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OPINION
Mountain Views News Saturday, September 29, 2012
STUART Tolchin..........On LIFE
HAIL Hamilton My Turn
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WHY DO WE HURT SO MUCH
ENDEAVOR’S LAST FLIGHT --
AN END OF AN ERA
This past weekend I
attended a workshop
which taught me the
same lesson that I
learned over thirty
years ago. People are
hurting inside and as
a result of that hurt they often choose to
hurt others. This past weekend involved
telling stories and then focusing on the
reactions of others as they listened to
the stories. The point of the seminar
was to increase attorney sensitivity to
the feelings of jurors listening to the
presentation of evidence involving
parent-child relationships. I was
surprised to realize how angry so many
people are at what they endured while
growing up.
Seminar participants described
that they were now forced to become
caretakers for their parents who had
never properly cared for them in the first
place. Considerable guilt accompanied
these feelings and participants
rationalized by saying that all along they
felt that other children were favored
and that their parents had never given
them deserved attention. This all
reminded me of my experience in the
human –potential movements of the
‘70s when exercises involved the leader
of the group telling stories about those
wonderful days of growing up and those
lovely summer days at the beach where
everyone enjoyed the sun and each other’s
company. Soon the whole room was in
tears but what was being cried about was
not the memories of those now long past
lovely memories. No, people were crying
and angry about the fact that they never
had those experiences or feelings in the
first place.
The group leader then directed
the 100 people or so in the room to use
the conveniently placed foam bats and
pillows to express their anger. Sobbing
screams of “You never paid any attention
to me” or “You always loved her more
than me” filled the room. It was all so
predictable I guess and don’t forget this
was in the generation before stoned
parents and mandatory divorce. I
guess it’s even harder to grow up now as
parents try to cope with unemployment,
and drugs, and never-ending war, and
doubt.
Are things easier in other
cultures? This morning I had breakfast
at a restaurant with my wife and son
and listened as he told me how hard
life was for his neighbors. Not only do
they work two and three jobs but they
send a thousand dollars a month back
to their parents who live in some far-
away country. “How come they have to
do this? Doesn’t anyone care for them in
their own country?” My son is a disabled
person who receives assistance through
the Regional Center which attempts to
find appropriate employment for certain
categories of disabled adults. He has
been without work for almost a year but
is due to start work tomorrow which was
one of the reasons we were meeting for
breakfast this morning.. I wondered if
his question about sending money to
parents was connected with his feelings
that he should try and save part of his
incredibly limited income and send it to
me.
I was in the process of assuring
him that there was no need for him to
save money for me as I would be okay
on my own and was receiving Social
Security and, anyhow, I am still working.
All at once a thought from the weekend
seminar hit me as I tried to focus on my
son’s actual feelings. I stopped in the
middle of my summary of American
Welfare and Old Age Benefits and the
difference between the philosophies of
the Democrats and the Republicans.
It hit me that my son had brought
up the discussion of his neighbor’s
obligations
in connection with fears about his own
new job. In previous articles I have
mentioned how my son has lost vision
in one eye and now has limited vision in
the other eye as a result of some kind of
unpredicted immediate onset glaucoma.
Perhaps he believes that the loss of vision
was somehow connected with working
conditions or the stress surrounding
work or who knows what. Really, we
haven’t talked much about it. It is a very
painful subject and we just go on with
our lives.
A couple of hours after breakfast
I an now thinking that my son thinks
that there might be some risk to working
but he thinks that working is worth
that risk because it will give him an
opportunity to be helpful to his family
and not to be a burden. (I remember at
age 5 or 6 he told he never wanted to be
a “birdie”.) Human beings I think want
to help one another and when that help
is not needed or rejected there is great
anger. Perhaps one of the reasons for all
of the rage we carry within us is that we
simply feel that our help is not needed or
wanted and this leaves us very angry and
confused (and it’s our parent’s fault) Is
this a possible consequence of our Cradle
to Grave Welfare System? As usual I feel
that I don’t know enough to answer the
question. But who does?
I couldn’t help
feeling a bit sad
watching Space
Shuttle Endeavor as
she made her final
fly-by and landed at LAX. For me it
marked the end of an era, an era that
had begun when I was a teenager. The
era of manned space flight, the birth
of the space age when human beings
began exploring outer space. Tears wet
my cheeks as I watched Endeavor being
off-loaded from the modified 747 that
had carried her on her final flight. Was
this the end of NASA’s manned space
program? Was America stepping aside
for others to go “where no man has
gone before?”
I remember JFK’s speech setting a goal
for the United States to put a man on the
Moon and return him safely to Earth by
the end of the decade. I remember how
our nation rallied behind the whole
idea of manned space flight and space
exploration. I remember waking up
early in the morning with my parents
and little brother to witness another
fiery liftoff from Cape Canaveral of a
manned spacecraft heading into outer
space. With each flight of the Mercury,
Gemini, and Apollo programs it
seemed to me that Buck Rogers and
Flash Gordon might not be comic book
fantasy at all.
And then on July 20, 1969 at 20:18
Coordinated Universal Time (UTC)
Apollo 11 landed the first humans,
Neil Armstrong and Buzz Aldrin, on
the Moon. Armstrong became the first
to step onto the lunar surface 6 hours
later on July 21 at 02:56 UTC, telling
the world: “That’s one small step for
man, one giant step for mankind.”
A third member of the mission,
Michael Collins, piloted the command
spacecraft alone in lunar orbit for about
28 hours until Armstrong and Aldrin
returned to it for the trip back to Earth.
The impact of the Apollo Moon
landing cannot be overemphasized. An
estimated one-fifth of the population
of planet Earth watched the live
transmission of the first Apollo Moon
walk. Apollo 11 reinvigorated and
expanded the idea of humans exploring
space. Jules Verne’s 1865 epic space
adventure, “From Earth to the Moon,”
had by 1969 become a reality. In little
over a century, science fiction had
become science fact.
The Apollo program flew eleven
missions. Six of the missions (Apollos
11, 12, 14, 15, 16, and 17) achieved
this goal. Apollos 7 and 9 were Earth
orbiting missions to test the Command
and Lunar Modules. Apollos 8 and
10 tested various components while
orbiting the Moon, and returned with
detailed images and maps of the lunar
surface. Apollo 13 did not land on
the Moon due to a malfunction, but
also returned with images of the lunar
surface. The six missions that landed on
the Moon returned a wealth of scientific
data and almost 400 kilograms of lunar
samples. Experiments included soil
mechanics, meteoroids, seismic, heat
flow, lunar ranging, magnetic fields,
and solar wind experiments.
Then came the Space Shuttle. The
reusable spacecraft seemed like the
next logical step in preparing the
way for building a permanent “space
station” orbiting the Earth to be used
for scientific purposes and as a terminal
for a fleet of smaller space vehicles
for transporting astronauts back and
forth to the Moon. There we would
build a Moon base complex where a
new generation of spacecraft would be
constructed and launched to explore
the solar system.
NASA’s space shuttle fleet began
setting records with its first launch
April 12, 1981 and continued to set high
marks of achievement and endurance
through 30 years of missions. Starting
with Columbia and continuing with
Challenger, Discovery, Atlantis and
Endeavor, the spacecraft has carried
people into orbit repeatedly, launched,
recovered and repaired satellites,
conducted cutting-edge research and
built the largest structure in space, the
International Space Station (ISS). The
Enterprise was used for landing tests
and was never flown in space.
But the ISS was not the kind of
orbiting space station I had envisioned;
one where space vehicles could dock
and refuel to take astronauts to the
newly built Moon base. There a new
generation of exotic spacecraft could
be constructed and launched taking
advantage of the fact that the Moon’s
gravity is only one-sixth that of the
Earth’s and it has no atmosphere.
Still, I am sad to see Endeavor retire
and, with her, NASA’s entire manned
space program. I am glad that NASA
chose the Science Center as Endeavor’s
new home. Unfortunately, this exhibit
of mankind’s technical ingenuity and
desire to explore the heavens will be
seen by visitors as a relic of the past
rather than a harbinger of the future.
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OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
1962 -
SO WHAT HAPPENED
RICH Johnson
WOULD SOMEONE PLEASE
CALL “TIMEOUT?”
As many of you know I have been fortunate to become
involved with two wonderfully funny and creative people in a
weekly one hour radio show. Those funny people are named
Barry and Lisa. And what is so coincidental about their names
is they fit right in with the name of our show: The Barry, Lisa
and Rich Show. Or is it the Barry, Rich and Lisa Show? We
have completed 36 one-hour broadcasts which you can listen
to in two places on the internet. First is our local internet radio station, Radio
Fishbowl, and secondly at www.barryrichlisa.com.
A recurring, and popular highlight in several of our shows is an interesting
look back at a year in our past. This includes prices for houses, top television
shows, Academy Award winning movies, births, inventions etcetera during
those particular years.
Why not share a bit of this trivia with you?. I hope you find it interesting. We
are going to take a look back 50 years at 1962. Let’s get started:
Wanna buy a house in 1962? The average price will be $12,500. You are
probably making an average of $5,556 a year. Minimum wage was $1.25 an hour.
A first class stamp was 4 cents. A gallon of gas is 28 cents, a year’s tuition at
Harvard will set you back $1,520.
On a political note, Richard Nixon lost his run to become governor of
California. You may remember him saying, “You won’t have Nixon to kick
around anymore because, gentlemen, this is my last press conference”. Did he
do anything after that loss?
President Kennedy had the Cuban Missile Crisis to contend with in 1962. Both
Kmart and Walmart opened their first stores this year. Kmart in Michigan, and
Walmart in Arkansas.
The top five television shows of 1962?
1. The Beverly Hillbillies
2. Candid Camera
3. The Red Skelton Show
4. Bonanza
5. The Lucy Show
We witnessed the end of the Cheyenne television show starring Clint Walker,
who was so tall it looked like his feet were dragging on the ground when he rode
atop his horse. The Huckleberry Hound Show ended also in 1962 but was soon
replaced by The Jetsons. If you ever wondered why the Jetson’s dog’s, Astro,
voice sounded just like Scooby Doo’s voice, there was a reason. They were both
voiced by a guy named Don Messick.
The Academy Award Best Picture of 1962 was Lawrence of Arabia. David
Lean won the Best Director for the same movie. The Best Actor Oscar went to
Gregory Peck for his role in To Kill a Mockingbird, and the Best Actress Oscar
went to Anne Bancroft for her role in The Miracle Worker. Other movies of
1962 included Westside Story, Birdman of Alcatraz, The Longest Day, The Music
Man, and two personal favorites, Dr. No (which introduced James Bond), and
from Japan, King Kong vs. Godzilla.
1962 was the first year we saw Jackie Chan, Julie Christie, Robert Duvall, Sally
Field, John Hurt and Terrence Stamp on film.
1962 was home to great rock and roll music. And, in particular, three
instrumentals that are on my “best of” list. First is Green Onions, by Booker
T. and the MGs, Telstar, by the Tornados, and Stranger on the Shore, by Acker
Bilk. The last two songs were from British bands and hit number one over here
(in case you thought the Beatles were the first). Other great tunes included, The
Loco-Motion, Duke of Earl, Johnny Angel, Breaking Up is Hard to Do, and The
Monster Mash.
Finally, 1962 gave us Tom Cruise, Jim Carrey, Garth Brooks, Sheryl Crow,
Matthew Broderick, Rosie O’Donnell, Governor Chris Christie, and Demi
Moore.
I just realized that
summer is now over.
Where in the world
did it go?
In fact, that is a very good question.
Where does the summer go when it
leaves? Is there some place that summer,
winter, spring and fall go to chill out?
When they get there, what in the world
are they doing?
Someone suggested, and I will not
divulge any names - only to say they
live in the same residence I do - that as
a person gets older, time goes faster. I
absolutely resemble that comment.
This past week I finally adjusted myself
to my summertime schedule. I do not
know about anybody else, but it takes me
a long time to get into a new schedule.
While I am thinking about it, who in
the world invented these seasons? Why
didn’t they let a good thing go? I would
much have preferred that we simply
divide our time by day or night. If it is
dark, for example, it has to be night.
And, if the sun is up and it is shining and
bright, it must be day. I could live with
something like that. At least I would
know what time it really was.
I was actually wallowing in a hopeless
spirit of despondency. What is a person
to do?
Then something rather strange
happened. One of my friends was playing
football and his first game was on a
Saturday morning. I thought maybe the
distraction might cheer me up a little bit
and encourage me to keep on keeping on.
I cannot remember the last time I was
at a football game. Of course that does
not mean too much, I cannot remember
what I had for lunch yesterday. It was
good to get into a different venue, and air
out my soul.
Then it hit me. No, not the football,
although that might have helped to a
certain degree. But a thought hit me,
which is just about as rare as being hit by
a football at a football game.
I had just gotten into the spirit of
watching the game when all of a sudden
I heard a whistle and a coach yelled,
“Timeout.” At that moment everything
stopped. I looked at the clock on the
scoreboard and it had stopped. I had
forgotten about this little quirk in
football.
The clock did not start and the game
did not commence until the coach yelled,
“play ball.” Or something to that effect.
That got me thinking. If they can do
that for football, why can’t we do that for
life? After all, life is far more important
than a football game. Who is that coach
that yells, “Timeout,” and everybody
stops? What kind of authority does he
have?
We need to bring this kind of thinking
into life in general. It seems to me that
everything in life is thought out in
great detail except actually living life.
Football has been well thought out and
is comprised of rules and regulations.
Baseball the same. Hockey... Well maybe
not so much hockey. Most games are
well thought out, have rules to live by,
and if something isn’t going the way
it is supposed to go, the coach has the
privilege of yelling “Timeout.”
How many times could I have used this
little rule in my life?
Wouldn’t it be nice to stop life when
you have made an inappropriate remark,
maybe you said something to your wife
that came out the wrong side of your
mouth. I have done that many a times.
I think it would be rather nice if when I
realize what I have just said, to be able to
yell “Timeout.” Then do it over again.
The other day one of my checks from
my checking account bounced. That
would have been a perfect time to yell
“timeout” and redo the whole thing.
There are so many things in life
that could benefit from this one little
thing called “timeout.” I suggest that
we began implementing this into our
daily life. After all, our daily life is much
more important than a football game,
a hockey game, or a baseball game. I
think whenever something goes awry we
should have the privilege to stop it right
in its tracks and do it over again. It does
not matter how many times we have to
do it over again, we continue doing it
over until we get it right.
It would make life more exciting if
I knew that if I made a mistake I could
call “Timeout,” do a do-over, and make
everything right.
I think we need to have a very stern
conversation with good old Father
Time. He is so much a stickler for time
marching on. But sometimes you get
tired of marching and need to sit down
and take a breather. Then, sometimes,
you need to change the direction in
which you are marching. It is not so bad
that time marches on, but when it needs
to turn around and march the other way,
that is a completely different story.
In thinking further along this line, I
discovered God already has a “Timeout”
plan. I found it in 1 John 1:9 (KJV), “If
we confess our sins, he is faithful and just
to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us
from all unrighteousness.”
With this in mind, I certainly want
to take full advantage of God’s “Timeout”
plan.
Rev. James L. Snyder is pastor of the Family
of God Fellowship, PO Box 831313, Ocala,
FL 34483. He lives with his wife, Martha,
in Silver Springs Shores. Call him at 1-866-
552-2543 or e-mail jamessnyder2@att.net
( mailto:jamessnyder2@att.net ) . His web
site is www.jamessnyderministries.com
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