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OPINION
Mountain View News Saturday, June 24, 2023
So, how’s things?
Which things exactly are you asking about? A sure thing? The real thing? The thing
in your pocket? The right thing? Are you talking about any of those things?
Queen sang to us about that “Crazy Little Thing Called Love”. George Harrison told us “All Things
Must Pass”. Julie Andrews sang to us “These are a few of my favorite things?”
Want to be really confused? The word for thing in French is pronounced “chose”. In Italian the word is
“cosa”. In Chinese “Shiwu”. “Who-wu”? Shiwu lol!
As of here and now, I’m calling for a worldwide boycott (at least in the San Gabriel Valley) of the rank
overuse of the word thing. You may be asking yourself, why should we stop using words like things and
stuff? Why? Frankly, in my case, I’m not very smart. (I peaked at age 12). I’m not even sure how I could
get smarter However, I’m convinced with a little effort, I could look and sound smarter…someday!
I can live with that! You good with that?
So, those of us in the San Gabriel Valley should lead the way to look smarter. By reducing the use of the
word “thing” at least we will sound smarter.
If per chance this weekend, you see me carrying around a “thing” don’t walk up and ask me, “Hey Rich,
what’s that thing you’re carrying around?” Come up and say, “Hey, what’s that apparatus you’re carrying
around?”
Instead of me asking my editor what things I should write about, I should ask, Susan, what range of
topics should I address…my good woman!
Not what new things does your iPhone offer, go ahead and ask me what new features does my iPhone
offer?
What things will I need to bring on our Arctic Expedition? I should ask what gear should I bring?
Don’t say…one thing was certain: Rich was a moron. Instead, say…one truth was inescapable: Rich was
a moron.
By the way, what was Rich doing on this Arctic Expedition? Things!
If I don’t stop now my column may turn into a palaver. None of us would want that.
STUART TOLCHIN
RICH JOHNSON
NOW THAT’S RICH
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PUT THE LIGHTS ON
AFFLUENZ
THINGS AND STUFF
“Affluenza” I discovered
the word this morning
as I searched around
looking for material for
the article which was already
bouncing around in
my head. Originally I was going to title this
article “The Curse of Wealth” but “affluenza”
caught my attention. It is described as a psychological
malaise symptoms of which include
a lack of motivation, feelings of guilt,
and a sense of isolation. In 2007 British psychologist
Oliver James related the stimulation
of artificial needs to an increase in material
inequality.
James theorized that the more unequal
a society the greater the unhappiness of its
citizens. He later wrote that “placing a high
value on money possessions, appearances
(physical and social) and fame” was the actual
rationale behind mental illness. Other authors
assert that overconsumption, “luxury fever”,
consumer debt, overwork, waste, and harm to
the environment have consequences. These
consequences lead to “psychological disorders,
alienation and distress” causing people
to self- medicate with mood altering drugs
and excessive alcohol consumption. This is a
description that, at least for me, seems to describe
most everyone I know.
What is going on? Why does everyone
seem to be so unhappy? A couple of months
ago I saw an episode of the TV Series “The
Reluctant Traveler” in which the creator of
the series, Eugene Levy, speaks to a young
Navajo man. Levy, like me is a Jewish man in
his seventies. Unlike me he is pretty rich and
famous but is uncomfortable and dissatisfied.
He speaks to an indigenous young Navajo
man and we get the feeling that this young
man’s life is very satisfying. That satisfying
life is a by-product of the way he lives. He always
knows where he is just by looking up at
the North Star. He lives in the very same area
as his parents, children, grandparents and
previous generations have lived. His major
concern is to keep his traditions and ancestral
language alive. Very few of us have lived that
way.
Why have people moved around so
much? I think it is because this culture is so
involved in pursuing false goals. Even if we
get rich or famous it is never enough. Today
I think of the billionaires trapped beneath the
sea in their lost Titanic submersible. What
were they really looking for? I speculate that
the billionaires and the rest of us are desperately
searching for a kind of inner peace and
freedom and all of us are looking in the wrong
places. Maybe the fault lies with the capitalistic
system in which wealth accumulates but
is never enough? How can we be satisfied,
pleased, happy, with our own lives.
As the world around us seems to be
destroying itself how can we feel safe? Maybe
we can create a semblance of control of our
emotions by realizing that we have choices.
I have been reading Viktor Frankl’s “Man’s
Search for Meaning” which begins with a
first-person account of surviving within the
death camp of Auschwitz. I think what I have
gained so far is that it is not necessary to be
run by the negative voice inside. There are always
choices to be made at every moment and
a feeling of connectedness and satisfaction is
a by-product of a direct experience of oneself
at every moment. Shakespeare has said, “This
above all: to thine own self be true.” But what
self is he talking about? The one constantly
comparing itself to others pursuing goals of
more money or more fame or more weapons,
or even more youth. For me the answer right
now is to look within myself and notice who
I am and what I want to do. My whole life I
have wanted to be a writer and I know that
writer’s write. Right now I have a choice and I
am writing. For the moment, that’s pretty satisfying
and after all life is but a series of moments
and this moment I have stayed within
my word limit. Maybe I’ll feel different after
I read my piece but, after all, that just will
be another moment and I will have another
choice to make then. Another point Frankl
emphasized was the importance of not giving
up.
TOM PURCELL
AMERICANS REDISCOVER THE SUMMER PICNIC
It’s a positive trend that I
hope continues: the resurgence
of summer picnics.
According to Mental Floss,
the Covid pandemic caused
a picnic boom beginning
in 2020 that is showing no
signs of letting up.
In 2020, with restaurants shuttered and experts
telling us the bug didn’t spread so easily in outdoor
air, many people, in particular younger people, began
picnicking.
I was lucky to grow up only a few miles from
a county park that offers 3,000 acres of rolling
green hills, walking and biking trails and 63 picnic
groves — groves packed with picnickers every
summer weekend.
There were lots of reasons to picnic then. Family
reunions, church gatherings or neighbors getting
together. Schools, companies, unions and other organizations
often staged annual picnic events.
The park was so popular that people routinely waited
in line for hours one year prior to their event to
secure their favorite grove.
On weekends the park was jammed and jumping:
Kids running around, footballs, Frisbees and water
balloons flying through the air. While the kids
played, the adults talked and laughed and sipped
ice-cold beer.
We ate hot dogs and juicy hamburgers and my
mom’s sweet potato salad — I can still taste these
incredible picnic delicacies and crave them still.
The picnics were tremendous social events that
connected people to each other in a million different
ways. We laughed and talked all day long and
when dusk arrived, nobody was ready to go home.
In a modern world that has separated and isolated
us, we need to experience picnic connectedness
now more than ever before.
Robert Putnam, author of the acclaimed 1995 book
“Bowling Alone,” identified several trends that
have been causing a breakdown in social-connectedness
over many years.
The rise of the dual-income family, for example,
resulted in both parents being exhausted after long
days of work, making them less prone to join and
support civic groups.
Television and the Internet are also breaking down
our connectedness. Putnam said that “time-budget
studies in the 1960s showed that the growth in
time spent watching television dwarfed all other
changes in the way Americans passed their days
and nights.”
Social media has made this challenge considerably
worse with many people, in particular younger
people, spending hours online or chatting with
their “friends” while in a room in their home alone.
Before there were 300 TV channels — before
smartphones turned us into zombies and air conditioning
caused us to shut our windows and doors
— people sat out on their porches at night, sipping
lemonade and talking with each other.
I enjoyed countless summer nights enjoying the
company of my neighborhood friends that way.
Now we spend far too many hours sitting in our
cooled homes isolated from our fellow human beings
— which is why we are in desperate need of
more summer picnics.
But there is hope for us.
Smithsonian reports that interest in picnics has exploded
on social media. On Pinterest alone, searches
for picnic date ideas have grown by 385 percent
since last year.
I just Googled “summer picnic” and was delighted
to see picnic activities taking place all over the nation
— and lots of ideas to make your picnic fun
and your picnic food delicious.
Hey, Covid, you caused us a lot of grief, but I thank
you for the summer picnic resurgence. It couldn’t
have come at a better time!
Purcell, is a Pittsburgh Tribune-Review humor columnist.
Email him at Tom@TomPurcell.com.
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