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B2 BUSINESS NEWS & TRENDS ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT Mountain Views-News Saturday, October 13, 2018 Jeff’s Book Pics By Jeff Brown FAMILY MATTERS By Marc Garlett Who Should Khloé Kardashian Choose as Legal Guardian For Her Child—One Instance Where ‘Keeping Up With the Kardashians’ Might Be A Good Idea You might not be a big fan of their typical life choices, but the Kardashians recently demonstrated impressive wisdom in protecting their minor children using estate planning. During a recent episode of Keeping Up With The Kardashians, Khloé Kardashian was preparing to give birth to her first child, daughter True. Khloé was second-guessing her initial choice to name her sister Kourtney as the child’s legal guardian in the event something happened to her or the baby’s father, Tristan Thompson. During her pregnancy, Khloé spent lots of time with her other sister Kimberly and her family, daughters North, Chicago, son Saint, and husband Kanye West. Watching her interacting with her own kids, Khloé really connected with Kim’s mothering style and pondered if she might be a better choice as guardian. “I always thought Kourtney would be the godparent of my child, but lately I’ve been watching Kim, and she’s been someone I really gravitate to as a mom,” Khloé said. To make things more challenging, Kourtney always assumed she’d be named guardian and said as much. Over the years, Khloé had lots of fun times with Kourtney’s family—sons Mason, Reign, and daughter Penelope—and Kourtney thought her own passion for motherhood would make her the natural choice. For guidance, Khloé asked her mother, Kris Jenner, how she chose her kids’ guardians. Kris’ answer was to compare how her two sisters’ raised their own children. “You just have to think,” Kris told her. “‘Where would I want my child raised, in which environment? Who would I feel like my baby is going to be most comfortable and most loved?’” In the end, Khloé chose Kim over Kourtney. She explained her decision had nothing to do with her respect or love of Kourtney; it was merely about which style of parenting she felt most comfortable with. “Watching Kimberly be a mom, I really respect her parenting skills—not that I don’t respect Kourtney’s, I just relate to how Kim parents more,” said Khloé. “I just have to make the best decision for my daughter.” Khloé’s actions are admirable for several reasons. First off, far too many parents never get around to legally naming a guardian to care for their children in the event of their death or incapacity. Khloé not only made her choice, but she did so before the child was even born. Khloé also took the time to speak and spend time with her sisters beforehand, so the family understood the rationale behind her decision. Khloé was lucky her choices were close family members, so she had ample opportunity to experience both of their parenting styles. Depending on your life situation, you might not be able to spend that much time vetting your choice. But at the very least, you should sit down with each of your top candidates to openly and intimately discuss what you’d expect of them as your child’s new parents. Dedicated to empowering your family, building your wealth and defining your legacy, A local attorney and father, Marc Garlett is on a mission to help parents protect what they love most. His office is located at 55 Auburn Avenue, Sierra Madre, CA 91024. Schedule an appointment to sit down and talk about ensuring a legacy of love and financial security for your family by calling 626.355.4000 or visit www.GarlettLaw.com for more information. These Truths: A History of the United States by Jill Lepore In the most ambitious one-volume American history in decades, award- winning historian Jill Lepore offers a magisterial account of the origins and rise of a divided nation, an urgently needed reckoning with the beauty and tragedy of American history. Lepore’s groundbreaking investigation places truth itself a devotion to facts, proof, and evidence at the center of the nation’s history. The American experiment rests on three ideas ”these truths,” Jefferson called them political equality, natural rights, and the sovereignty of the people. And it rests, too, on a fearless dedication to inquiry, Lepore argues, because self- government depends on it. But has the nation, and democracy itself, delivered on that promise? These Truths tells this uniquely American story, beginning in 1492, asking whether the course of events over more than five centuries has proven the nation’s truths, or belied them. To answer that question, Lepore traces the intertwined histories of American politics, law, journalism, and technology, from the colonial town meeting to the nineteenth-century party machine, from talk radio to twenty-first-century Internet polls, from Magna Carta to the Patriot Act, from the printing press to Facebook News. Along the way, Lepore’s sovereign chronicle is filled with arresting sketches of both well-known and lesser-known Americans, from a parade of presidents and a rogues’ gallery of political mischief makers to the intrepid leaders of protest movements, including Frederick Douglass, the famed abolitionist orator; William Jennings Bryan, the three-time presidential candidate and ultimately tragic populist; Pauli Murray, the visionary civil rights strategist; and Phyllis Schlafly, the uncredited architect of modern conservatism. Americans are descended from slaves and slave owners, from conquerors and the conquered, from immigrants and from people who have fought to end immigration. “A nation born in contradiction will fight forever over the meaning of its history,” Lepore writes, but engaging in that struggle by studying the past is part of the work of citizenship. “The past is an inheritance, a gift and a burden,” These Truths observes. “It can’t be shirked. There’s nothing for it but to get to know it.” Great Short Stories by American Women by Candace Ward Embracing a wide variety of subjects, this choice collection of 13 short stories represents the work of an elite group of American women writing in the 19th and earthly 20th centuries. The earliest stories are Rebecca Harding Davis’ naturalistic “Life in the Iron Mills” (published in 1861 and predating Émile Zola’s Germinal by almost 25 years) and Louisa May Alcott’s semiautobiographical tale “Transcendental Wild Oats” (1873). The most recent ones are Zora Neale Hurston’s “Sweat,” an ironic tale of a failed marriage, published in 1926, and “Sanctuary” (1930), Nella Larsen’s gripping and controversial tale of contested loyalty. In between is a grand cavalcade of superbly crafted fiction by Sarah Orne Jewett, Mary E. Wilkins Freeman, Charlotte Perkins Gilman, Kate Chopin, Willa Cather, Alice Dunbar-Nelson, Djuna Barnes, Susan Glaspell and Edith Wharton. Brief biographies of each of the writers are included. The Trouble with Women by Jacky Fleming Perfect for fans of Kate Beaton, Lena Dunham, and Caitlin Moran, The Trouble with Women is a feminist’s brilliant, tongue-in-cheek, hysterical look at women’s “issues,” “frailties,” and “failures” in our not-so-distant history. Ever noticed that women don’t feature much in history books, and wondered why? Then this is the book for you. In The Trouble with Women, feminist artist Jacky Fleming illustrates how the opinions of supposed male geniuses, such as Charles Darwin (who believed that women have smaller brains than men) and John Ruskin (who believed that women’s main function was to praise men), have shaped the fate of women through history, confining them to a life of domesticity and very little else. Get ready to laugh, wince, and rescue forgotten women from the “dustbin of history,” while keeping a close eye out for tell-tale “genius hair.” All Things By Jeff Brown FREE EVENT! FOOLISH MORTALS AT SIERRA MADRE PLAYHOUSE ON OCTOBER 24 REPUBLICANS BY GARRISON KEILLOR ‘’The party of Lincoln and Liberty was transmogrified into the party of hairy-backed swamp developers and corporate shills, faith- based economists, fundamentalist bullies with Bibles, Christians of convenience, freelance racists, misanthropic frat boys, shrieking midgets of AM radio, tax cheats, nihilists in golf pants, brownshirts in pinstripes, sweatshop tycoons and get as much as you can when in power. ... Republicans: The No. 1 reason the rest of the world thinks we’re deaf, dumb, and dangerous.’’- Garrison Keillor Just in time for Halloween, AKT Academy at Sierra Madre Playhouse will present Foolish Mortals. AKT Academy is a company of young artists in residence under the direction of Alison Kalmus at Sierra Madre Playhouse. Foolish Mortals (the name comes from Shakespeare) are the most advanced performers of AKT Academy. The Foolish Mortals are Julian Moser, Alison Wang, Kevin Ying, Eliza Cevallos, Aidan O’Connor, Jude Gomez, Selina Ho, Myles Hutchinson and Momo Inouye-Wu. The Foolish Mortals will perform two works: Washington Irving’s The Legend of Sleepy Hollow and Edgar Allen Poe’s The Raven, both pieces appropriately atmospheric and spooky for the season. They’ll be presented in the style of old- time radio drama, with live sound effects. The Foolish Mortals will be joined in this performance by special guest Sierra Madre Estimated running time: One hour. Wednesday, October 24, 2018 at Seven P.M. At Sierra Madre Playhouse, 87 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre, CA 91024. This is just east of Pasadena. There is ample free parking behind the Playhouse. Admission is free. Reservations are not necessary. Website: www.sierramadreplayhouse. org Phone: (626) 355-4318. HEALTHY LIFESTYLES YES, THERE’S MORE. The benefits of practicing yoga are quite profound. Only naming a few, we know it reduces stress, improves mobility, builds strength and calms the mind. You can experience these benefits by attending class and practicing at home (with some framework to your practice). If the style of yoga is right for you, life gets better almost immediately. Beyond the classes and the physical practice of yoga, there is the study of yoga. Once you’ve begun, a natural curiosity develops to learn more, to find out where the teachings come from, and what the techniques are that lead to deeper awareness and awakening. This is when studentship and inspiration begin. Necessary to studentship is a teacher who is experienced in technique and knowledge and has the awareness to identify where the student is in their practice and level of understanding. Every great teacher who inspires meaningful awareness and awakening continues their own path as a dedicated student. Along with a devoted practice, being a student is an abundance source of a teacher’s inspiration. Diving deeper into the teachings of yoga shifts perspective and brings self-realization. Think of it as stepping into the right shoes. It lifts veils of illusion and generates authenticity. Many ancient universal spiritual principles are within what we learn. I believe this is why we are drawn to learn and develop even more through a yoga practice. Also, in many cases, what we learn in yoga aligns well with an existing spiritual way of life. I encourage you to get practicing and study if you are drawn to learn more about Yoga, Meditation, and Philosophy. It’s a vast sea and your journey could begin by reading one page in one ancient text or experiencing one sublime meditation. Helpful in this equation is a teacher who you connect with —one who dispels fear and encourages you to stretch yourself and your perception. Please contact me to learn more: keely@ keelytotten.com. Namaste, Keely Totten, E-RYT 500, Student and Teacher of Yoga and Meditation www.keelytotten.com THE MISSING PAGE Real Life Tips from LIfe's Instruction Manual Lori A. Harris DO WHAT’S ESSENTIAL, DO WHAT YOU LOVE! Henry David Thoreau is a much-loved man of nature. We love him because he stopped to notice life, nature, and wrote about his observations. His simple thoughtful words are guides to remember to live and enjoy life. I ask my clients to face the essential facts of life. I ask them to ask themselves, “what is essential?” As you rise to live each day, I invite you to live with enthusiasm. Are in engaged in a life that you truly love living? A little over two hundred years ago, a man lived for just under 45 years. He was an abolitionist, a handyman, and a writer. While Henry David Thoreau’s life was brief, his writing continues to instruct and inspire. “I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately,” Thoreau writes, “to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.” Mr. Thoreau conducted an experiment where he went to the woods for two years, two months and two days to see what he could see and learn. He wanted to “suck the marrow out of life.” I do too. We can decide to live intentionally. Each of us is blessed with a unique view. Our interests, gifts, and talents are individual expressions of life, yet most people are stuck in a rut and are not enjoying their lives. If you are attentive, and on social media, you’ll notice that many people are in a kind of groupthink, this is not new, Thoreau once wrote, “the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” When I host a workshop, I help my guests ask themselves big questions, “what would I love?” In that question people discover their deepest desires: whether it’s spending more time in nature, repairing a broken relationship, or learning to dance. That question is the spark of a dream. “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” “If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.” Thoreau At the workshops, we design a blueprint, and the guests leave with tools to build a dream. I would love to share these tools with my readers. If you are interested, email Lori at Lori@Loriaharris.com. Lori A. Harris is the creator of the Gratitude Train App, available in the App Store and Google Play . Learn more about her at www.GratitudeTrain.com Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||