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THE GOOD LIFE 9 Mountain Views-News Saturday, December 17, 2016 SENIOR HAPPENINGS HOW TO CREATE A SAFE ‘AGING-IN-PLACE’ HOME Dear Savvy Senior, My husband and I are thinking about making some modifications to our home so we can remain living there for as long as possible. Can you recommend some good resources that can help us with aging in place ideas? Staying Put Dear Staying, Many retirees, like you and your husband, want to stay living in their own house for as long as possible. But being able to do so will depend on how easy it is to maneuver your home as you get older. Here are some helpful resources you can turn to, to get an idea of the different types of features and improvements you can make that will make your house safer and more convenient as you grow older. Home Evaluation A good first step in making your home more age- friendly is to do an assessment. Go through your house, room-by-room, looking for problem areas like potential tripping or slipping hazards, as well as areas that are hard to access and difficult to maintain. To help with this, there are several organizations that have aging- in-place checklists that point out potential problems in each area of the home, along with modification and solutions. Rebuild Together, for example, has a two-page “Safe at Home Checklist” that’s created in partnership with the Administration on Aging and the American Occupational Therapy Association. Go to AOTA.org and search for “Rebuilding Together Safe at Home Checklist.” The National Association of Home Builders also has an “Aging-in-Place Remodeling Checklist” that offers more than 100 suggestions to can help homeowners age 50-plus live safely, independently and comfortably. Go to NAHB.org and search for “Aging in Place Remodeling Checklist.” Also check out AARP’s excellent resource called the “HomeFit Guide” that’s filled with 28-pages of tips and diagrams to make your entire home safe and easier to live in as you age. You can access it at AARP.org – search for “HomeFit,” or call 888-687-2277 and ask them to mail you a free copy. Personalized Advice If you want more personalized help, consider getting a professional in-home assessment with an occupational therapist. An occupational therapist, or OT can evaluate the challenges and shortcomings of your home for aging in place, recommend design and modification solutions, and introduce you to products and services to help you make improvements. To find an OT in your area, check with your physician, health insurance provider or local hospital, or seek recommendations from family and friends. Many health insurance providers, including Medicare, will pay for a home assessment by an OT if prescribed by your doctor. However, they will not cover the physical upgrades to the home. Another option is to contact a builder who’s a Certified Aging in Place Specialist (CAPS). CAPS are home remodelers and design-build professionals that are knowledgeable about aging in place home modifications, and can suggest ways to modify or remodel your home that will fit your needs and budget. CAPS are generally paid by the hour or receive a flat fee per visit or project. To find a CAPS in your area visit the National Association of Home Builders website at NAHB.org/ capsdirectory where you can search by state and city. Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …December Birthdays* Pat Karamitros, Joan Hufnagel, Mary Alice Cervera, Carol Horejsi, Shirley Anhalt, Mignon Grijalva, Helen Reese, Levon Yapoujian, Toni Buckner, Lottie Bugl, Pat McGuire, Sheila Wohler, Nan Murphy, Eleanor Hensel, Sylvia Curl, Elizabeth Levie, Gayle Licher, Cindy Barran, and Melissa Stute. * To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737. YEAR of birth not required but you must be over 60. ................................................................... ACTIVITIES: Unless listed differently, all activities are at the Hart Park House (Senior Center) 222 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre YWCA San Gabriel Valley - Intervale Senior Cafe Seniors 60 years of age and up can participate in the YWCA Intervale daily lunch program held at the Hart Park House Senior Center. Meals are served Monday through Friday at 12:00 pm and participants are encouraged to arrive by 11:45 am. Meals are a suggested donation of $3.00 for seniors 60 and over or $5.00 for non-senior guests. Daily reservations are necessary, space is limited. Please reserve your lunch by calling 626-355-0256. Tech Talk: Will resume in the fall. Hawaiian and Polynesian Dance Class: Every Tuesday morning from 10:00 - 11:00am. Join instructor Barbara Dempsey as she instructs you in the art of hula. Bingo: Every Tuesday beginning at 1:00 pm. Cards are only $0.25 each! Everyone is welcome to join. May be cancelled if less than 5 people. Free Blood Pressure Testing: 2nd Tuesday of the month from 11:00am - 12:00 pm. No appt. necessary. Chair Yoga: Mondays and Wednesdays from 11:00 - 11:45am. A suggested donation of $5 at one of the classes is requested, but is not required. Case Management: Meets the second Thursday of the month. Case Management services are provided by the YWCA and provide assistance in a variety of areas. Appointments are required and can be scheduled by calling the HPH Office at 626-355-7394. Birthday Celebrations: Every second Thursday of the month at the Hart Park House. The free birthday cake is provided by the Sierra Madre Civic Club. Game Day: Every Thursday starting at 12:00 pm. (Please note the time change.) A regular group of seniors play poker. Other games available for use. Free Strength Training Class: Every Friday from 12:45 - 1:30 pm with Lisa Brandley. The class utilizes light weights for low impact resistance training. All materials for the class are provided. Senior Club: Every Saturday at the Hart Park House Senior Center. Brown bag lunch at 11:30am. SENIOR EXCURSION - Proposed 2017 Trips January The Broad Museum (Sold Out) February St. Sophia’s Cathedral March Walt Disney Concert Hall April Tanaka Farm Strawberry Tour May The Getty Villa June Guided Dogs of America and The Wildlife Learning Center July Gardens of the World August Gondola Getaway September Riley’s at Oak Glen November Japanese American National Museum December Mission Inn Excursion Refund Policy Notification of the cancellation must be made at least 3 business days before the excursion. A refund will only be issued; 1) for medical excuse or 2) if the Department is able to fill the patron’s spot from a waiting list. This refund will be issued in the form of a credit which will be applied to the patron’s account with the City, less a $13 Cancellation Fee. The credit will remain on your account for one year from the date issued and the credit may be used for any program or service offered by the Library & Community Services Dept. HOLIDAY LUNCH On Thursday, December 15th, join us for the Annual Holiday Lunch. The lunch will feature special dessert, and a raffle with a variety of prizes. Also returning this year, students from Bethany Christian School will be singing Christmas Carols. Bring your holiday spirit and join us for the special day! Lunch reservations MUST be made with the Senior Lunch Café by calling 626-355-0256. KATIE Tse..........This and That THE ART OF RE-GIFTING Re-gifting --you know you’re guilty of it, or you’ve been the victim, or probably both at different times. Somewhere in your holiday history you suspected the sweater in primary colors your cousin gave you was originally a gift from her second graders. Or maybe that the Chocolate Barge from your aunt was something a client gave her. Maybe you’ve never re-gifted anything, and if that’s the case, I tip my hat to you. When we receive something we don’t need or want, our first instinct is to toss it along like a hot potato. Outside of the heartfelt presents exchanged among loved ones and dear friends, so much of our gift giving is merely obligatory gestures we perform like automatons to the dictates of the calendar. It is the thought that counts, and I’m honestly just as happy with a greeting card as I am with a Trader Joe’s card. I wish we could all simply circulate sincere notes of thanks to the people we appreciate. Even when a harmonious balance like this exists, some well- intentioned person has to go and up the ante by giving something tangible. This necessitates that the recipient respond in kind, unless they want to come off as a schmo. Although inherently tacky, re-gifting makes a lot of sense. Especially in this economy, if you’ve been dealt a re-gift-able present (chocolates, bath products, coffee/tea collections) it’s very tempting to save a buck by utilizing this item to fulfill your gesture to someone else. So, re-gifting is sometimes allowable, but there are ground rules you need to follow. First, never re- gift something from someone you’re deeply close to (If you need to hear this, you’re beyond grasping its meaning). It’s okay to pass along ceramic snowmen figurines from the coworker in another department to your neighbor down the block. It’s not okay to re-gift anything someone made for you personally. You’d look stupid trying to pawn off a glass mug engraved with “To my friend, Wendy” or hand knit mittens bearing your initials. Second, never re-gift in the same location. For example, if a coworker gives you something, don’t turn around and give it to another coworker! The first thing the recipient will probably say is “Gee, Gloria just gave me Bath & Body Works “Sugar Plum Dream” lotion, too! I guess great minds thinks alike!” Instead, re- gift your soulless lotion to a distant relative or marginal acquaintance. Gift cards are the ultimate re-gift-able gift. How much more impersonal can you get? I remember having lunch around Christmas with a girl I didn’t know very well. When we opened our gift bags we realized we exchanged gift cards of the same denomination for different stores. I felt like laughing and saying, “Tell you what, you keep your $20 and I’ll keep mine!” The most honorable ways of dealing with unwanted re-gift-able items are to donate them to a charity or leave them in the break room at work (as long as the gifts weren’t from a coworker). If you do re-gift, it’s polite to provide a disclaimer as you offer the recycled item to it’s next person. Say something to the effect of, “Someone at work gave this to me and I really have no use for it. If you don’t want it I totally understand!” Of course you can always keep your re-gift-able gifts. But if you do this consistently, you might run into a situation I addressed in an earlier column –”Garage Sale!” GINGERBREAD JAMBOREE! Thursday, December 22nd, 1:00pm - 2:00pm Show off your creative side by building a gingerbread house for the holidays. Come build your own gingerbread house on December 22 at the Hart Park House. All supplies will be provided. This is a great way to get into the holiday spirit! Reservation required. Please call the Hart Park House 626-355-7394. Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||