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ASSISTED LIVING OR NURSING HOME?
There are many myths about Assisted Living being like
Nursing Homes. This is not true at all. Nursing facilities
are for those with chronic health issues who require care
around the clock from medical professionals.
In Assisted Living, one will get the support as needed,
such as getting help with showering, grooming, and
dressing. Again, these services are based on the seniors
needs.
There are many reasons in working with us. At Safe Path
for Seniors, we will assess the senior and depending on their care needs and budget, make recommendations.
For example, we may suggest that the right fit is a Board and Care Home (normally a 6-bedroom house) as
opposed to an Assisted Living Community or a Memory Support Facility. You will work with an experienced
agent who
knows the industry well and will give you recommendations. The good news is that there is no cost for this
service.
If you have any questions about placing a loved one, visit www.safepathforseniors.com or call Steve at
626-999-6913
RETIRING ABROAD? TIPS AND TOOLS TO HELP YOU MAKE AN
INFORMED DECISION
Dear Savvy Senior:
What are the key factors to consider when contemplating
retiring abroad? My husband and I will soon
be retiring and are interested in moving abroad to
a country that’s cheaper and warmer than the U.S.
Looking Ahead
Dear Looking:
Whatever your reasons for aspiring to retire
abroad – a lower cost of living, a better climate
or a desire for adventure – you need to do your
homework and learn everything you can about
the country you’re interested in because it’s not an
easy move. Here are some different tips and tools
to help you make an informed decision.
Researching ToolsIf you’re in the decision-making process of where
to retire, InternationalLiving.com and LiveAndInvestOverseas.
com are two excellent websites
that provide articles, information and lists of the
top retirement destinations abroad based on cost
of living, climate, health care, housing, visas, infrastructure
and more.
Once you pick a country or two that interest you, a
smart move is to talk or network with some expats
who have already made the move you’re thinking
about making. They can give you tips and suggestions
on many issues, as well as the advantages and
disadvantages and day-to-day reality of living in a
particular country. Facebook is a good resource
for locating expat groups.
But before committing, experts recommend visiting
multiple times during different seasons to
see whether you can envision yourself living there
and not just exploring the place as a tourist. Here
are some other factors you need to look into.
Cost of living: Retiring abroad used to be seen as
a surefire way to live beyond your means, and for
many countries it still is. But depending on where
you move, the U.S. dollar may not stretch as far as
you think. To compare the cost of living in hundreds
of cities and countries use Numbeo.com.
Visa requirements: If you want to spend just part
of the year living abroad or are willing to move
from country to country, most countries offer a
three or six-month tourist visa, which is easy to
get. But if you want to set up permanent residence
abroad you might have to jump over a few more
hurdles depending on where you want to retire. To
research visa requirements in the countries that
interest you, visit VisaGuide.World.
Health care: Most U.S. health insurance companies
do not provide coverage outside the U.S., and
neither does Medicare. Check with the embassy
(see USembassy.gov) of your destination country
to see how you can be covered as a foreign resident.
Many countries provide government-sponsored
health care that’s inexpensive, accessible and just
as good as what you get in the states, or you may
want to buy a policy through Medibroker.com or
BupaGlobal.com.
Also know that most people who retire abroad
eventually return to the U.S., so experts recommend
paying your Medicare Part B premiums. If
you drop and resume Part B, or delay initial enrollment,
you’ll pay a 10 percent premium penalty
for every 12-month period you weren’t enrolled.
Housing: Buying a home in a foreign country can
be complicated, so it’s almost always better to rent
first until you’re sure you want to permanently reside
there.
Money matters: Opening or maintaining a bank
account abroad can also be difficult. You may
have to establish a checking account with an institution
that has international reach like Citibank
or maintain a U.S. bank account that you can access
online. Claiming your Social Security benefits,
however, should not be a problem as they
offer direct deposit to almost every country in the
world. See SSA.gov/international/payments.html.
Taxes: You also need to research tax rules in your
prospective countries and be aware that even if
you’re living in another country, as a U.S. citizen
you’ll still most likely need to file an annual U.S.
tax return – see IRS.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p54.pdf.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O.
Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.
org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC
Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior”
book.
Join us for a
Month of
Programs and
Events!
The Sierra Madre
Public Library has
announced the 2023
selection of One Book
One City; Flying Free:
my victory over fear
to become the first
Latina pilot on the US
Aerobatic Team by
Cecilia Aragon.
One Book One City is
a community reading
program that invites
everyone in Sierra Madre to read and discuss the same book during February
2023 and participate in exciting programs and events.
This fabulous community program includes an Author Talk with Cecilia Aragon,
a tour of the San Gabriel Valley Airport, a kids STEAM Dream Workshop
with local teacher Dany Richey, a kids paper airplane competition, a movie
night with the documentary Fly Like a Girl through our new streaming service
Kanopy, and inspirational presentations on women in flight.
Aragon’s memoir, Flying Free, shares her own journey of breaking past her own
fears to become a champion aerobatic pilot. Aragon was a timid child, painfully
shy and afraid of everything from heights to people. How did she become
a death-defying daredevil and aerobatic pilot? In her memoir, she bares her life
even though writing it “scared me more than pointing my single-seat experimental
plane at the ground and opening the throttle until I was roaring earthward
at 250 mph”.
Connect all month long through engaging themed programs that are free and
fun for the whole family. Call the Library at (626) 355-7186 for more information.
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS*
Tracy Verhoeven, Beatrice DaRe, Catherine Adde, Hilda Pittman, Anne-
Marie Stockdale, Susan Henderson, Allie Attay, Ursula El-Tawansy,
Gladys Moser, Sylvia Lorhan, Ana Ptanski, Winifred Swanson , Janet
Gillespie, Marian DeMars, Vickie Vernon, Mary Beth Knox, Sharon
Lefler.
* To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737.
YEAR of birth not required
DOMINOES TRAIN GAME
1st & 3rd Wednesdays 11:00 am— 12:30 pm Hart Park House
The object of the game is for a player to play all the tiles from their hand onto one or
more trains, emanating from a central hub or “station”. Call Lawren with questions that
you may have.
TEA AND TALK BOOK CLUB
Wednesday, 2/15 9:00 am Hart Park House
Staff has launched a new book club series, Tea and Talk, which meets twice a month
to discuss the fun, suspense, intrigue, love and so much more that each selection will
have in store!
FIBER FRIENDs
Tuesday, 1/17 10:00 am Hart Park House
If you enjoy knitting, crocheting, embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or
cross stitch then we have a group for you! Bring your current project, sit and chat
with like-minded fiber friends.
HULA AND POLYNESIAN DANCE
Every Friday 10-10:45 am
Bring a lei, your flower skirt or just your desire to dance! Hula in the Park is back
and waiting for you to join in on all the fun! Memorial Park Pavilion.
CHAIR YOGA
Every Monday and Wednesday 10-10:45 am
Please join us for some gentle stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall relaxation
with Paul. Classes are ongoing and held in the Memorial Park Covered Pavilion
or the Hart Park House.
BINGO
Thursday, 1/19 Hart Park House 1:00 pm-2:00 pm
Please join in a fun and lively game of BINGO. Several rounds fun will be had with
prizes for each rounds winner.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
ANOTHER CELEBRATION IN THE BANK
This month The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage and I celebrate
the 52nd anniversary of our engagement. In August, it’ll be the 52nd
anniversary of our wedding. I can’t believe we have been together for
52 years. But, alas, here it is.
I first met her in September of 1970 when I went to Bible college. Knowing that God
was calling me to be a pastor, I understood that I would need a wife to help me in
this ministry. Not being woman-wise, and no dating experience: I thought a date was
simply a dried-up prune.
Not knowing what to do, I simply put it in God’s hands. Before I went to this Bible
college, my prayer was, “Heavenly Father, make the first young lady I meet when I
go to school be the wife you have chosen for me.” It sounds ridiculous, but not being
woman-wise, it was my best choice.
My parents took me up to New York, where the college was, as we drove into the men’s
dorm driveway a young lady was coming out. This young lady had her hair rolled
up in tomato cans which was rather usual at that time. When I saw her walk out, I
quickly prayed, “Not yet, Father. My feet have not touched the ground.”
I think God was chuckling. For some reason, I was never able to get away from her because
it was a very small college, and everybody knew everybody. Not being woman-
wise, I did not know how to conduct myself in such a situation.
In December, we were on some date, and she happened to say, or so I thought she
happened to say it, “Wouldn’t it be nice to get married?” Again, my not being woman-
wise did not allow me to understand what was going on. I simply re-plied to her, “I
think it would be great to get married.” Foolish me, I thought that was the end of the
conversation.
The next day in school, as I walked down the hallway, everybody looked at me, smiled,
and said, “Congratulations.” So I smiled back and thanked them. I had no idea what I
was being congratulated on, I thought perhaps I finally passed a test in school.
After a while, I stopped somebody congratulating me and asked what he was congratulating
me for. Laughing, he said, “Oh, you silly boy. I’m congratulating you on
your upcoming wedding.” Then he walked away.
I stood in the hallway for a moment, trying to process what he had just told me.
What wedding was he talking about? Who did they think I was marrying? Later that
afternoon, I met her in the cafeteria, she looked at me, smiled, and said, “I’ve told
every-body, and everybody is happy for us. Isn’t it wonderful?” I then realized I was
the last one in the college that knew I was getting married.
God was the first one to know whom I was going to marry, and I was the last one to
know. That is chapter 1 in woman-wise psychology. Although it’s been 52 years, I still
have not progressed to chapter 2. Perhaps chapter 2 would begin with, “Do you want
to be right or happy?” I am here to tell you that during those 52 years, I have been
happy.
According to tradition back then, the next step was to get permission from her father
to marry his daughter. So you understand I was rather nervous along this line because
I had never met her father or mother. Before the engagement, we traveled back to visit
her family. It was then that I met her father. I took him aside and said, “Sir, I would
like to ask your permission for your daughter’s hand in marriage.”
He looked at me with a rather strange look and said, “No.”
At this point, my flabber just got gasted, and I didn’t know what to say. He looked at
me strangely and said, “Young man, you take my entire daughter or none of her. Not
just her hand.” At this point, I realized I was also not father-in-law-wise. That was
well beyond my pay scale. My heart sank, and I did not know the next step.
Looking at me, her father finally broke down laughing. I had no idea what he was
laughing about. “Of course, you can have my daughter’s hand in marriage as long as
you take the rest of her.”
I tried to laugh as best I could but had no idea what was happening in the world. If this
is what I was marrying into, it will be a long voyage.
As we were driving back to school, the future Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage
looked at me and said, “Well, what do you think of my family?” I just smiled back at
her and she said, “Welcome to my family.” I smiled and thought about my favorite life
verse from the Bible.
Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own
understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”
This verse has guided me throughout my entire life, especially in the area of marriage.
Either I can lean on my own understanding, or, I can trust in the Lord with all my
heart. If I’m going to go down the right path only God can lead me.
Dr. James L. Snyder lives in Ocala, FL with the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage.
Telephone 1-352-216-3025, e-mail jamessnyder51@gmail.com, website www.jamessnyderministries.
com.
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