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Mountain View News Saturday, January 24, 2026
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SPORTS, FITNESS &SPORTS, FITNESS &
HEALTHY LIVINGHEALTHY LIVING
Mountain View News Saturday, January 24, 2026
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PELVIC FLOOR BUZZ
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Michele Silence, M.A. is a 37-year certified fitness
professional who offers semi-private/virtual fit-
ness classes. Contact Michele at michele@kid-fit.
com. Visit her Facebook page at: michelesfitness
Visit her Facebook page at: michelesfitness.
For years, the message about the pelvic floor was simple:
if you leak urine, do Kegels. That advice helped some but
left many confused or in pain. Today, doctors and physical
therapists are talking about something fitness professionals
have understood for decades. A muscle can be weak. A
muscle can be tight. Sometimes, it can be both. The pelvic
floor is no exception.
This issue affects far more people than most realize. It is
not limited to women or older adults. Athletes, weekend
exercisers, and people who have never stepped into a gym
can all experience pelvic floor problems. Many notice
leaking when they cough, laugh, run, or lift. Others feel
pressure, urgency, pain, or difficulty emptying the bladder
or bowels. Symptoms often appear in active people who
brace their bodies during workouts and in older adults who
hold tension from fear of falling or leaking.
The pelvic floor is a group of muscles at the bottom of the
pelvis, forming a supportive sling for the bladder and bowel, and in women, the uterus. These
muscles play a key role in bladder and bowel control, posture, balance, breathing, and core
stability. Like all muscles, the pelvic floor must tighten when needed and relax when safe. It must
also have endurance and move with breathing. Problems start when this balance is lost.
Pelvic floor issues usually develop slowly over time due to chronic stress, poor breathing, surgery,
injury, childbirth, or years of holding tension. Many people tighten their pelvic floor without
realizing it, especially during exercise or lifting. Over time, this constant holding changes how
the muscles work.
A tight muscle can feel weak. When a muscle stays tense all day, it becomes shortened and
tired. It loses its ability to contract strongly and relax fully. This is why some people faithfully doKegels, strengthen their abs and glutes, and still leak, hurt, or feel worse. They are strengthening
a muscle that never learned to let go.
Doing the wrong thing for the wrong problem can make symptoms worse. Strengthening
exercises help a pelvic floor that is weak but able to relax. Strengthening an already tight pelvic
floor often increases pain, urgency, and dysfunction. This is why pelvic health experts now say
that if a pelvic floor muscle cannot relax, it should not be strengthened yet.
Pelvic health physical therapists do not guess. They look at symptoms, breathing patterns,
posture, and how the hips and core work together. They assess how the pelvic floor feels at rest,
whether it can relax, and how well it contracts and releases. They determine: can the muscle fully
relax? If the answer is no, the issue is not just weakness.
Athletes often experience pelvic floor problems because of over-bracing. Heavy lifting, high-
impact sports, and intense core training can train the body to stay tight. This can lead to leakingduring exercise, pelvic pain, hip and back problems, and reduced performance. Learning how to
relax the pelvic floor before strengthening it often improves control and power.
Older adults face a different challenge. With age, many breathe more shallowly, sit more, and
move with extra tension. Fear of falling or leaking can cause constant guarding. In these cases,
the goal is not just strength, but control, coordination, and confidence in movement.
People who worry they may have a tight pelvic floor often notice patterns in their body. They
may hold their breath during movement, clench their stomach or glutes without meaning
to, or feel tension in the hips, tailbone, or low back. Bathroom habits can offer clues, such as
difficulty starting urine, feeling unable to fully empty, or straining despite soft stools. When
clinicians identify excess pelvic tension, treatment usually focuses on relaxation rather than
strengthening. This includes breathing retraining, letting the pelvic muscles drop instead of lift,
improving posture and movement habits, gentle hands-on therapy, and reducing unnecessarybracing linked to stress.
If pelvic floor muscles never learn to relax, they can’t work properly. Strength becomes limited,
pain and tension persist, and bladder or bowel problems may continue. Even athletes may
notice reduced core stability and performance, while everyday activities can feel uncomfortable.
Without relaxation, the pelvic floor is always “on” and never fully functional, making long-term
strength, comfort, and control much harder to achieve.
Luckily, most people can regain balance with awareness and consistent practice. Learning to
breathe, release tension, and move naturally allows the pelvic floor to support strength rather
than resist it. For anyone dealing with leaks, pressure, or pelvic discomfort, the first step is
learning to let go. Notice your tension, breathe fully, and allow your muscles to relax, the
foundation for true strength and comfort.
ALL THINGS by Jeff Brown
Fire Survivors Face a Second Disaster-Their Insurance
Companies By Richard Rieber, Opinion
Piece in CalMatters Jan 12,2026
I am an Altadena resident & an aerospace engineer
at NASA’s Jet Propulsion Laboratory, but for
the past year my second full-time job has been
fighting my insurance company. I am one of thousands
of Eaton Fire survivors caught in a second
disaster — not in the canyons, but in the fine print.
After the Eaton and Palisades fires, survivors turned to insurers to help us rebuild. We had paid
premiums faithfully for decades, exactly for this moment. Instead, we encountered obstruction,
delay and bureaucracy. Navigating this system has compounded the trauma of losing our
homes, possessions and communities.
California’s Unfair Insurance Practices Act, enacted in 1959, was designed to prevent precisely
this kind of misconduct. Yet nearly every fire survivor I know has experienced violations: rotating
adjusters, ignored emails and phone calls, and missed legal deadlines. Despite widespread
complaints, there has not been a single public enforcement action related to these fires. California’s
insurance protections have become a regulatory mirage — visible on paper but absent
in practice.
One of the most harmful practices is what many survivors call “toxic gaslighting.” Thousands
of residents downwind of the fires are dealing with smoke and soot contamination, yet insurers
routinely deny these claims, arguing that smoke does not qualify as fire damage. The soot that
blanketed our communities contains carcinogens, including lead, asbestos and heavy metals.
Still, insurers often refuse to pay for the industrial hygienist testing needed to identify these
hazards. Instead, homeowners are told that a simple vacuuming or wipe-down is sufficient — a
response that leaves toxic particulates behind and puts families at risk. Some survivors have
paid thousands of dollars out of pocket for testing, only to have the results ignored.
The Department of Insurance complaint process offers little relief. For most homeowners, filing
a complaint leads to silence. Only when an overwhelming number of complaints accumulate
against a single insurer will the department consider a “market conduct examination,” a process
that can take years and typically concludes long after rebuilding is complete. It provides no
timely remedy for individual families.
For survivors, time itself becomes a weapon. Additional living expense coverage is meant to pay
rent while homes are repaired, but in a post-disaster housing market where rents have soared,
those funds are quickly depleted. Every ignored call and delayed inspection drains that coverage.
As the money runs out, families face an impossible choice: homelessness or accepting an
unsafe and unfair settlement. Delay has become a profitable business strategy.
This imbalance is structural. A 1988 California Supreme Court decision stripped consumers of
the right to sue for violations of the Unfair Insurance Practices Act, leaving enforcement solely
to the Insurance Commissioner and removing immediate consequences for insurer misconduct.
California must change course. The state should create a streamlined administrative process
allowing the Department of Insurance to validate complaints and refer them to administrative
law judges who can adjudicate claims in real time, determine fair payouts, and impose
significant fines paid directly to the insured. Insurer-caused delays should trigger a “delay tax”
in the form of additional living-expense payments beyond policy limits. Insurance companies
deserve due process. But fire survivors deserve the good faith we earned by paying decades of
premiums. Until noncompliance costs insurers more than delay and denial, Californians will
continue to be victimized twice — first by disaster, then by their insurers.
Lori A. Harris
EMOTIONAL SELF-CARE FOR MOM,
DAD AND OUR LITTLES:
Introduction to Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
(Originally published January 2025)
As we recalibrate
from the devastation
of the fires,
we find ourselves
searching for ways
to restore emotional
balance and resilience.
In challenging times like these, self-care
is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. This is true
for all of us. Seeing the vast destruction of our
community is impactful for each of us. Navigating
a loss on such a grand scale is difficult.
One powerful tool for calming anxious minds
and fostering emotional well-being is the Emotional
Freedom Technique (EFT). This method
isn’t just for adults; it’s simple enough to share
with children, helping the whole family navigate
stress together.
What Is EFT? EFT, or Emotional Freedom
Technique, is a scientifically backed practice
combining tapping specific acupressure points
with an intentional focus on emotional challenges.
Often described as "emotional acupressure,"
EFT has been shown to help individuals
recover from stress, anxiety, and trauma, including
veterans and victims of crime or other life-
altering events.
Gently tapping on designated points stimulates
your body’s energy meridians, releasing
emotional blockages and promoting relaxation.
It’s a technique grounded in science that reduces
cortisol (the stress hormone), alters brain wave
activity, and encourages emotional balance.
How to Perform EFT? Here’s a simple guide to
practicing EFT for emotional relief:
Identify the Issue: Clearly define the emotion or
issue you’re experiencing—fear, sadness, anger,
or survivor’s guilt.
Rate the Intensity: On a scale from 0 to 10, rate
the intensity of the emotion, with 10 being the
most severe.
Setup Phrase: Tap the side of your hand (the “karate
chop” point) while saying, “Even though I
feel [emotion], I deeply and completely accept
myself.”
Tap the Points: While repeating affirmations like
“I release and let this go” or “I love and accept
myself,” gently tap on the following points:
Top of Head: Center of the scalp.
Eyebrow: Inner edge, near the bridge of the
nose.
Side of Eye: Outer edge of the eye socket.
Under Eye: Just below the eye.
Under Nose: Between the upper lip and nose.
Chin: Center of the chin, just below the lower
lip.
Collarbone: Just above the collarbone.
Wrist: Grab the wrist of the tapping hand with
the opposite hand and gently release the
wrist.
Repeat the process, reassessing the intensity of
the emotion after each round. Many people notice
a significant reduction in emotional intensity
within just a few minutes.
Benefits of EFT Reduce Stress and Anxiety: EFT
promotes relaxation and helps release pent-up
tension.
Enhance Mood and Well-being: Addressing
emotional blockages fosters a sense of calm and
happiness.
Build Self-Confidence: EFT challenges negative
self-beliefs, empowering you to embrace your
strengths.
Strengthen Relationships: Managing emotional
reactivity improves communication and connection
with loved ones.
Sharing EFT With Your Children
Children, like adults, experience emotional ups
and downs. By teaching them EFT, you provide
them with a lifelong tool for managing stress and
building resilience. Engage them in the process
by explaining it as “magic tapping” that helps
emotions feel better. Keep the language simple
and the tone lighthearted, making it a fun and
comforting activity.
Moving Forward Together As we move forward
from our collective challenges, remember that
healing is a journey. EFT is one of many tools to
help us and our little ones find peace, strength,
and balance. In the weeks ahead, I will share additional
techniques and insights to support your
family’s emotional well-being. Together, we can
create a foundation of resilience and hope for
the future.
Today, try EFT and involve your children. You
might be surprised how a few taps can make a
real difference.
About the Author: Lori A. Harris is an award-
winning coach and former lawyer who helps people
live intentionally and authentically. Learn more from
her on her podcast, Unlock Your Life with Lori Harris,
available at loriaharris.com and all streamingplatforms.
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