerges
DISCOVERING SANTA CLAUS
[Nyerges is an educator, and the author of several books, such as “Urban Survival Guide,” “Extreme
Simplicity,” and others. This story is extracted from Nyerges' latest book, "Watermelon
Dreams." He can be reached at www.SchoolofSelf-Reliance.com.]
Christmas was always a special time. In my very earliest memories, the religious
overtones were subtle, or not obvious, to me. I was taken to church every Sunday,
of course, but the Christmas decorations and gatherings were all something that
hap-pened at home, not at church. When I was too young to speak, I realized that
Christ-mas was the season that happened during the coldest time of the year, and it meant that we’d
have a fire going in the fireplace, people would be coming over, and there’d be lots of gifts and food.
The food was cookies, tangerines, and walnuts.
One of my earliest Christmas memories was when I was told that Santa Claus would come to
our home and bring gifts, and that he had some way to figure out where I lived. I didn’t know exactly
why, but there was a great mystery about this fat, bearded, red-suited Santa man. People spoke
about him in hushed tones, and would even sometimes stop talking about him when I came near.
My brother Tom told me that Santa Claus would come down the chimney – something I
found hard to believe considering how fat the man appeared in the pic-tures. We both peered up
into our fireplace one day and wondered how Santa could get through the narrow passageway. And
why would he choose such a difficult point of entry?
“Plus, doesn’t dad have a screen over the top of the chimney to keep the pi-geons out?” Tom
asked. I didn’t know. “I hope he remembers to remove it for Santa.”
On Christmas Eve, our dad showed us a plate of cookies and a thermos of cof-fee that had
been set out for Santa.
We barely slept, and I tried to not sleep so I could be the first to rush out and catch a glimpse of
this Santa. But I fell asleep, and Tom woke me and Rick. We jumped out of bed, and ran down the
hall. We weren’t particularly interested in gifts, but we wanted to catch a glimpse of Santa before he
whisked away back up the chim-ney. We were too late, but the three of us carefully examined the
remaining evi-dence. There were no cookies left on the plate – only crumbs – and there was only a
small amount of coffee left in the cup. Tom held the cup and carefully peered into it, and then Rick
and I stared into the cup, the proof that Santa had come and departed.
“See?” said Tom. We all continued to stare into the cup a while longer, as if it might reveal
some secrets to us.
In a few more years, I noticed that people didn’t fully hide their comments from me when
speaking about Santa Claus.
“He believes in Santa Claus?” was met with muffled response. What an odd question, I
thought. Why shouldn’t I believe in Santa Claus?
When I actually learned about this mythical aspect of Christmas, I did go through a period
of confusion and even anger at the world of make-believe perpetrated entirely by adults and foisted
upon me. I suppose I felt bad because I really wanted to believe in Santa Claus, and I felt that he
was a positive figure. And I had been told to “be good” for Santa Claus, and that Santa Claus knew
everything I was doing. I was very puzzled by all this, but I got over it.
In fact, I felt very uplifted when I learned that there was an actual historical per-son upon
which Santa Claus was based: a Catholic bishop in Asia Minor (Turkey) of the 3rd century named
Nikolaos of Myra gave gifts to poor newlyweds around Christ-mas time. A century or so later,
sainthood was bestowed upon him, and he was known as Saint Nicholas.
In honor of this very real person, people began to give gifts to others, especially others in need,
during the Christmas season and say it was “from Saint Nicholas.” What a wonderful story! What
would have been wrong with telling me that historical story rather than the garbled mythology?
BEHOLD THIS BEAUTY!
Yes! Echo
Bella is certainly
a
beauty to behold!
Her fur
is the color
of autumn,
with orange,
black, and gray with white. She's the
picture of health for her age, 15, has a
good appetite and needs no meds. She
had a very loving home, but her owners
had to move and things just didn't
work out through no fault of Bella's. She is sweet and friendly and she'd love to
be in a comfy home where she could live out her golden years in "purr bliss!"
Purr-ty please don't let this gorgeous girl spend more time in a cage. Submit
your application to start the process for a meet & greet. We know you'll fall in
love! Apply at www.lifelineforpets.org.
Pet of the Week
Sapphire is celebrating Adopt-A-Senior-PetMonth by reminding us how great “older” petscan be! Six-year-old Sapphire knows some tricks,
appears to be housebroken and is quite content toamuse herself with a chew toy that is not a shoe.
She walks very well on leash; she’s a plug-and-playdog!
This sweet senior can be a little shy with newpeople, but given a bit of time and space, she willinvestigate and decide that everything is OK.
Once she has assessed the situation, Sapphire willlean into you and put her head in your arms for
pets.
Sapphire also loves toys- tennis balls are high onher list and she loves a good squeaker. Sapphirereally is a gem!
Like all senior pets, Sapphire is eligible for the Seniors for Seniorsprogram, which means her adoption is free for any human over sixty.
The adoption fee for dogs is $150. All dog adoptions include spay or neuter,
microchip, and age-appropriate vaccines.
New adopters will receive a complimentary health-andwellness
exam from VCA Animal Hospitals, as well as a goody
bag filled with information about how to care for your pet.
View photos of adoptable pets and schedule an adoption appointment atpasadenahumane.org. Adoptions are by appointment only, and new adoptionappointments are available every Sunday and Wednesday at 10:00 a.m.
Pets may not be available for adoption and cannot be held for potential adoptersby phone calls or email.
HOW MY DOG
BROUGHT JOY TO MY
ELDERLY DAD
Editor’s
note: This column is an excerpt from Tom
Purcell’s new book, “Tips from a New Dog
Dad.” Read more chapters at ThurbersTail.
com.
My Lab puppy, Thurber, was born on Christmas
Day, 2020 — the best Christmas blessing
I ever received.
But he bestowed even greater blessings on
my mother and father.
In his 87th year, my father was facing a series
of health challenges.
Waiting for the other shoe to drop — waiting
for a middle-of-the night call to help pick
him up from a fall — had become the norm.
Visits to my parents’ house were becoming
less joyful and more stressful as my dad,
with limited mobility, needed help getting in
and out of his chair and had to ask his kids
to assist with the many daily tasks he used to
do himself so effortlessly.
We gave my father endless support as his
needs grew but his decline brought sadness,
and the sadness began permeating my parents’
home, hitting us hard every time we
entered the front door.
That all changed the day I brought my puppy
Thurber home.
Thurber’s first visit
The day I picked Thurber up in Punxsutawney,
Pa., my plan was to drive directly to my
mom and dad’s house.
I slipped into their house quietly through the
garage and sneaked up the back steps.
I knew they’d be in the family room watching
an old movie. That’s what they often did
in the afternoons — and, sure enough, that is
what they were doing.
In I walked, a soft cuddly puppy in my arms
— and the room lit up like a Christmas tree.
The joy was immediate and, just like that, my
mom and dad were transformed from their
late 80s into giddy, 10-year-old children.
I set Thurber on my father’s lap and the puppy
was in his glory, his tail wagging wildly.
Dogs always loved my father and sensed instantly,
and correctly, that he was the alpha
male in the room.
The two played and cuddled a good long
while as Thurber climbed all over my dad
and found an especially comfortable spot
between him and the arm of his recliner.
I brought Thurber over to my mom and she
too was thrust into instant joy and affec
tion. We never think of our parents as being
children, but with a puppy in her arms my
mother became a happy little girl.
It was as if her father, who died when she was
only 19, was watching over her again — providing
her with the warmth and security he
did so well in her childhood.
After a time, my mother set Thurber on the
floor, where I lay enticing him to play with
me.
I laughed aloud as he jumped on me and
showered me with his affection, but it was
more than just puppy affection that brought
me so much joy.
It was wonderful to feel the undivided love
and playfulness my puppy directed solely at
me.
Better yet, it made my mother and father
happy to see their middle-aged son being
made so happy by the puppy who would now
be an integral part of his world.
An angel of joy
I stayed a few hours that Friday afternoon,
the first time in months we were able to forget
about my dad’s health woes — the first
time we laughed in I don’t recall how long.
The power of a puppy is transformative, and
my transformation was just beginning then,
and continues still.
There is a saying I came across in which God
is talking to a puppy and he says, “I removed
your wings so they won’t know you are an
angel.”
Well, on the day I brought Thurber home,
he became an angel of joy to my father and
mother.
I didn’t know that for the next year and a half
I’d be able to bring him to my parents’ house
for multiple visits that inevitably resulted
in childlike happiness for us all — sadness
left their home instantly every time Thurber
visited.
And when Thurber celebrated his first birthday
on Christmas Day of 2021, we had the
celebration in my parents’ home, and it was a
grand event full of laughter and joy.
I didn’t know last Christmas that my father
would leave us nine months later — he’d
leave us a few days after we’d celebrate his
89th birthday.
But I will treasure forever the many joyful
visits Thurber and I made to my parents’
home, in which their difficult days were
made so much brighter by a furry angel with
hidden wings!
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