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OPINION:
Mountain View News Saturday, December 21, 2019
TOM PURCELL
WHY CHRISTMAS
NOSTALGIA IS GOOD
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I indulge more
deeply in Christmas
nostalgia
with every passing
year, but it
turns out that doing
so is a good
thing.
“Nostalgia,” according
to Merriam-Webster, is “a
wistful or excessively sentimental
yearning for the return to some past
period or irrecoverable condition.”
Time is certainly irrecoverable. I
wish I’d known, when I was child,
that time would go by so incredibly
fast – which makes me now long for
my past.
I remember vividly one Christmastime
Saturday when I was 5 or 6. It
was uncharacteristically warm for
Pittsburgh – so warm, my mother
opened our living room windows, allowing
a fresh breeze in.
I sat by those windows, waiting for
my hero – my father – to return
with our Christmas tree. Trapped in
a kid’s time warp, minutes ticked by
like hours.
In future years, I’d be his sidekick as
we shopped for the perfect tree. But
it was too early for that yet.
Eventually, our white Ford station
wagon pulled into the driveway, a
big, thick evergreen tied to the roof.
As my father got out and began untying
it, I ran outside to help.
He was in his early 30s then, his hair
black as coal. He stood nearly 6-foot-
2, a powerful man. In an era when
children argued that “my dad can
beat up your dad,” my dad could.
I marveled as he set the tree on the
living room platform like it was a
stick. Then he kissed my mother, as
he did every single time he walked
through our front door.
This memory still fills me with a deep
sense of security. How blessed I have
been to be part of a large family, imperfect
as it was and still is, with my
parents together, doing their best to
sacrifice for and love their children.
I re-experience the deep sense of
the security they gave my sisters and
me when I watch “A Charlie Brown
Christmas,” “How the Grinch Stole
Christmas!” and “Rudolph the Red-
Nosed Reindeer.”
All were huge childhood events,
which my family gathered around
the television to watch with Snyder
of Berlin potato chips and French onion
dip, a special treat in our home.
For years, according to Dr. Max Pemberton
in the Daily Mail, psychologists
warned against such nostalgic
indulgence.
But Constantine Sedikides, a Southampton
University professor, says
they got it wrong. Sedikides, who
researches the effects of nostalgia,
argues that nostalgia can comfort
people, helping them connect and
cope with adversity.
Nostalgia, writes Pemberton, can
“imbue us with resilience by reminding
us that we possess a store of
powerful memories and experiences
that are deeply intertwined with our
identity.”
Scratchy old Christmas albums, luminaria
lining the streets, Christmas
Eve gatherings with our longtime
next-door neighbors the Kriegers,
bittersweet memories of so many
people no longer here – this is the
nostalgia that holds more power over
me each Christmas season.
It makes me hold doors open for
strangers, give more to those in need,
try to be more understanding and
gracious toward those with whom I
disagree.
These are the benefits of Christmas
nostalgia.
May you and your family – and our
country as a whole – enjoy an abundance
of those benefits this year.
Tom Purcell, author of “Misadventures
of a 1970’s Childhood,” a humorous
memoir available at amazon.
com, is a Pittsburgh Tribune-Review
humor columnist and is nationally
syndicated
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LEFT TURN/RIGHT TURN
STUART TOLCHIN
PETER FUNT
CONTROL AND MONEY
HO HO THE MISTLETOE
I have been in a bad mood, more or less, since
the powers that be determined that I would no
longer be able to watch most Dodger games on
television. Of course it would be possible for me
to switch Cable Providers and thereby receive
the games on television once more. I did not
do this as I had considered it my inalienable,
if not Constitutional right to receive Dodger
games on television, similarly, I considered it
my inalienable right to park at Courthouse and
Medical facilities for free. Therefore, I have willingly parked at great
distances from the Courthouse and hospitals in spaces that only allow
parking for a limited time. Consequently, as you might have guessed,
I have paid far more for parking violations than I would have paid to
park but who cares? I have my principles and I will not allow logic or
common sense to influence me.
I know that this behavior makes no sense but I can tolerate it
in myself. What I cannot tolerate is the non-sensical, illogical, and
unquestionably destructive behavior of the society in which we all
live. Scientists tell us that the entire human habitability of our planet
is endangered, Within a generation or so no one is going to be able
to live here. Something must be done and it must be done soon.
Instead the focus of the society is on the meaningless horse races
between Democratic Presidential aspirants who challenge one another
on matters of infinitely lesser importance.
There are other issues of great importance that are similarly
ignored. The existence of huge nuclear stockpiles possessed by unstable
governments (unfortunately including this one.) To my mind the
tremendous damage to the society occasioned by the intemperate
use of alcohol is unconscionable. I use the word intemperate but
the stuff is actually poisonous, detrimental to civilized behavior and
totally destructive to physical, mental, and emotional health. Yet the
encouraged use of alcohol is seemingly celebrated and there seems to
be a societal belief that life cannot be enjoyed without it. Of course
there is the argument that prohibition has already been tried and failed.
Cannot we persevere and try again. Of course we can but the problem
is that we do not want to. At its heart this particular civilization finds
its rules and restrictions oppressive and any excuse to break away from
civilized patterns of behavior are welcomed and glorified as long as it
does not detract from the ultimate purpose of the society which is their
accumulation of money
Let’s face it. The television battles and the political races are just
about money. I frankly think that the powers that be fear a sober
electorate would see through the nonsense that passes for political
dispute. A sober electorate, one that could not be bought off by cheap
promises of entertainment and festivals and fantasy beliefs in celebrity
would understand that we are on the road to ultimate and foreseeable
destruction and would act in such a way as to threaten the financial
seemingly impervious strength of the super wealthy. Instead we poor
unmoneyed people try to content themselves with meaningless refusals
to conform who are tolerated for so lo long as they do no not raise social
concerns. Poor Colin Kaepernick but I gather he too is being corrupted
with highly paid commercial endorsements. Money triumphs over all.
Well not quite. I will not change my cable provider or succumb to the
need to pay for parking. With that I wish you all Happy Holidays.
During the Holiday Season, which now stretches from Autumnal
Equinox to New Year’s Day, it’s nearly impossible to
turn on the radio or walk through a shopping mall without
hearing the rich, mellifluous voice of Burl Icle Ivanhoe Ives.
Few people can place his name but in the coming weeks
millions will sing along or tap their toes to the improbable
holiday hit he recorded in November 1964.
Ives, who died in 1995, compiled a remarkably diverse
showbiz resume. Yet, while memories of his noteworthy accomplishments have faded,
his sappy little tune remains as popular as ever. Last Christmas, more than half a
century following its release, the song ranked among Billboard’s top 10. Coming 109
years after his birth, the achievement made Ives the oldest artist, living or deceased,
to have a top-40 hit.
Burl Ives began performing at age 4 in rural southern Illinois and by his teens he
sang professionally in venues described by one obituary writer as: saloons, parks,
churches, hobo jungles, lumber camps, prize fights, steel mills, cattle ranches and
fishing wharfs. He twice enrolled in college and twice dropped out, preferring the
life of a rail-riding, singing vagabond.
Rotund and bearded, Ives looked to be a jolly sort of fellow, yet on stage he rarely
cracked a smile. Although known primarily as a folk singer, he won an Academy
Award in 1959 for his performance in the film “The Big Country,” one of 32 movies
in which he appeared. He won wide praise for his stage performance as Big Daddy
in Tennessee Williams’s “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof,” one of his 13 Broadway roles. He
had his own TV series, “The Wayfarin’ Stranger,” on CBS, and he released over 100
record albums.
In the midst of this acclaimed career as an actor and balladeer, Ives was hired as
the narrator for NBC’s 1964 animated special, “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.”
Music for the special was composed by Johnny Marks, who 15 years earlier had
written the classic Christmas tune of the same name, an enduring hit for singing
cowboy Gene Autry. Marks, a Jew who made a fortune writing Christmas songs,
would compose “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree” for Brenda Lee, “I Heard the
Bells on Christmas Day” for Bing Crosby, and “Run Rudolph Run,” recorded by
Chuck Berry.
For the NBC program, Marks picked a schmaltzy and forgotten tune he had written
a few years earlier for a group known as The Quinto Sisters. Ives, cast as narrator
Sam the Snowman, was not supposed to sing in the show, but the network decided
he should be given Marks’ little ditty, running all of two minutes and 15 seconds.
No Christmas songs made Billboard’s Hot 100 list for 1964, dominated as it was by
nine hits featuring The Beatles. In fact, the Marks-Ives record did not officially make
the chart until digital downloads were tabulated, after which it placed #46 in 2016,
#38 in 2017, and #10 in 2019.
Inexplicably, the song has grown in popularity. It’s message, certainly appropriate in
these tense times: “Say hello to friends you know and everyone you meet.”
And, of course, “Have a holly, jolly Christmas.”
A list of Peter Funt’s upcoming live appearances is available at www.CandidCamera.
com. Peter Funt is a writer and speaker. His book, “Cautiously Optimistic,” is available
at Amazon.com and CandidCamera.com.
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