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PORTRAITS & FUN
Mountain View News Saturday, December 19, 2020
PORTRAIT OF OUR NEIGHBORS By Stuart Tolchin
JANE NIELSON
Imagine it is 5 A.M., another
sleepless night, you wish you had at least
one friend in the world to talk to and
together make peace with whatever is
keeping you up. Someone who knows
all your secrets and still cares for you.
Someone you can be open with. Someone
who is smart enough to get all your jokes
and no matter how bad you feel can still
make you laugh. Few things are more
important. I have someone like that;
Jane Nielsen, the first and most lasting
friend I made after moving to Sierra
Madre over forty years ago. Now she
lives in Tennessee in an Eastern Time
Zone on a luxury 10 acre property with
a 2,800 square foot house. A way of
understanding Jane and Edmundo is
their use of their property as a Bed and
Breakfast site. While others are staying in
their home at the cost of $350 per night,
Jane and her husband make do residing
in their trailer which has no electricity
or running water or toilet facilities but
allows them necessary daily earnings.
Jane is always occupied tending to the
property, pulling saplings, and constantly cleaning the house. She is up early and has become a
successful stock market day trader. (This is the reason she is already up and busy when we talk
at 5:00). Certainly this time of travel restriction makes things tough but Jane and Edd are doing
all right. The contents of our conversations are filled with Jane’s instructions regarding diet as
she has an almost life long interest in nutrition and exercise. Both follow disciplined diets and
attend the gym regularly. Jane at 74 weighs 5 pounds less than when I met her 40 years ago and
she was slim then. Our other subject is her grandson, a true freshman quarterback at Vanderbilt
University, now forced to live in a bubble removed from other students, friends and family. His
emotions tied to a season where he has lost every game while his coach has been fired have given
Jane and I much to talk about. I have seen every game.
Over the years I learned of Jane’s difficult past which has had as a long term effect on
her overall emotional stability. At 13, after already being deported from Canada because of the
actions of her father and then returning to Canada when her 15 year old sister became pregnant.
Jane was given the choice to stay in school or go to Denmark and assist her sister who was being
sent away to avoid embarrassment. Now at 13, Jane was in Denmark, not speaking the language
and also not going to school. Men, particularly their own abusive, addicted father have always
been the source of great problems. Eventually the sisters returned to Canada where they both
had further misadventures with abusive men. Police intervention was required and the girls
were moved to San Francisco for their own protection.
Now in the United States Jane had no desire to ever have a family. Out of ignorance
and fear she became involved with a man who deceived her. Soon she was a single mother,
with no education, not having learned to drive and no professional experience or qualifications.
Her beauty she says brought men to her but also invariably brought conflicts. She describes
herself as being a kind of sleeping beauty, unsure, awaiting a kiss from a Prince Charming who
will protect her and cherish her, while at the same time she does not really want to be kissed. In
Sierra Madre for fourteen years she and her daughter lived with a very nice man, but according to
Jane, her previous painful experiences with men caused her to keep him at a distance inevitably
dooming their relationship. During her time in Sierra Madre living across from me I took notice
of her talents in photography, ceramics, and gardening. Talented but doubting her own ability.
Happily, she has found Edd; a hard-working previously married man. Together they
have put a life together, travelled the world and continue to prosper and they both still look
good. Hooray! Well, now you know Jane probably as
well as I do. I am a little luckier than you though as she is available to talk and laugh with me
even at 5:A.M.
The Creative Arts
Gallery is open for
Holiday Shopping!
Are you looking for that perfect last minute gift that doesn't
require unpredictable shipping? The Creative Arts Group
Gallery is open and well stocked with lots of wonderful one-
of-a-kind art works and gifts!
We are grateful to all of you who have already come in to
shop and welcome everyone to come take a look.
We are also pleased to announce that we are beginning to roll
out limited On-Line Shopping with curbside pick up for those
of you who are local. Currently, we have a limited selection
of artists and art work to choose from (there are significantly
more artists represented in the Gallery than are currently
available for online purchase) but it is a place to start!
Please visit our Gallery page to see a short video of EVERTHING
in the Gallery and to check out our online store. If
you see something on the video that you'd like but which isn't
in the store, give us a call and you can purchase it over the
phone.
All online and phone purchases ordered before Noon will be
available for pick up between Noon and 2pm.
Our Gallery hours for the next week are:
Friday 12/18 10am - 5pm
Saturday 12/19 10am - 2pm
Sunday - Closed -
Monday 12/21 10am - 2pm
Tuesday 12/22 10am - 2pm
Wednesday 12/23 10am - 2pm
Thursday 12/24 - Closed -
Friday 12/25 - Closed -
The Creative Arts Group offices and Gallery will be closed
from 12/24 - 1/3. We will reopen on January 4, 2021 ready to
take on the new year.
As always, if you have any questions please call us or feel free
to contact us atinfo@creativeartsgroup.org if you need any
assistance. All our best, The CAG Staff
(626)355-8350
Mountain Views News 80 W Sierra Madre Blvd. No. 327 Sierra Madre, Ca. 91024 Office: 626.355.2737 Fax: 626.609.3285 Email: editor@mtnviewsnews.com Website: www.mtnviewsnews.com
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