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B2 ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESS NEWS & TRENDS Mountain Views-News Saturday, April 21, 2018 FAMILY MATTERS By Marc Garlett Jeff’s Book Pics By Jeff Brown The Confidence Code for Girls: Taking Risks, Messing Up, and Becoming Your Amazingly Imperfect, Totally Powerful Self by Katty, Claire Shipman, JillEllyn Riley, Nan Lawson Girls can rule the world—all they need is confidence. This empowering, entertaining guide from the bestselling authors of The Confidence Code gives girls the essential yet elusive code to becoming bold, brave, and fearless. It’s a paradox familiar to parents everywhere: girls are achieving like never before, yet they’re consumed with doubt on the inside. Girls worry constantly about how they look, what people think, whether to try out for a sports team or school play, why they aren’t getting “perfect” grades, and how many likes and followers they have online. Katty Kay and Claire Shipman use cutting-edge science and research, as well as proven methods of behavioral change, to reach girls just when they need it the most— the tween and teen years.Packed with graphic novel strips; appealing illustrations; fun lists, quizzes, and challenges; and true stories from tons of real girls.The book teaches girls to embrace risk, deal with failure, and be their most authentic selves.If you or the girl in your life loved The Gutsy Girl or Rad American Women A-Z, you’ll love this. Home Fire: A Novel by Kamila Shamsie “Ingenious… Builds to one of the most memorable final scenes I’ve read in a novel this century.” —The New York Times. The suspenseful and heartbreaking story of an immigrant family driven to pit love against loyalty, with devastating consequences.Isma is free. After years of watching out for her younger siblings in the wake of their mother’s death, she’s accepted an invitation from a mentor in America that allows her to resume a dream long deferred. But she can’t stop worrying about Aneeka, her beautiful, headstrong sister back in London, or their brother, Parvaiz, who’s disappeared in pursuit of his own dream, to prove himself to the dark legacy of the jihadist father he never knew. When he resurfaces half a globe away, Isma’s worst fears are confirmed.Then Eamonn enters the sisters’ lives. Son of a powerful political figure, he has his own birthright to live up to—or defy. Is he to be a chance at love? The means of Parvaiz’s salvation? Suddenly, two families’ fates are inextricably, devastatingly entwined, in this searing novel that asks: What sacrifices will we make in the name of love? The Blackhouse: The Lewis Trilogy by Peter May From acclaimed author and dramatist Peter May comes the Barry Award-winning The Blackhouse, the first book in the Lewis Trilogy- -a riveting mystery series set on the Isle of Lewis in Scotland’s Outer Hebrides. When a grisly murder occurs on the Isle of Lewis that bears similarities to a brutal killing on the mainland, Edinburgh detective and native islander Fin Macleod is dispatched to the Outer Hebrides to investigate, embarking at the same time on a voyage into his own troubled past.As Fin reconnects with the people and places of his tortured childhood, the desolate but beautiful island and its ancient customs once again begin to assert their grip on his psyche. Every step toward solving the case brings Fin closer to a dangerous confrontation with the dark events of the past that shaped--and nearly destroyed--his life.The 3 book reviews are from Amazon.Com SUCCESSION PLANNING WHEN NOT ALL OF YOUR KIDS ARE IN THE FAMILY BUSINESS Owning your own business can be a great endeavor that takes a lot of passion and drive. Many small business owners focus on the day- to-day management and growth of the business, rather than thinking about a time when he or she may not be in the business. This is a far too common mistake. Future plans for your enterprise are even more important when one child works in the business but the others do not. Keeping the peace among your children after you are no longer able to participate in the business requires careful balancing of your estate plan. Planning Ahead Before considering whether or not to pass your business to the next generation -- as opposed to selling it to a third party -- make sure at least one of your children is capable of (and willing to) running the company. Once that has been established, then early planning is the next step in ensuring the best outcome. Ideally, succession planning should start at least five years before you decide to retire. And because life is unpredictable -- you may become incapacitated or pass away without warning -- the best time to start planning is now. There are several things to consider when planning for your small business if not all of your children are involved. It is important to keep in mind that treating your children fairly does not necessarily mean you will treat them equally when it comes to your estate planning. For this reason, being proactive will make sure your desires will be followed even after you can no longer run your company. Factors to Consider First, minimizing the risk of conflict among your children once you are gone requires a mindful weighing of your estate, your successor trustee, and other aspects of your estate plan to ensure your wishes are recorded and can be easily followed. Second, you must consider the value of the business as well as control and management issues. This can be done by clearly identifying the roles and responsibilities of your successor in a written plan. Third, if you have a sizeable estate, there are financial strategies that a knowledgeable estate planning professional can use to equalize distributions. This can also be done with other assets such as IRAs, 401(k)s, investment real estate, life insurance, as well as stocks, bonds, and/ or mutual funds. Finally, an estate planning professional can analyze how the business is capitalized in order to ensure your estate plan is fair when it comes to your children -- whatever you consider fair to be in your particular circumstance. Notably, how a person’s business is organized has a direct effect on how it is treated, taxed, and administered upon his or her death. Don’t Leave It To Chance Ignoring or delaying estate planning for your small business is not financially prudent. As a successful business owner who already has the next generation involved in the company, you must take charge of the future so that the fruit of your hard work can continue on. More important, clearly writing down your desires will help keep your family from bickering -- a likely result if you just leave the business’s future to chance. Give us a call today, so we can craft an estate plan that will allow your business to continue to thrive for generations to come. A local attorney and father, Marc Garlett is on a mission to help parents protect what they love most. His office is located at 55 Auburn Avenue, Sierra Madre, CA 91024. Schedule an appointment to sit down and talk about ensuring a legacy of love and financial security for your family by calling 626.587.3058 or visit www.GarlettLaw.com for more information. All Things By Jeff Brown 2016/ONE STATISTIC In 2016, gun homicides made up 74.5 percent of all homicides in the United States-the highest share of any year in the past century,an analysis of the federal data reveals.The share of total homicides committed by gun was even higher than in the early 1920’s, at the start of prohibition,and the early 1990s ,at the peak of that decade’s crack-fueled crime wave.The Washington post. BUSINESS TODAY The latest on Business News, Trends and Techniques By La Quetta M. Shamblee, MBA WHO ARE THE GIVERS & TAKERS IN YOUR LIFE? For entrepreneurs it is very helpful to identify individuals involved in your life as either a help or a hinderance to your progress and success. It important to distinguish those who in your circle who are truly supportive, in contrast to people who are simple involved with you to benefit from what they may be able to get from you. Entrepreneurs have enough burden to bear without taking on the load of providing benefits to people lurking on the sidelines to extract what they can for themselves, without making some type of reciprocal contribution. The ability to distinguish givers from takers is a great starting point for entrepreneurs to protect themselves from these parasites. Several years ago I was introduced to a simple exercise that has made it easy for me to identify and categorize the “givers” and “takers” in my life. These are the individuals who I have some level of personal interaction with on an ongoing or routine basis. The nature of the relationships or interactions place me in a potential position of vulnerability if I am not crystal clear about the intentions of those who may have the greatest impact on my progress and success. I’ll refer to the exercise as the “List of Givers & Takers”: Step #1: Take a hard copy or digital pad and draw two vertical lines down the middle to create three columns. Make the first column to the left the widest, and the other two need to be large enough to place a checkmark (.). Step #2: In the first column, list the name of everyone in your life with whom you have close contact, ongoing involvement or routine affiliation. These individuals may be spouses, family, other loved ones, friends, business associates or anyone you consider to be important in your life due to how often or how deeply they are connected to you. Step #3: Place the following headings in columns 2 and 3, respectively: Givers, Takers Step #4: After completing Step 1 thru 3, starting from the top of the list, go through without hesitation and being honest with yourself, place a checkmark in the “Giver” or “Taker” column next to the name of each person on your list. This checkmark must be based on the actual dynamic that individual has with you, not based on how much you love, respect or enjoy the company of the person. Do they sometimes pick up the tab on a lunch outing? … likely a giver. Are they the ones that show up at the family potluck with a car full of people, yet bring three liters of soda from the Dollar Store and empty containers to take leftovers home? .. probably a taker. Perhaps it’s a business colleague who has benefited professionally or financially from your business referrals, but has never provided a referral that has resulted in any measurable benefit to you … probably a taker. Hopefully this exercise will provide a level of clarity and awakening for you as it did for me the first time I did it. This exercise is now an annual ritual with me, and not surprisingly, it helps me to identify those with whom I choose to truly have in my circle. By identifying the Givers, I am able to collaborate, partner and share ideas and resources with the relief that it will be reciprocated at some point in our dealings with each other. Also, I continue to interact with, be cordial, and even spend time socially with some of the Takers on my list, but I’ve also quietly and without fanfare, eliminated them from involvement in anything that has to do with my professional or business endeavors – unless of course, it’s clear there is something for me to take, up front. WHAT MAKES YOU AN AMERICAN? Photos by Gina Long Told with humor and with important resonances to today, The Immigrant is based on a true story of a young Jew who fled the pogroms of Czarist Russia in 1909 and pushed his banana cart into the tiny Baptist community of Hamilton, Texas. Given shelter by a childless older couple, he sent for his wife, raised a family, and made this town his home. A moving story of parents and children, newcomers and natives, Christians and Jews, and the realization of the American Dream. Learn more and buy tickets at http://sierramadreplayhouse.org Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com | ||||||||||||||||||||