Opinion … Left/Right | ||||||||||||||||||||
Mountain Views News, Pasadena Edition [Sierra Madre] Saturday, September 29, 2018 |
||||||||||||||||||||
OPINION B3 Mountain Views News Saturday, September 29, 2018 SUSAN HENDERSON Publisher IT’S NOT ABOUT HIM, IT’S ABOUT US! Mountain Views News PUBLISHER/ EDITOR Susan Henderson PASADENA CITY EDITOR Dean Lee EAST VALLEY EDITOR Joan Schmidt BUSINESS EDITOR LaQuetta Shamblee PRODUCTION Richard Garcia SALES Patricia Colonello 626-355-2737 626-818-2698 WEBMASTER John Aveny DISTRIBUTION Kevin Barry CONTRIBUTORS Kevin McGuire Chris Leclerc Bob Eklund Howard Hays Paul Carpenter Kim Clymer-Kelley Christopher Nyerges Peter Dills Rich Johnson Lori Ann Harris Rev. James Snyder Dr. Tina Paul Katie Hopkins Deanne Davis Despina Arouzman Jeff Brown Marc Garlett Keely Toten Dan Golden Rebecca Wright This entire Kavanaugh Confirmation is a mess. It shows the politicizing of the highest court in the land like never before. But more importantly, it highlights how little women are respected and valued in this society. We have been used as ‘window dressing’ when convenient and totally ignored when it doesn’t serve our male dominated society’s purpose. Before I go any further, let me suggest you avoid trying to put any ‘labels’ on me or my writing. I am not what has been defined as a ‘feminist’ or ‘women’s libber’. No, the accurate label for me is simple, A female American citizen of African descent. You can add to that, a mother, sister, grandmother, great-grandmother, intelligent, opinionated, mature woman who votes. And, by the way, I am not bashing men. Some of the most important people in my life were/are my Grandpas (2), my Dad, my brother, my uncles, my sons, my grandson. My mentors in business have been mostly men, so no I don’t hate men so any criticisms I may have are not gender based, they are just the ugly reality of our culture. That being said, it really is time for this country to start telling and facing the truth! Having defined who’s speaking, let me be clear. The revelations of ALL WOMEN who are now speaking out is not about the accused, it is about them, it is about us - it is about America as a society with blinders on. No need to dress it up. There has not been a single allegation made against Kavanaugh, Trump, Cosby, et al, that comes as a surprise to anyone BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY HAS NURTURED SUCH BEHAVIOR! As those of you who go to church know or should know, there is the sin of omission as well as the sin of commission. And in this country, while the accused may have committed the sin, too man of us, especially those elevated to a position of power, are guilty of the sin of omission by failing to listen to, act on behalf of and protect the victims. Our society only pretends to be concerned when the persons accused are famous. When the victim is the unknown little girl down the street we whisper, gossip and ignore. THAT IS WHAT HAS TO CHANGE. It is disheartening watching the country’s reaction. The perpetrators of abuse still don’t get it. The naysayers (and far too many of them are women) don’t get it, or they don’t want to get it. When Dr. Ford told the entire country that the time was now for her to speak up, nobody heard her. She risked everything to sound an alert that the person about to ascend to the Highest Court in the land for life was not worthy and she did it because it was more important to her to let the public know than to continue to harbor the secret. For those who say, why did she wait so long I say, unless you are a woman who has lived in this society, you can’t even begin to understand. There has been and currently is NO MECHANISM that supports girls, boys men and women who have been sexually abused unconditionally. So imagine harboring these terrible acts within your soul for fear of retaliation or ridicule. The truth is, there are those who choose to die with their pain within rather than deal with the reaction of those they love and respect. A girl who is molested by a family member or family friend often has to deal with parents who downplay, deny or ignore her. That woman grows up, and then has to live her life pretending that for instance, brother and later Uncle to her children was ok, while knowing that was a lie. That woman lives with knowing that the revelation would destroy her family so she kept it inside, like an undiagnosed cancer just to get by because our society supports burying the ugly truth rather than dealing with it. Better not to tell anyone, eh? There are those who bury the incidents as if they never happened. The memory keeps going deeper and deeper within, poisoning the victim’s connection with reality. They put on a public façade and never deal with the reality of what has happened to them. Many times they continue to maintain for the sake of their privacy a “normal” relationship if the perp happens to be a person of authority or relative. They develop the ability to just act like it never happened and yet each time a news report comes forth with similar facts, they quietly deteriorate a little more from reality every day. Again, society supports burying the ugly truth rather than dealing with it. There are also those who blame themselves. Even in the 21st century, victims are still shamed into taking responsibility for sexual assaults. It was what they were wearing, where they were at the time, why they provoked the attack, etc. Such attitudes in this society furthers the abuse and leads to victims blaming themselves. American society supports burying the ugly truth rather than dealing with it Then there are those who treasure their privacy. Just look at Dr. Ford. No need to review what Dr. Ford has been going through. You’ve seen it. Come forward and tell your story. Be damned if you try to keep it confidential. You will suddenly find yourself victim of even more assaults. Assaults on your integrity, your character, your intelligence and your dignity. That is another reason why so many women just keep it to themselves. No need to make yourself fodder for critics. It won’t ease the pain. Our society supports burying the ugly truth rather than dealing with it AND WE NEED TO CHANGE THAT! In this country we seem to never learn from our mistakes. Almost three decades ago, as a result of the disclosures of Anita Hill regarding then Supreme Court Nominee Clarence Thomas, 1992 was dubbed “The Year Of The Woman” and saw an historic increase in the number of women elected to office. Senator Dianne Feinstein was one of those women. However, we did very little to support them by addressing the problems with sexism and abuse in our everyday lives. Yes, we made progress in many ways, but we went out the door backwards when we allowed a man who we have seen and heard debase and ridicule women for sport, become the President of our country. So what do we do now? Let’s start with a little honesty. This problem isn’t a female/male problem, it is a societal problem and it is time for us to stop acting like it doesn’t exist. Stop sending people to represent us who don’t have respect for all human beings, regardless of their age, sex or national origin. We also have to stop acting like bad things don’t happen. They do. I would bet that there is not one person reading this column who hasn’t experienced abuse or know of someone who has. Let’s stop knowing about it and work on those things that will help prevent it. Like, for instance, teaching and showing love and respect for others in all aspect of our lives. No, it’s not about Kavanaugh, really, it is about us and we ought to be ashamed. Quoting Sojourner Truth's prophetic statement in the 1800’s, I think that ‘twixt the negroes of the South and the women at the North, all talking about rights, the white men will be in a fix pretty soon.” Well the fix is in. The dirty laundry is out. Time to stop talking and get real. #timesup Mountain Views News has been adjudicated as a newspaper of General Circulation for the County of Los Angeles in Court Case number GS004724: for the City of Sierra Madre; in Court Case GS005940 and for the City of Monrovia in Court Case No. GS006989 and is published every Saturday at 80 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., No. 327, Sierra Madre, California, 91024. All contents are copyrighted and may not be reproduced without the express written consent of the publisher. All rights reserved. All submissions to this newspaper become the property of the Mountain Views News and may be published in part or whole. Opinions and views expressed by the writers printed in this paper do not necessarily express the views and opinions of the publisher or staff of the Mountain Views News. Mountain Views News is wholly owned by Grace Lorraine Publications, and reserves the right to refuse publication of advertisements and other materials submitted for publication. Letters to the editor and correspondence should be sent to: Mountain Views News 80 W. Sierra Madre Bl. #327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Phone: 626-355-2737 Fax: 626-609-3285 email: mtnviewsnews@aol.com LEFT TURN/RIGHT TURN DICK POLMAN MICHAEL REAGAN ASSAULTING KAVANAUGH It was a long, embarrassing day of drama, tears and ugly partisan bickering. But by the end of Thursday’s Senate Judiciary Committee hearing, I came to the conclusion that both Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford had told the truth. I believed Supreme Court nominee Kavanaugh never sexually assaulted Ford in 1982, when they were both teenagers. And I also believed Ford really was sexually assaulted at age 15 - but not by Kavanaugh. Some of my fellow Republicans have made the mistake of holding up Ford’s fuzzy or selective memory in her testimony as proof that she was not telling the truth about being sexually assaulted. They shouldn’t. When you are sexually assaulted, as I was repeatedly as a boy by a camp counselor in 1954, it can permanently mess up your memory. The last time it happened to me, when I was 8 or 9, it occurred in the apartment of the man who abused me. I don’t remember how I got home that night. I can’t tell you where his apartment was. But I can tell you in detail what it was like being in his dark room where he developed the photos he took of me. It does a giant disservice to Dr. Ford and the rest of us who’ve been sexually assaulted to distrust our imperfect memories of such a traumatic event. But the greatest disservice to Dr. Ford - and Judge Kavanaugh - has been done by the Senate Democrats who sat on her allegation for weeks and then leaked it to the national media at the last minute. For ten days Ford and Kavanaugh and their families were thrown into media Hell, had death threats made against them and were targeted on social media by the sleaziest operatives of both parties. Watching the Senate Democrats’ play their slime-ball politics yesterday was an embarrassment to the Judiciary Committee, the U.S. Senate and the people of the USA. At times it was pathetic. We had to watch grown senators acting as if they had never been in high school or college. We had to watch senators like Richard Blumenthal desperately trying to use goofy teen-age blurbs from a 1982 high school yearbook to prove somehow that Kavanaugh was a teen-age alcoholic who had sexually assaulted Dr. Ford in a blind stupor. Or using another yearbook entry to make the absurd case that Kavanaugh and his friends had gang sex with a specific female schoolmate - whose name Blumenthal mentioned. The Democrats on the committee didn’t care who their dirty tricks or sleazy accusations hurt - Ford and her family, Kavanaugh and his family or Kavanaugh’s high school friends. My greatest worry Thursday morning was that Judge Kavanaugh was going to come out and act like he did on Fox earlier this week in the Martha MacCallum interview - like an altar boy. He didn’t. He came out firing. He had to do something he never had to do before in his life - defend his honor from partisan dirt bags. He did an absolutely incredible job considering how hard the Democrats were working to destroy his reputation and stop his nomination. Thank God, the Republicans stopped using that dull woman prosecutor they brought in to gently question Dr. Ford while the Democrats on the committee took turns trashing Kavanaugh. That was a monumental mistake that largely let Dr. Ford off the hook. When the woman prosecutor began questioning Kavanaugh, the whole country was starting to fall asleep. Thank God, Sen. Lindsay Graham stepped in and delivered a powerful rant that called out the Democrats for their delay tactics and attempts to make Kavanaugh into a teen-age Bill Cosby. All in all, Judge Kavanaugh acquitted himself very well yesterday. Now his fate is the hands of the Senate Republicans. May God help him. - Copyright 2018 Michael Reagan. Michael Reagan is the son of President Ronald Reagan, a political consultant, and the author of “Lessons My Father Taught Me: The Strength, Integrity, and Faith of Ronald Reagan.” He is the founder of the email service reagan.com and president of The Reagan Legacy Foundation. Visit his websites at www.reagan.com and www.michaelereagan.com. Send comments to Reagan@caglecartoons.com. Follow @reaganworld on Twitter. Mike’s column is distributed exclusively by Cagle Cartoons newspaper syndicate. For info on using columns contact Sales at sales@cagle.com. REPUBLICANS DETERMINED TO ALIENATE AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE Why are Republicans so determined to stick with Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanagh, soiling themselves in the process and alienating as many women voters as possible? I see three reasons: Donald Trump views Kavanaugh as survival insurance (given his past writings), Trump is loathe to admit defeat, and the party’s aggrieved white men apparently believe in all sincerity that the female of the species is bent on destroying them, and thus must be fought at all costs. Dumping Kavanaugh at this point, now that a credible second woman has come forward, should be a no-brainer. There are plenty of prospective judges in the Federalist Society factory who’d be willing to overturn Roe v. Wade. But that would mean starting from scratch, with new hearings and new social calls on Capitol Hill, and the Republicans don’t want to stretch the timetable past the midterm elections. Especially if Democrats were to recapture the Senate (which is possible, but not probable). Republicans know they’d look bad if they tried to hustle a new ideologue onto the high court during the post-election lame-duck session. On the other hand, they don’t seem to care much about looking bad. Their current behavior makes that perfectly clear. What a freak show they’ve been conducting. They’ve been trying to rush the confirmation process - denying Christine Blasey Ford the courtesy of an FBI review (which Anita Hill was accorded), refusing to schedule additional testimony (and considering Brett pal Mark Judge’s misogynist track record, no wonder) - because they wanted to minimize the risk of more horrific revelations. Indeed, according to The New Yorker, some Senate Republican staffers knew last week about Deborah Ramirez, the Yale classmate who now says that Kavanaugh waved his penis in her face. Nevertheless, in the words of Mitch McConnell, Republicans intend to “plow right through.” And their attitude is best illustrated by the Ed Whelan sideshow, a classic case of right- wing character assassination. Whelan, a longtime conservative operative and pal of Kavanaugh’s, announced that Ford may have been attacked by someone who merely looked like Kavanaugh - an innocent person with no links to the incident he identified publicly. Meanwhile, a right-wing public relations firm known as CRC hyped Whelan’s fake news. When the whole farce blew up in Whelan’s face on Friday, he abjectly apologized. Then Garrett Ventry, a spokesman for the Senate Judiciary Committee (actually, a CRC employee on loan to the committee) rushed out a statement that the panel “had no knowledge or involvement” in Whelan’s scheme. After that, Ventry resigned from the committee, because he has been accused of…wait for it…sexual harassment. I’ve written in the past that the GOP’s behavior in the Kavanaugh affair seems almost calculated to widen the gender gap and drive more women voters into the midterm Democratic camp. Now we’re starting to see the evidence. A new USA Today poll says only 31 percent of Americans support Kavanaugh’s confirmation, a new low, and that the hostility is driven by women voters, who now oppose him by a nearly 2-1 margin (23 percent yes, 43 percent no). Other recent polls find a similar pattern. It’s doubtful that Trump did his nominee much good by tweeting that if Ford’s teenage allegation was real, she would’ve promptly reported it to the police. White House aides had reportedly hoped that Trump would duct-tape his fingers and stay out of the fray, but alas, he could not resist. Surely there are still some women left to alienate. He says now that he’s standing with Kavanaugh “all the way.” And assuming that he and the misogynistic Republicans hold firm in the days ahead, it’s doubtful that Andrew Puzder’s outburst will help. You may remember Puzder; he was briefly Trump’s Labor secretary nominee. On Saturday, he lamented in a tweet that Ford’s sexual assault allegation was evidence that ” nothing is sacred in the Left’s pursuit of power.” He omitted the fact that his ex-wife accused him of domestic violence - which she described years ago on national TV while wearing a disguise to protect her identity. How can Kavanaugh possibly lose when he’s defended by the best people? - Copyright 2018 Dick Polman, distributed exclusively by Cagle Cartoons newspaper syndicate. Dick Polman is the national political columnist at WHYY in Philadelphia and a “Writer in Residence” at the University of Pennsylvania. Email him at dickpolman7@gmail.com. Mountain Views News Mission Statement The traditions of community news- papers and the concerns of our readers are this newspaper’s top priorities. We support a prosperous community of well- informed citizens. We hold in high regard the values of the exceptional quality of life in our community, including the magnificence of our natural resources. Integrity will be our guide. Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||