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AROUND SAN GABRIEL VALLEY
Mountain Views-News Saturday, July 20, 2013
“What’s Going On?”
News and Views from Joan Schmidt
TERUMASA’S QUESTIONS
From the Book “Til Death Do Us Part”
By Christoper Nyerges
[Christopher Nyerges is the author of “Til Death Do Us Part?”, available
on Kindle, or as a pdf download at Store at www.ChristopherNyerges.
com. He is the author of 10 other books, and he leads self-reliance
classes. For more information, contact him at School of Self-reliance,
Box 41834, Eagle Rock, CA 90041, or www.ChristopherNyerges.com.]
MONROVIA-ARCADIA-DUARTE TOWN
COUNCIL MEETING: Updates on Hope House, Live
Oak Village and Summer Fun for Everyone
At the July Monrovia-Arcadia-Duarte Town Council Meeting, updates on
community concerns were given. First, George Lopez from Hope House on
Fairgreen Avenue said the alarm system has been installed. It is not a loud siren,
but a “talking” alarm system! It alerts you if someone is trying to open a window
or door. George said the neighborhood has “embraced us with open arms and
welcomed us… People have come over to introduce themselves and it has had
a positive effect on the residents”. He also said they loved the Mayflower Village
Parade and will be in it next year!
Council Member Linda Sells gave a
great update on the Live Oak Village in
South Arcadia. Linda has been working
diligently with Rose Olson, Project
Director. At the last meeting many
residents voiced concerns which were
heeded by Rose. The next day, many
residents met with Rose, saw the project
plans and they were appeased. However
some residents still had concerns. One
concern was parking. Originally, the
project was not going to cut down a
great Oak Tree. However the residents
didn’t care about the tree, they wanted
more parking! So the tree will come
down, but several others will be planted
in the proposed park-like area on
the site. It’s also “Back to the drawing
board”, and there is consideration for a
smaller structure.
Council Members Terrence Williams
and Gloria Huss mentioned riding the
Gold Line and how that project is on
schedule. Gloria reminded everyone to
go to Gold Line’s website for updates on
road work/street closing.
Since Youth Activities Deputy Art
Valenzuela has been out of town,
Probation Officer Kevin Peris kindly
gave us an update on YAL activities.
In June, Deputy Valenzuela took
eight male youth to Camp Courage in
the City of Industry where they worked
on team building and leadership skills. The kids challenged themselves on a rock wall, zip line and
high/low rope course. The goal is to build upon confidence and teamwork. (Girls Camp Courage will
be July 30-August 1)
In July, Deputy Valenzuela took youth to FamCamp-Calaveras Big Tree State Park. Thirty members
of the Youth Athletic League from Temple Station, East L.A. and West Hollywood attended. They
worked on training, had the opportunity to swim and kayak, and enjoyed hikes and trust walks.
On July 15-16, Deputy Valenzuela took 5 youth to the first ever Community Emergency Response
Team (CERT) training. The two-day class included basic first aid, emergency rescue/response and
other disaster preparedness skills. Each teen received a certificate of completion and an emergency
response bag.
On July 17, Deputy Valenzuela took 23 youth deep-sea fishing at Marina Del Rey on the Betty-O.
One final reminder: Enjoy the great Library, Music and Pamela Park summer programs! Ronald
McDonald will be at the Duarte Library Tuesday, July 23 at 3pm! Teen activities (Grades 6 and up)
are Monday evenings at 6:30 at Live Oak Library - last week they made great jewelry! Those music
concerts are great! Arcadia is Thursday evenings at 6:30, Monrovia is Sunday evenings at 7, and Pamela
Park is Thursdays at 6. (Please refer to the July 13 issue of this paper for the complete schedule). Lastly,
FREE MOVIE NIGHT - Fridays 8pm at Pamela Park - bring a blanket - free popcorn and a great
time for all!
Terumasa, Nami’s friend from
Japan, had arranged to visit
us in December of 2008. But
unbeknownst to Terumasa,
Dolores [my wife] had died a
few days earlier
In the evenings of late
December and early January, I
would often sit with Terumasa
and Nami and have dinner
together, often watching
television, and always trying
to converse with Terumasa.
Terumasa was a noble man
who exuded greatness. I loved
to be around him, and wished
that our language barrier was
reduced.
One late afternoon, after we
had the backyard memorial for
Dolores, a few people lingered
in the backyard and living room
to talk. Terumasa sat there next
to me, with Mel sitting there
listening. Terumasa looked
at me while we talked about
Dolores. He said, “Christopher,”
to gain my attention.
“Christopher,” he repeated
with great concern in his voice.
“Why are we born? Why are
here? Why do we live this life?
Why must we experience all
this pain?” He paused. He was
about to cry. He added, “Why
do we die?”
We were all silent for a few
moments. Joe Hall looked at
me, wondering what I would
say. Joe had previously made it
clear to me that he didn’t believe
in reincarnation, “and all that
spiritual stuff,” but I suppose
he wanted to see how I would
respond. Mel commented,
“Those are the questions,
alright.”
I nodded to Terumasa. What
could I say? Should I offer my
opinion as to the meaning of life
and death in a few simple words
with the attempt to cross the
chasm of our English-Japanese
divide?
“Yes, what is this all about?” I
asked rhetorically. I felt that I was
certainly able to intellectually
approach those questions, but I
did not feel emotionally up to it
in that moment.
“Let’s talk about that some
more soon,” was all I offered.
Eventually, only Joe Hall and
Mel remained talking, and when
I finally walked Mel to his car,
he turned and said, “We should
get together and talk about
Terumasa’s questions. I’d
really like that.”
“OK,” I told him. “We
will, but you have to
promise to come.” Mel said
OK.
About a month later
near the end of January,
we planned a Bon Voyage
party for Terumasa, who
would be actually departing
the following morning. We
invited many people, and
planned to have Japanese
tea and Japanese food.
We set up an outside table
up on the hill at the wildlife
sanctuary, with lights and a
table full of dinner. Nami
came up with Terumasa
and we invited them to sit
down. It took a little while for
Terumasa to realize that this
was a party for him. He laughed
loudly when he realized this was
a surprise for him!
We filled our tea cups and
touched them together for
our toast, and then all held
hands and recited the words of
the classic work, “Friendship
Bridge.”
Then, after asking Terumasa
about the details of his departure,
and what he’d be doing back
in Japan, we made the effort to
answer his questions. Prudence
and I prepared with different
parts of the book “Thinking and
Destiny” by Harold Percival,
along with our own insights.
We didn’t want our bon voyage
to Terumasa to become a strict
metaphysical study, but rather
we wanted to provide some
preliminary answers to his
serious query. It was as much
for us as it was for Terumasa.
We decided that we were
born upon this world in order
to continue our spiritual
evolution. Each of us added
some comments to this, but
everyone seemed to concur
that this is why we are here, and
which is why we are here to live
this life.
The subject of pain was much
more complex. Yet, we quickly
denounced the notion that our
pain is something given to us, or
done to us, by “god,” as is so often
averred by religious zealots. In
fact, in all the cases of individual
and large scale pain that we
could list, we felt that we are
our own worst enemy. We men
and women are the sources of
pain on the earth, which usually
come about by some violation
of natural law, some breaking
of the Ten Commandments,
not abiding by the Golden Rule,
and by partaking of the Seven
Capital Sins. Our pain is the
result of our own choices, and
when we learn from our pain
and our choices, we – if we are
intelligent – learn to make other
choices.
This was a big topic, but again
everyone was in agreement
that we bring our own pain
upon ourselves, and that pain
is largely unavoidable unless we
make other choices.
Then we talked about death.
Prudence read from “Thinking
and Destiny” and pointed out
that death can be a friend to our
Spiritual Self, that our bodies
are simply not destined to live
forever, and that – like it or not
– we will all die as part of our
long progress towards spiritual
perfection.
This was not wholly agreeable
to all, but the topic of death is so
full of emotion and opinion and
religious dogma that we did not
attempt to have agreement all
around, and that was OK.
By now we were feasting on
some delicious Japanese fish and
soup, and we gave Terumasa
some gifts to take back to Japan.
We all exchanged phone
numbers and emails and we all
hugged. It was clear to all that
change was coming soon, and
that this wonderful warrior
would soon be gone. By 9:30,
we all departed, and on the
following Saturday morning,
Terumasa flew away to Japan.
MONTEREY PARK POLICE ARREST ALLEGED
CREDIT CARD SCAM
ARTIST
Monterey Park Police Investigators
identified and arrested a
woman suspected of multiple
incidents of credit card fraud,
burglary, and grand theft. Si H.
Liu, also known as “Katie,” was
arrested Friday, July 12, at her
home in La Puente. Liu represents
herself as a real estate
agent and may own a massage
business in the city of Fullerton.
Liu speaks Mandarin Chinese
and has been a U.S. resident for
about 10 years. Investigators
have linked her to at least sixteen
victims in the San Gabriel
Valley and the investigation
continues to grow.
Victims contacted Liu after
reading her advertisements for
easy loans in the Chinese Daily
News. Liu asked victims for
their identification, social security
numbers, and all of their
credit cards so that she could
“check their credit” in order
to obtain loans. Victims provided
the information believing
that Liu would obtain loans
for them. Instead, Liu allegedly
used the credit cards to obtain
cash for herself using a credit
card machine that she owned.
Other victims reported that
she accompanied them to open
credit accounts at retail stores
such as Best
Buy; she would
ask victims
to purchase
items for her
on their credit
accounts with
a promise to
pay them back
in cash, but
she never did.
Liu also made
photocopies
of identification
and credit
cards prior to
returning them
to the victims,
possibly for
the purpose
of committing
fraud and identity
theft in the future.
The Monterey Park Police Department
urges citizens to be
aware of correct financial loan
practices and to investigate the
legitimacy of any business person
promising “easy loans” or
requesting personal information
such as credit card or bank
account information. Fraud
suspects frequently use classified
ads to target potential
victims, and citizens who have
limited English skills are at risk;
they are also reluctant to report
fraud after it happens.
The Los Angeles County District
Attorney’s Office filed
a 25-count felony complaint
against Liu on Tuesday; charges
range from Residential and
Commercial Burglary to Theft
Using an Access card, Possession
of Access Card Information,
and Grand Theft.
Additional victims are encouraged
to contact Detective Han
at the Monterey Park Detective
Bureau; 626-307-1246.
THE SUMMER HEAT IS ON! – TIPS FOR SENIORS TO
STAY SAFE AND COOL!
Summer is a time for vacations and outdoor activities, but the heat and health risks of the
summer heat should not be taken lightly, especially for the elderly. As a person becomes
older, they become less sensitive to higher temperatures, putting the elderly more at risk to
heat related illness. The elderly are more likely to not notice the warning signs of heat-related
diseases and injury. Health conditions caused by the heat can range from heat stroke, the
most serious, to cramps caused by lack of water intake, nausea and weakness, and headaches
caused by exhaustion due to the summer heat. Following are some tips for seniors to stay
safe and cool during the summer heat:
• Maintain plenty of water intake to keep hydrated, about 4-8 glasses a day; eating fresh
fruits and vegetables can also help hydrate the body. Avoid alcohol and caffeinated drinks;
drink water or a sports drink instead.
• Reduce strenuous activities during hot weather. Exercise in the cool morning and
evening hours to avoid the heat.
• Avoid too much sun and always use sunblock when going outdoors for prolonged
periods of time.
• When planning for a family outing in the summer, ensure there are cool places with
shade and ventilation for seniors to retreat to.
• Snack on cool treats, such as popsicles, ice cream, and other frozen treats to keep
cool.
• If you have an elderly family member or friend, check on them or have a neighbor
check on them to ensure their safety during hot summer months.
• When the heat rises to extreme temperatures, seniors should stay in cool places out
of the sun, such as an air-conditioned room.
• If you see signs of heat exhaustion or dehydration, such as weakness, nausea, heavy
sweating or no sweating, rapid pulse, or fainting, move the senior immediately to the nearest
cool shaded area and provide with ventilation and hydrants like cool juice or water. You can
also help cool them down by applying a cold compress. Call for medical assistance immediately
if it is necessary.
LAWSUIT THREATENS TO PUT 300 OUT OF WORK
By: Cynthia Kurtz, San Gabriel Valley Economic Development Partnership
We have a great legal system. We probably use
it too often to settle disagreements that could be
resolved by getting everyone in the same room at
the same time. But sometimes it is necessary to
hand a matter to the lawyers. It is nice to know
that our legal system is there in case you ever do
need to use it.
By and large, I think the courts find reasonable
ways to handle the business and employment
grievances put before them. However, once in a
while you hear of a case and wonder how can that
be fair?
The case in point is a recent judgment against a
company in the San Gabriel Valley.What started
as a dispute over a single termination might end
up impacting 300 employees and their families.
The company is Valley Vista Services, a family
owned solid waste and recycling company that
has served the San Gabriel Valley since 1957.
This case began when one of Valley Vista's female
employee became ill and wasn't able to
work. After using sick leave and vacation time,
she still wasn't back at work. Valley Vista tried
to contact her but she didn't respond and so the
company terminated her for job abandonment.
Her lawyer says Valley Vista's action was a
wrongful termination and that the company
didn't try hard enough to accommodate her special
needs - panic attacks.
I didn't hear the trial and I don't know all the details
so I make no judgment on whether the employee
was treated fairly or unfairly. The court's
determination was that she deserved monetary
compensation. So let's accept that and say that
Valley Vista Services should pay the employee
damages.
First, she was awarded $5.2 million in compensatory
damages. These are intended to make
her whole for the loss of her job. She was also
awarded punitive damages. Punitive damages are
intended to punish the "wrongdoer." California
doesn't have any caps on punitive damage awards
in these types of cases. Twenty-two of the forty-
five states that allow punitive damages set limits.
California does allow the court to look at the
company's value before setting the damages. In
this case the plaintiff's attorney argued that the
company's value should not be based on revenues
but on the value of the company if everything was
liquidated.
Yes, I said liquidated. Everything sold, piece by
piece, no more company. The court accepted this
argument and Valley Vista Services was hit with
an additional $16.5 million judgment. The $21.7
million penalty is the largest employment related
award of its kind in Los Angeles County history.
Unless it is overturned on appeal, it will put Valley
Vista Services out of business and put 300 employees
out of work.
We'll see if an appeal of the case changes the
outcome. But if it doesn't, taking away the jobs
of 300 people who were not the "wrong doers" as
a way of righting the wrong to one employee just
doesn't make sense to me.
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