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Mountain View News Saturday, June 17, 2023
WALKING SIERRA MADRE - The Social Side
by Deanne Davis
Peter Dills Knows
“…And so, God created dads so that there
would forever be bedtime-story-readers and
cover-tuckers, shoulder-carriers at parades
and star-pointers on clear nights, bike-riding
coaches and driving instructors, love-providers
and proud protectors. And He saw that it
was good.” Melvina Young
“Any man can be a father, but it takes someone
special to be a dad.” Anne Geddes
Tomorrow is Father’s Day, one of those days
when I miss John – the best father I ever
knew – more than usual. He is now with the
eternal, loving Father…Our Father, Who art
in heaven…
When you have an enormous family, as we
do, there are fathers all over the place. At best
count, we currently have seven fathers with
a total of 22 children between them. I think,
friends and neighbors, that’s got to put us in
some sort of record book. The picture today
is of my grandson-in-law, Trevor, his two
little girls, Addison and Charlotte, and the
brand-new little guy in our family, Brannan
Austin Johnson, who was born May 21st.
I was fortunate to have married an exceptional
man who was a fantastic father. As I
grew up without one, I had no clue how this
worked, but John showed me that a father
is patient, he is kind, he isn’t proud, doesn’t
dishonor the children or his wife, is not self-
seeking, not easily angered, keeps no record
of wrongs. A good father rejoices with the
truth. Always protects, always trusts, always
hopes, always perseveres. That means explaining
the same algebra problem for the
nineteenth time without throwing the book
or the child on the floor. It means going to get
a daughter and bring her home from a bad
situation. It means staying awake at night
when someone isn’t home who should be,
and gently grounding them for a year or till
they’re 30. It means being proud of every
achievement, no matter how minor. This
sounds a whole lot like that
1 Corinthians 13 in the Bible thing, doesn’t
it. I have frequently said, and totally mean
it, that John raised all five of us: Leah, Patti,
John, Crissy and me! I wrote this column a
few days before June 16th, which would have
been his birthday. He is celebrating in heaven
but his legacy of being a loving husband and
father lives on in his children. We see his example
through the behavior of all the men
in our family. How blessed we all are and so
grateful for his influence.
I could go on for several columns on the
virtues of all these men, my son, John, son-
in-law, Dave, grandsons Michael, David and
Chad, and grandson-in-law, Trevor, but today
I’m going to talk about just one of them.
My Arizona son-in-law, Chris, is the father
of two little girls, Jessie who is 15 and Emily
who is 12. These girls are adopted foster children,
born of drug addicted mothers.
These are not easy little people, but Chris
and Crissy will keep on keeping on, being
the best parents possible, rejoicing in these
girls’ accomplishments and dealing with the
difficulties.
I don’t know about you, but I have a mental
image of Jesus, who loved hanging around
with little kids, in addition to tax collectors
and ladies of questionable virtue, laughing
heartily at “Cheez- its loves me, this I know.”
This comes from the first year Jessie and Emily
went to Vacation Bible School. They were
both so little that the VBS t-shirts fell to their
knees. They had a great time and came home
singing “Cheez-its loves me!” Like I said, I
know Jesus would have loved it.
Take a look at the guys around you who are
fathers, and remind them they are God’s appointed
and anointed men and you appreciate
them. I got to tell my Dad I loved him
many times before he died, we missed that
father-daughter thing, but I’ve seen the best
at work in my family. I hope you have, too.
Happy Father’s Day!
If you want an easy dessert to go with your
Father’s Day barbeque, try this one:
EASY APPLE CAKE
2 cups Granny Smith apples, peeled, cored,
cut in good sized chunks
1 cup sugar - Place apples in a bowl and
add sugar. Let stand 30 min. (That part
is really
important!)
Add:
1/4 cup oil
1 egg beaten
1 tsp vanilla
Blend well.
Combine:
1 cup unsifted flour
1 generous tsp. cinnamon
1 tsp. soda
1/4 tsp. salt
Stir into apple mixture.
Add 1/2 cup or so chopped pecans or walnuts.
Spoon into well-greased 8” square
pan.
Bake at 350, 35-40 minutes till cake tester
inserted in middle comes out clean. Cut
into squares and dust with powdered sugar.
Best served warm, and it doubles and
triples beautifully.
“My father didn’t do anything unusual; he did
what dads are supposed to do –
Be There.” Max Lucado
My book page: Amazon.com: Deanne Davis
Where you’ll find the Emma Gainsworth
Kindle novelettes,
Along with other goodies like “A Treasure
Map, A Drunken Owl
And 47 Rattlers in A Bag” True Tales of
Early California
Happy Father’s Day
It has been said, that there is no substitute for time. Only through
its passage can many of life’s experiences be fully understood.
This Fathers Day I reflect back on a lesson of life and a Father that
has ceased to teach and comfort me. I would like to invite you
along for a single night with a man that has left this Earthy place
but dwells eternally within my heart. The article below was written
and published before his passing.
My Evening with a Restaurant Critic.
My entire life has been an eight course meal. In my late teens I had
the distinguished position of bagger at the local supermarket, and
later with references, I was able to move to Jurgensen’s Gourmet
Grocery. There I was to learn about fine wines, exotic cheeses and
my kryptonite, dry aged beef. I guess it all started there because
at twenty-three I was pretentious about food. For many years I
thought that was where it all started for me, there in those markets,
but I have come to realize that I was wrong. For some in life
it is the famous baseball player; or possibly a religious figure, for others it is a musical master
or the profound artist. How many times in life, if ever do you get a chance to sit with those that
inspire and challenge life with a depth of wisdom? For most they will never get the opportunity.
I can claim one prize in this life; I have had the opportunity to observe, speak with and lastly
follow in the footsteps of one person that holds that place for me. They have been labeled “The
greatest generation” for a reason. Each day another from that stratum of America, “slowly goes
into the night.”
Many of you know that my Father Elmer Dills was on TV and radio for twenty-eight years here
in Los Angeles. I had the opportunity to dine and share with my mentor a few weeks ago. I have
been out with my Father at least five hundred times but as a fine wine, wisdom increases in its
depth and flavor as it ages.
On this night our adventure took us to Madeleines(since closed) in Pasadena. Seems that my
Dad is a regular there and lately he’s been a little under the weather. I have heard him say nothing
but praise of this place, so it’s off to Madelienes.
“Table for three, please,” on this evening we have, my daughter Lauren (the budding Critic),
Pops and Me. Whenever I see courteous, well behaved children; I know their parents are invariably
going to be respectful people. Likewise whenever I get a compliment, I know it goes beyond
just me. As we sit to dine, there is no call for attention and gratification, just a smooth easy in
being in his court. As we talk, I am struck that there is no air of condemnation but rather one
of deep respect for the people that more often than not get it right in this business. My Dad the
legendary restaurant critic doesn’t even ask what the ingredients of the dishes are as he orders.
He doesn’t request to see the sommelier. Is he a restaurant critic, I am waiting for a sign? It is
just as natural as going to dinner with a group of friends, I think.
The restaurant is quietly attractive, cozy and well spaced. You feel a little smarter here, knowing
that Albert Einstein often slept upstairs while he was visiting Cal Tech.
We began with a cheese plate ($9), nice but it could have used less nuts and more of cheese and
crackers. My Dad is a creature of habit, just like many of us. He orders the Rack of Lamb, “I just
loved it,” just like a young kid would say. The waiter was kind enough to have it cut for him.
Daughter Lauren ordered the Pork Chops and gave it two training thumbs up. Now that is a
compliment. Not sure if high heels work in this business though, as you never know when you
may encounter a chef that feels you have leveled capricious discourse with your pen on the one
hand and possess a frying pan in the other. She will discover soon enough why I wear running
shoes and a sport coat.
I order the Spencer Steak, of course I am the difficult one, so once we get the steak the way I
wanted it cooked, it vanishes quickly.
Back to Dad, the waiter asks, “How was the meal” and I know 99% of you when asked would
give the response, “Fine, Thank You.” Nope, the restaurant critic said, “The lamb chops were
great!!!” “And the dessert was?” A shrugged of the shoulders told it all. That is the honesty and
passion that got me involved in this business. Today, I still work at a restaurant to keep up on
the trends and I even get a crazy dream that I may own
one someday. You can be sure he will be one of the first
to give a thumbs up or a shrug of the shoulders if I do.
Happy Fathers Day – I would never trade sitting across
the table from you for anything.
This was a re-print and may just run it every year at
this time just to remind you and all to hold these special
days near your heart.
My Radio Show is back on AM 830 KLAAA Sundays
at 5 PM
SIERRA MADRE POLICE BLOTTER
WEEKLY ACTIVITY REPORT June 4 – June 10, 2023
The following represents a summary report of some of the major incidents handled by the
Sierra Madre Police Department during this period. This list is not intended to be considered
exclusive or all-inclusive.
Sunday, June 4 Theft from Motor Vehicle
At approximately 7 AM, officers responded to the 400 block of N. Grove St. for reports of a possible
theft from motor vehicle. The reporting party discovered that unknown suspect(s) smashed
the rear window to their vehicle. The Detectives Bureau is following up on this incident.
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