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OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
WHAT'S ALL THESE GADGETS FOR?
Without any hesitation, I
With a few more little squeegees, I put it back
will gladly admit that I am
into drive and went forward. It was at this
on the short side when it
time I noticed the mirrors were all out of fo
comes to gadgets. For me,
cus. How can my wife drive this van when the
most of them do not make any sense at all.
mirrors are so mixed up?
Instead, I like things simple and easy.
So, while driving along, I began to fiddle with
As for the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage,
the mirrors, trying to adjust them to where I
she is obsessed with gadgets. She loves them
could see out of them. There is a gadget for
almost as much as I love Apple Fritters. I've
each mirror, and I got the gadgets mixed up.
gone into her "Craft Room" and noticed all
Finally, I got it to where it was at least usable
the gadgets neatly placed where they belong.
for my driving.
Unfortunately, I could not tell you the identification
of any of them.
I sighed a very deep sigh, which usually means
I'm in trouble, while driving down the high-
I am gadgets-illiterate while she is gadget-ob
way. I decided I wanted to turn the radio on
sessed. I did not know how obsessed she was
and listen to music while driving. You might
with gadgets until recently.
as well have fun while you're driving in such a
gadget-contaminated vehicle.
My truck was giving me some trouble, so I
took it to my mechanic to look it over. Much
Pressing several buttons, I finally was able to
to my distress, he said the engine was just
find the button for the radio. Unfortunately,
about shot, and it would have to be replaced.
the sound was very low. Now, I had to find a
gadget to turn the sound up so I could hear it.
My choices were to replace the engine for
around $5,500 or buy another truck for about
I'm unsure which gadget I pressed, but the
$30,000. I may not be handy with gadgets, but
sound went through the roof, scaring me so
when it comes to money, that is my specialty.
much that I almost jumped out of the vehicle.
Fiddling around, I finally lowered the sound.
I reluctantly chose to have the engine replaced,
but the bad news was, it would take
I did not notice before, but the steering wheel
about a month to do it. First, he had to find an
had gadgets all around it. I had no idea what
engine and have it shipped to his garage.
any of those gadgets were for and was trying
desperately not to touch one.
I didn't know how long that month was until
recently.
I had to make a right turn, and so I turned on
the turn signal the way I usually do it in my
Because I did not have my truck, I had to bor
truck, and it wasn't heaven that came through
row the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage's
that van.
van. She bought that van a little over two years
ago. It took her a whole year to find the kind
The windshield wipers began, the windows
of van she wanted. She did all her research
went up and down several times, the horn
and finally found the van of her liking.
sounded three or four times, and I was a mess.
For myself, being over 6 feet tall, it was all I
Very carefully, I managed to pull to the side
could do to squeeze into her van as a passen
and stop the vehicle. I sat there trying to figger.
I found out squeezing in as a driver was
ure out where do I start turning off all of these
even more difficult.
gadgets?
She said I could drive it, and then instructed
I could call my wife, but then I would hear it
me on how to drive and all the gadgets associ
for the rest of my life.
ated with driving her van.
An idea floated in my mind amid all this con-
Unfortunately, my habit is not to pay attention
fusion. Why not turn the vehicle off, and may-
when people are talking about gadget things.
be all the gadgets would close down.
I've had my driver's license for over 50 years,
I turned it on with my fingers crossed, and to
and I have driven many cars during that time.
my delight, all of the gadgets were not on. I'm
not sure what I did; I hope I don't have to do
I thanked her, got into her van, and it took
it again.
quite a few minutes to get the seat settled
where I can operate it.
A verse of Scripture came to my mind as I was
driving home. "The fear of the Lord is the be-
Sitting in the driver's seat, I felt like I was be
ginning of knowledge: but fools despise wising
squished on all sides.
dom and instruction" (Proverbs 1:7).
After a few minutes, I was able to start it on
Instruction seems to be the gateway to wisand
then try to figure out how to put it in re
dom. I have a hard time with following inverse.
I found it finally and backed out of our
structions, which is why I have trouble and
driveway.
not just with gadgets.
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …August Birthdays*
Nancy Beckham, Karlene Englert, Juanita Fernandez, Jeanette Francis, Joseph Kiss,
Jacquie Pergola, Pat Miranda, Jerry Burnett, Margaret Aroyan, Phyllis Burg, Beverly
Clifton, Rosemary Morabito, Susan Poulsen, Joy Barry, Marcia Bent, Joan Spears,
Ruth Torres, Jane Zamanzadeh. Helen Stapenhorst, Chandy Shair, Heidi Hartman,
Erma Gutierrez, Margaret Switzer
* To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737.
YEAR of birth not required
SENIOR ACTIVITIES IN SIERRA MADRE
CHAIR YOGA
Every Monday and Wednesday, 10-10:45 amChair yoga with Paul is coming back! Class be held in the Covered Pavilion in Memorial
Park in front of the Senior Center. Please join us for some gentle stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall
relaxation. Classes will maintain a distance of 6 ft between participants. ALL participants must be wearing
masks for the duration of the class. All equipment used will be sanitized after each use before it is stored. Each
participant is responsible for providing their own water, masks and needed equipment or supplies for each class.
Class size is limited so please call 264-8923 to reserve your spot.
TEA AND TALK, SENIOR BOOK CLUB—2nd and 4th Wednesday at 9:00 am Staff has launched
a new book club series, Tea and Talk, that will meet twice a month to discuss the fun, suspense, intrigue,
love and so much more that each selection will have in store! This month we will be reading I
Was Anastasia, Ariel Lawhon’s historical novel, Anna Anderson defends her attempt to prove herself
to be Anastasia Romanov, a member of the last imperial family to rule in Russia. If you are interested
in participating please call Lawren Heinz at 626-355-7394 or send an email to lheinz@cityofsierramadre.
com.
TISSUE PAPER HANGING ART— Tuesday 8/17 at 10:00 am
Fiber Friends— Tuesday 8/ 24 at 10:00 amIf you enjoy knitting, crocheting, embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or cross stitch then
we have a group for you! Bring your current project, a nonalcoholic beverage, then sit and chat with
like-minded fiber friends. We will meet in the Hart Park House patio and chairs will be provided.
Please call Lawren with any questions at 626-355-5278.
IDEAS
Do you have any ideas for programming? Is there a class or club you would like to see in our Senior Community?
Please call or email Lawren Heinz with ideas or questions. 626-355-5278 x 704 lheinz@cityofsierramadre.
com
City staff are monitoring email communication daily, and although employees are minimizing direct engagement
and interfacing less with the community, please note that voice messages, emails, and social media responses
are being addressed in the most efficient and timely manner. If at any time additional information
is needed, please contact City Hall Administrative Services at (626) 355-7135, Monday-Thursday from 7:30a
– 5:30p, as they are taking messages and e-mailing the appropriate per-son. For messages that may trickle in
otherwise, please note our team is remotely checking voicemail daily at the Community Services Department,
(626) 355-5278 x702.
HOW TO CHOOSE AN ADULT DAY CARE SERVICE PROVIDER
Dear Savvy Senior:
Can you offer any tips on choosing a good adult day
care provider for an elderly parent? My 81-year-old
father, who just moved in with me, has dementia and
needs attention during the day while I’m at work. Need
Assistance
Dear Need:
for more information. The VA even provides adult
Adult day care services can be a great option for care-
day care to eligible veterans enrolled in their Medical
givers who work, or for those who just need a break
Benefits Package. See VA.gov/geriatrics to learn more.
during the day. Here’s what you should know, along
with some tips to help you find and choose one.
How to Choose
Your first step in shopping for an adult day center
Adult Day Care
is to determine the kinds of services your dad needs,
The business of adult day care services has grown
and you need as a caregiver. After you do that, here
rapidly in recent years. According to the National
are some tips to help you locate and choose a good
Adult Day Services Association, there are upwards of
provider.
4,600 adult day centers across the U.S., the result of a
Start by contacting your Area Agency on Aging (call
35 percent increase since 2002. Those centers provide
800-677-1116 to get your local number) to get refer-
services to more than 260,000 participants and family
rals to adult day service programs in your area. You
caregivers, which is a whopping 63 percent increase
can also search the National Adult Day Services As-
over the last two decades.
sociation (NADSA) database at NADSA.org/locator.
As the name implies, adult day care provides care
Once you have a list of a few centers, call them to find
for elderly seniors who cannot care for themselves at
out their eligibility criteria, if they offer the types of
home. While services will vary from center to cen
services your dad needs, if they are accepting new cli
ter, they typically provide personal care, meals and
ents, their hours of operation, if they’re licensed and/
snacks, various activities and social interaction in a
or registered with a state agency (this is not required
safe supportive environment. Additionally, many cen
in all states) and what they charge.
ters also provide health services such as medication
After you identify a few good centers, go in for a
management, various therapies, exercise and trans-
visit. Find out about the staffing ratio (at least one staff
portation to and from the facility.
member for every six participants is recommended)
Adult day care centers generally operate programs
and what kind of training they have. While you’re
during normal business hours five days a week. How-
there, notice the cleanness and smell of the facility.
ever, some centers may offer services in the evenings
Is it homey and inviting? Does the staff seem friendly
and on weekends, too.
and knowledgeable? Also be sure to taste the food and
Costs for care will vary as well, usually between $25
consider making an unannounced visit.
to more than $100 per day (the national average is
To help you rate your visit, the NADSA offers a help
$75/day), depending on where you live.
ful checklist of questions to ask at NADSA.org – click
Unfortunately, in most cases original Medicare does
on “Site Visit Checklist” under the “For Caregivers”
not pay for adult day care, but some Medicare Advan
tab.
tage plans, and many long-term care insurance poli
Then, after your visit, be sure to check their refer
cies do. But most seniors or their families pay for care
ences. Get names and phone numbers of at least two
out-of-pocket.
or three families who have used the center you are
If your dad is lower income and can’t afford this,
considering and call them.
state Medicaid programs provide financial assistance
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box
if he meets eligibility requirements, and some states
5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim
have PACE programs that provide financial aid. Con-
Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and au
tact your state Medicaid office (see Medicaid.gov)
thor of “The Savvy Senior” book.
FAMILY MATTERS By Marc Garlett
DON’T FORGET
Fund Your Pet’s Continued Care
TO PROTECT
YOUR FURRY
When determining how much money to put
aside for your pet’s care, you should carefully
FAMILY: ESTATE
consider the pet’s age, health, and special care
PLANNING FOR
needs. Remember, you’re covering the cost of
YOUR PETS
caring for the animal for the rest of its life, and
even basic expenses can add up over time. In
It’s sad but true that many
addition to the bare necessities like food and vet
pets end up in shelters
visits, make sure you also calculate the costs for
after their owner dies or becomes incapacitated.
any special treatments or services you include in
In fact, the Humane Society estimates that
the care plan and leave enough money to pay for
between 100,00 to 500,000 pets are placed in
them. And if you end up leaving more money
shelters each year for exactly this reason, and
behind than needed, you can always name a
many these animals are ultimately euthanized.
remainder beneficiary, such as a family member
The law considers pets to be personal property
or charity, to inherit any funds not spent on the
just like cars, furniture, and electronic devices. So,
pet.
unless you take the proper steps to include your
Create a Pet Trust
pet in your estate plan, your beloved companion
could end up in a shelter or worse following your
Since pet care can be quite complicated and
death or incapacity. Considering this reality,
costly, the best way to ensure your wishes are
here’s how you can use estate planning to ensure
properly carried out is to set up a pet trust. While
your pets receive the best possible care when
it’s possible to leave care instructions and funding
you’re no longer able to care for them yourself.
for your pet in a will, a will cannot guarantee the
new caregiver will use the funds properly—or
Select a Caregiver for Your Pet
even that they will care for your pet at all. In fact,
Selecting a trustworthy caregiver is the first—
a person who’s left their pet in a will can simply
and most important—step in protecting your
drop the animal off at a local shelter and keep
pet via your estate plan. You might assume that
the money for themselves. A pet trust, on the
your kids, relatives, or friends will step in and
other hand, allows you to layout legally binding
care for your pet should something happen to
rules for how the funds in the trust can be used.
you, and these folks may even tell you as much
Additionally, pet trusts can cover multiple pets,
in conversation. But properly caring for most
work in cases of incapacity as well as death, and
pets is a major commitment of time, energy,
they remain in effect until the last surviving
and finances, so you shouldn’t rely on simple
animal dies.
promises to ensure your pet’s future is secure.
Do Right by Your Furry Family
Create a Detailed Care Plan
Although leaving assets in a pet trust is fairly
Once you’ve chosen your pet’s caregiver—along
simple, creating a properly drafted trust that
with one or two alternates in case something
includes all of the necessary terms can be
happens to your top choice(s)— you’ll need
quite complex. You’ll want to ensure your pet
to outline all of your pet’s care requirements.
trust contains all of the necessary elements
At the very least, your caretaking instructions
to guarantee that your beloved companions
should include your pet’s basic requirements:
will continue to receive the love and care they
dietary needs, exercise regimen, medications,
deserve, no matter what happens to you.
A local attorney and father, Marc Garlett is on a mission
and veterinary care. But if you are like most pet
to help parents protect what they love most. Schedule
owners, you probably want your pet to receive
an appointment to sit down and talk about ensuring a
more than just the bare necessities, so consider
legacy of love and financial security for your family by
calling 626.355.4000 or visit www.CaliLaw.com for more
information.
leaving instructions for any other special
treatment you want your furry friend to receive.
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