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Mountain View News Saturday, March 28, 2026
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
RETIRING MY INSANITY
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WHERE TO GET HELP WITH MEDICARE
DECISIONS
THE COST OF ASSISTED LIVING
The cost of assisted living in the San Gabriel
Valley has risen significantly, and one of the
most important factors families need to un-
derstand is how much location truly drives
pricing.
While some online sources suggest costs
can start as low as $3,000 per month, this
is rarely realistic in today’s market. In most
San Gabriel Valley cities like Glendora and
Arcadia, assisted living typically starts clos-
er to $4,500 per month—and that often re-
flects shared rooms or very minimal care.
For a more typical situation, such as a private room with moderate assistance, families should expect
costs between $5,000 and $7,000 per month. However, averages only tell part of the story.
In higher-demand, more affluent areas like Pasadena and Sierra Madre, pricing is significantly high-
er. Many communities in these areas regularly exceed $10,000 per month,
and it is very common for total monthly costs to surpass $12,000, espe-
cially when higher levels of care, memory care services, or premium ac-
commodations are involved. These real-world costs are often far above
what published averages suggest.
By comparison, families who are open to looking outside the immediate
San Gabriel Valley—into areas like Riverside and surrounding Inland Em-
pire communities—can often find similar levels of care starting in the low-
to-mid $4,000 range. This difference is largely driven by lower real estate
and operating costs.
Beyond location, pricing is also influenced by the level of care needed,
including medication management, mobility assistance, and memory care,
all of which can significantly increase monthly expenses.
It is also important to note that assisted living is primarily private pay, as
Medicare does not cover these costs.
Understanding these regional differences helps families set realistic expec-
tations and make informed decisions—balancing budget, care needs, and location when choosing
the right community.
After some months of
intense reflection, I have
come to the conclusion
that it is time for myinsanity to retire. The
evidence before me is so
overwhelming that I'm not sure I have any
other choice. And believe me, I have looked.
Not that I haven't benefited from my in-
sanity. Looking back over my years, I can't
help but notice how my insanity has been
a positive thing in my life. I never would've
thought this way before, but after consider-
able thinking, I believe this is so.
Not too many people can see the positive
side of insanity. However, in my reflection, Ihave discovered how effective it has been in
my life and in my relationships. At the time,
I never would've thought so.
For example, I may be discussing something
with someone, a friend of mine, and theylook at me rather strangely and say, "Are
you insane?" At the time, I was a little of-
fended by that remark. And I would reply,
"I am not insane and I am offended by you
saying that."
Reflecting on that situation, I can't help but
agree with my friend that I was indeed in-
sane. But it helped me out of a little situation
there and many more such situations.
Being insane helps explain a lot of things in
my life, especially my life as a husband. Of-
ten, I will be explaining something to The
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage. She will
look at me with one of "her looks", put both
hands on her hips and say very dramatically,
"Are you insane?" The last time she said that
to me, I replied, "Yes I am insane. Thanks for
noticing." She just walked away, shaking her
head.
In retrospect, that explains a lot of things in
my life that, at the time, I didn't understand
what was going on. Now, because I have ac-
cepted my insanity, everything I do I can ex-
plain. That sure is satisfying.
Another positive side to insanity is that you
don't have to live up to the standards of ev-
erybody around you. All my friends believe
they are perfect and expect me to live up to
their standard. For years, I have tried to do
that. I have discovered that there are no per-
fect roots in my life anywhere.
Now that I understand the insanity aspect of
my life, I no longer have to live up to other
people's standards. I can relax and enjoy life
as it is without fulfilling other people's ex-
pectations nor being intimidated by them.
When I came to understand that my life took
on a very positive attitude.
Now that I have reached the point in life
where I will be retiring my insanity, I need to
make some changes. No longer will I accept
my failures and go on with life. Now that the
insanity element has been retired, I need to
take more responsibility for my actions. That
was not something I really understood when
I began thinking about retiring my insanity.
I know it's a good idea for me to retire myinsanity, but I sure am going to miss it. I
can't remember the times when, at the end
of the week, I sat in my easy chair drinking
some coffee and reflecting on all the insane
elements of my week. Those were wonderful
reflections and really encouraged me.
Perfection is now going to be a factor in my
consideration. I don't know how I'm going to
deal with that. Dealing with my insanity was
a lot better than dealing with my perfection.
However, I will give it a try. I'm waiting for
The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage to
one day look at me with both hands on her
hips and say, "Are you perfect or what?" That
certainly will be a turning point in my re-
tirement from insanity. She always noticed
my insanity; now let's see if she notices my
perfection.
I must confess that I will allow my insanity
occasionally to come out of retirement just
for a moment. After all, life is hard without
something to support it. At this point in mylife, being personally responsible for your
activities and actions is a real hard deal. I
never expected it to be this hard, but then,
that's life. As I enter into this new phase of
my life, I'm going to do it with a great deal of
positivity. I will fail a lot, but it is failure that
enables a person to work on their perfection.
I know I will miss my insanity, but I'm go-
ing to have to get used to it. Life goes on,
and I need to keep up. There will be some
moments in my life when I will get a little
confused, and without knowing it, my insan-
ity will reappear. There's little I can do about
that. But, I plan to work on being more per-
fect than I was yesterday.
Starting on my perfection journey I was re-
minded of an interesting verse of scripture.
Philippians 3:12 - “Not as though I had al-
ready attained, either were already perfect:
but I follow after, if that I may apprehend
that for which also I am apprehended of
Christ Jesus.”
I agree with Paul that I’ve not reached per-
fection, but I am striving after that perfect in
Christ. I’m not influenced by other people’s
standard, but only by God’s standards re-
flected in Christ.
Dear Savvy Senior,
I’ll be 65 in a few months and could sure use
some help sorting through all the confusingMedicare options that are available to me.
Where can I get help with my Medicare deci-
sions? --Baffled Bob
Dear Bob,
With around 11,400 Baby Boomers turning 65
every day in 2026, you’re asking a very timely
question.
Many people approaching Medicare are confused
by all the choices available today. In addition to
original Medicare (Part A and B) that has been
around for more than 60 years, you also have the
option of enrolling in a Part D prescription drug
plan, and a supplemental (Medigap) policy – both
of which are sold by private insurance companies.
Another option is a Medicare Advantage plan.
These plans, also offered by private insurers, bun-
dle hospital coverage, medical care, prescription
drugs, and often extra benefits like vision, den-
tal, and hearing into one policy. Most operate as
HMOs or PPOs and require you to receive care
within a defined network of providers in your
area.
Medicare Advantage plans have also faced in-
creased scrutiny in recent years over prior-au-
thorization requirements that can delay or deny
certain services.
To help you determine which path makes the
most sense for your situation, there are several
reliable resources available, depending on how
much assistance you need.
Tools and Resources
A good starting point is the “Medicare & You”
handbook, which provides a clear overview of the
program and your options. You can download
a copy at medicare.gov/medicare-and-you, and
you should receive a printed version in the mail
about a month before your 65th birthday.
The Medicare website also features a helpful
“Find a Medicare Plan” tool at medicare.gov/
plan-compare that allows you to compare health
plans, prescription drug coverage, and supple-
mental policies available in your area. If you pre-
fer to speak with someone directly, call Medicare
at 800-633-4227, and a representative can walk
you through your options over the phone.
Another excellent free resource is your State
Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP),
which provides unbiased Medicare counsel-
ing either in person or by phone. To locate
your local SHIP office, visit shiphelp.org or call
877-839-2675.
You can also contact the Medicare Rights Center
(medicarerights.org) at 800-333-4114 for help
with specific questions.
In addition, HealthMetrix Research publishes a
free Cost Share Report at medicarenewswatch.
com that compares Medicare Advantage plans by
area based on cost-sharing and health status.
Get HelpIf you’d like more hands-on help, you can work
with a Medicare insurance agent.
Keep in mind that agents are paid commissions byinsurance companies, so it’s important to choose
an independent agent who represents multiple
insurers – not just one. That gives you access to a
broader range of options.
Also understand that commissions are typicallyhigher for Medicare Advantage plans than for
Medigap and Part D policies used with Original
Medicare. As a result, some agents may have a fi-
nancial incentive to recommend Advantage cov-
erage. That doesn’t mean the advice is wrong, but
it’s wise to ask questions and understand all your
choices before enrolling.
You can search for licensed agents through nabip.
org, the website of the National Association of
Benefits and Insurance Professionals.
Taking the time now to compare your options
carefully can help you avoid costly mistakes and
give you confidence in the coverage you choose.
Send your questions or comments to questions@
savvysenior.org, or to Savvy Senior, P.O. Box
5443, Norman, OK 73070.
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