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Mountain Views News Saturday, November 16, 2013
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
STUART Tolchin........On LIFE
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ADVENTURES IN PURCHASING
IF YOU LIKE YOUR APPLE FRITTER,
YOU CAN EAT YOUR APPLE FRITTER
I am the
child of a salesman.
My father came over
from the old country
with little education
and fewer skills. He married in his mid
thirties and had started many different
businesses with his brothers and ran
these business even while in the Army
during World War II. By the time I
came on the scene my father was already
losing his eyesight but still attempting to
drive and make his rounds as a salesman.
The big fear in our family was that his
eyesight would get so bad that would not
be able to pass the eye test and qualify to
have his drivers’ license renewed.
When I was about ten or eleven
it became time for my father to renew
his license and he was pretty certain
that he would not be able to read the eye
chart. He encouraged me to go to the
Department of Motor Vehicles Office
and check out the eye chart and see if I
could memorize it and then later go over
it with him. I went to the Motor Vehicles
place saw the eye chart and memorized
it. I can still remember the letters-the
Big E, then F,P, third line T,O,Z, fourth
line L,P,E,D, fifth line P,E,C,F,D and
that’s about all I can remember; but,
after all, I memorized it sixty years or so
ago.
Of course eventually my dad
did go completely blind, but he kept
working. I drove him when I could
and my friends and I taught my mom
to drive and then she drove him. This
went on for years even after I went away
to college. I think of this every time I
go Kaiser to pick up medication or see
a doctor and lately these visits have
been pretty frequent. There, at Kaiser, I
always see a big eye chart with exactly
the same letters on it. Sixty years later
and still the same letters and the same
tests I guess. I wonder how many others
have memorized those eye charts.
Really, it’s amazing how
everything in the world seems to
have changed but the eye charts have
remained the same. Thinking about the
eye charts reminds me of how we
children of immigrants struggled with
our families to survive. Some of my
earliest memories of working with my
parents bring me back to Stuart Food
Mart, named of course after me. This
was our mom and pop grocery store
located smack in the middle of South
Side Chicago. A couple of years ago my
wife and I prevailed upon a professor
friend of hers to drive us into the South
Side ghetto to view the store. The store
was now on a block of rubble which was
burnt down during one of the various
riots. It’s in a very difficult neighborhood
and as my wife and I looked through the
rubble for a souvenir (she found a piece
of tile) a group of Black People cluttered
around us. They explained that they
were from the near-by church and were
kind of protecting the property. We all
relaxed a bit I guess as I explained that I
used to live right over there and that my
parent’s store was on this very spot.
The incident reminded of how
tough my father’s life must have been.
He had many businesses and at one time
sold things door to door. He, or one of
his brothers, once explained to me what
a relief it was to go from door to door
cold selling to having a business where
people came to you to buy something
you actually had for sale. Still, to a
salesman every potential customer
who walked onto your lot or store was
a possible lifeline to your survival. You
did not ever easily let those customers
walk out without making some sort of
sale.
Prior to this weekend I thought
things were still the same. My wife had
decided to take the leap and purchase a
new car. She was pre-approved for a loan
and knew exactly the car she wanted.
We checked the GPS and thought we
found a dealership nearby. We went to
the address but no dealership. We drove
way across town to another dealership
and after telling the salesman, and
there were many salesmen, about her
specifications the salesman said, ”Nope,
we don’t have one like that.” Okay, off we
went to another dealer.
We went somewhere else and
after some adventures managed to
purchase a car
surviving disputes between employees
over the availability of computers.
Has technology, and entitlements
undermined the American work-ethic.
The children of immigrants still work
hard to support families and even send
money back to relatives back home.
Somehow, it seems non-immigrant
populations are unable to work quite as
hard or care quite as much. Why worry,
when we can be sure that Obama Care
and Federal entitlement Programs will
be around to protect us all. Maybe,
future disasters will be limited to the
other sides of the oceans; or maybe life
will be easier on Mars.
I have to wonder whether or not
Americans still have the motivation to
do whatever it is that the coming years
require.
Growing up back
in “the day,” most
people put a lot of
credence on promises
and lived by the motto, “A man is as good as
his word.” Most agreements were sealed with
a handshake. If you said you were going to do
something, you did it. Period.
Today it is an altogether different story.
We need a lawyer with a pile of paperwork in
order to do anything these days. A lawyer has
the sneakability to make words say anything
convenient at the time depending on what the
word “is” is, and when you said it.
It matters not what a man says anymore,
only what he can get away with at the time.
This brings me to the dilemma flavor of
the week.
Not mentioning any names, I am too much
of a gentleman for that, but some person
living in my house can be a little tricky when
it comes to the usage of language. I may be the
“wordsmith” in our house but she definitely
is the “word butcher.” She can take any
word and slice it so thin its meaning all but
disappears.
A while back, we were having a little
discussion centering on one of my favorite
topics, Apple Fritters. Anybody who knows
me knows that an Apple Fritter is at the top of
my list of scrumptious delicacies. My motto:
An Apple fritter a day makes it all worth
living and two turns it into heaven.
Satan may very well have tempted Eve
with an Apple but God has more than made
up for that by introducing into humanity a
freshly baked Apple Fritter. At least, that is
my interpretation. Another theologian in
our house has different hermeneutics on the
subject.
In our discussion, I was reminding the
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage that she
made a promise that if I liked an Apple Fritter
I could eat an Apple Fritter. I laid out my
argument very clear, at least I thought so, and
encouraged her to follow suit.
She then disrupted the whole discussion by
insisting on evidence.
“When,” she said with a very suspicious
look on her face, “did I ever say if you liked
your Apple Fritter you could eat your Apple
Fritter?”
It was up to me at this point to produce
a strategy that would convince her she said
exactly that.
“Don’t you remember,” I said as confidently
as I could possibly muster at the time, “we
were at a restaurant and our discussion
centered on dessert.”
“I don’t remember such an occasion.”
I started to wiggle a little bit but I knew if I
could win this argument at this point it would
be a great win.
It is at times like this I wish I was a little
more like a politician. A politician can say
something and it means different things to
different people at different times. It does
not matter what they say at any particular
time it can always be reinterpreted the way
a politician wants it any particular time he
needs it. Oh, how I envy those skills.
Let me point out very quickly that according
to common knowledge, this is in no way lying.
In fact, I am not sure what the definition of
lying is anymore. Nobody lies, they are just
being misinterpreted. They can get anybody
to believe anything if they rearrange the truth
in such a way it is no longer the truth but it is
not necessarily a lie.
“Don’t you remember we were talking
about dessert,” I said as calculatedly as
possible, “and you said a person should be
able to like what they eat and eat what they
like?”
I sighed a deep sigh, smiling inside hoping
she would not discover that inner glowing
smile.
She thought for a moment and then
responded, “I seem to recall a conversation
along that line but I do not recollect that
we were talking about Apple Fritters. The
words “Apple Fritters” never came up in the
conversation, as I remember it.”
My challenge was to reconstruct the
memory of that discussion somehow to fit in
the words “Apple Fritter” or at least the idea.
“When I said that,” she said looking at
me straight in the eye, “I did not have Apple
fritters on my mind. In fact, if the truth were
known, I had broccoli on my mind at that
moment.”
How did broccoli get into this conversation?
Nowhere in the recesses of my mind did the
word broccoli ever appear.
I knew I was losing the battle at this point.
It is one thing to say something but it is
quite another thing to hear something. Many
times what I hear is not really what is being
said. At times what is being said is not exactly
what I hear, especially if my wife is doing the
speaking.
Why is it people cannot say what they
mean and mean what they say?
Only God really says what He means and
means what He says. I like the encouragement
he gives to Joshua. “There shall not any man
be able to stand before thee all the days of thy
life: as I was with Moses, so I will be with thee:
I will not fail thee, nor forsake thee” (Joshua
1:5 KJV).
Whatever God says He means and it never
changes its meaning from one generation to
the next. That is something I can really rely
upon.
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HOWARD Hays As I See It
GREG Welborn
IN HONOR OF THOSE
WHO SERVE
“I had other priorities
in the 60’s than military
service.” - Dick Cheney
to the Washington Post
explaining his five draft
deferments
How many of us
actually thought about veterans last
Monday? Sean Hannity managed to devote
a minute at the end of his Fox News show on
Veterans Day to those who fought wars on
behalf of our country. Earlier in the show,
he’d given twice as much time to Sarah
Palin’s new book on the “War on Christmas”.
I’d almost forgotten until noticing the mini
Iwo Jima depiction on a webpage masthead
that day. I began thinking of veterans who’d
been a part of my own life – and thought of
them a lot.
An early memory is of being aware that
when a new young family with small kids
moved into our comfortable middle-class
neighborhood, chances were it was headed
by a WWII vet. They could afford a nice
house in a nice neighborhood because
of a nice job obtained because of a good
education – courtesy of the G.I. Bill.
My buddies and I would sit around a card
table on Saturdays assembling plastic model
kits of B-17s, B-24s and P-51s. The father of
one of those friends would stop by to tell of
being a side-gunner in a Flying Fortress on
bombing runs over Europe.
An uncle shared Kodachrome slides of
when he was an officer in occupied Japan.
Another uncle spoke of war hardly at all,
and then only in utter disgust – with a
decidedly left-wing tilt. I only learned years
later of this uncle’s service in the infantry at
the Battle of the Bulge.
A younger uncle served in Korea, but that
war wasn’t talked about.
The neighbor who was the gunner in
the Flying Fortress became a U.S. History
professor at a local college. Well-liked
family man, active in his church and
community, but then the whispers started:
“You know, he’s such a nice guy, but – I hear
he’s against the war.”
Up until the mid-1960s, in many
communities, questioning our involvement
in Vietnam was akin to confessing
Communist sympathies a decade earlier.
I have two cousins a few years older
than me. (When you’re in grade school and
they’re teen-agers, it’s a lot of years.) One
joined the Army. He was into cars, and
chauffeured officers in their jeeps over the
muddy roads between the rice fields. He was
into business, and marveled at the young
pre-teens helping support their families by
dealing in the black market.
When he came home, we piled into his
Falcon convertible headed to McDonalds.
The Beatles’ “Get Back” came on the top-
40 station. He grinned and floored it. He
cranked up the volume – loud (“Get back to
where you once belonged”).
He got back okay. When we gathered
for a family reunion, he flipped when the
youngest cousins brought their toy cap guns
into a group photo (“No guns! Guns aren’t
cool!”)
His brother went with the Marines. My
mother read us a letter he’d sent about how
he was “scared spit-less” before going out on
patrol. (I saw the letter, noticing he’d spelled
“spit-less” with an “h”, rather than a “p”.) Not
more than a couple days later, the backs of
his legs were blown off when he triggered a
landmine.
I remember my aunt (his mother)
describing her stunned horror upon seeing
two Marines in full dress-blues arrive at her
workplace. She thought it could mean only
one thing, unaware such appearances were
to inform of serious injury, as well.
I’d heard the apocryphal stories of
returning vets being spat upon and cries
of “baby killer”. That wasn’t as I saw it; the
vets I knew were the many who joined us
in the anti-war marches and moratorium
demonstrations I participated in.
A generation later, vets weren’t to be
honored, but rather hidden – especially
when they didn’t come back okay. Cameras,
reporters – even families were banned from
Dover AFB as the remains of the fallen
came home. When patients at Walter Reed
complained of neglect and lousy conditions,
steps were taken not to address the problem,
but to punish the complainers.
With WWII, every family had some
connection to a vet. The Vietnam-era draft,
along with nightly news coverage, ensured
that war remained an inescapable part of
our lives. Over the past fifteen years, for
the majority of us there’s been no personal
connection to someone who’s recently
served.
The likelihood of having such a connection
depends a great deal on what part of the
country you live in. And, unfortunately,
those parts of the country where the
likelihood is greatest are those parts where
services for our veterans are most lacking.
Under the Affordable Care Act, the Urban
Institute estimates Medicaid expansion
could provide insurance coverage for half
the 1.3 million (mostly young) veterans
currently without it, or supplement
whatever VA benefits they may have. States
with Republican governors who’ve refused
to participate are predominately those states
with the highest concentrations of vets –
with the most vets who’ll suffer as a result.
The Center for Budget and Policy
Priorities estimates the recent cuts in food
stamp benefits will affect some 900,000
veterans – with Republicans determined
to slash even more. One in five households
benefiting from the Household Energy
Assistance Program is a household with a
veteran – a program threatened by further
cuts from the sequester.
Veterans comprise 7% of our population,
but 13% of our homeless. As cited in the NY
Times, the fastest growing segment of our
homeless population is female veterans.
House Republicans have announced they
plan on being in session no more than about
fifteen days the rest of the year, with much
of that devoted to their war on Obamacare.
As for those who’ve fought the real wars for
us, the focus will return to them a year from
now next Veterans Day. In the meantime,
we can turn to Fox News where the focus
will be on “the War on Christmas”.
America has its problems, most likely
always will, but there are also many things
great about America. This week saw the
observance of another Veterans Day and
thus an opportunity to move beyond the
debates about spending, unemployment
and Obamacare. There will be sufficient
time for those. This week, let me pay
homage to America’s spirit as evidenced
in the lives, service and sacrifice of her
soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines.
Beyond just the mark on the calendar
and clock – “the 11th hour of the 11th day
of the 11th month” – this Veterans Day
was very personal because I spent much
of it at a funeral. I didn’t know the man
that well, but I knew his daughter and her
family quite well. There was more than
sufficient evidence in the tenor of the lives
they lived to attribute greatness to the man,
but I learned more of his greatness from
the particular duty and sacrifice to his
fellow man which was chronicled in the
celebration of his life.
Don Richter, like almost everyone else of
his generation, was just a boy when he felt
that pressing duty which called so many to
service in the 40s. He came from humble
means, loved his family and friends, played
sports in school and ultimately sought
a simple life. In fact, he wanted to be a
farmer. But WWII interceded, and he
volunteered to serve, and to sacrifice.
With each passing of Veterans Day, we
are all reminded of the sacrifice these men
made, and while they are appreciated, I
dare say we don’t truly understand their
undertakings until we understand the
context in which they occurred. The pastor
officiating at this service was one of them,
and he reminded us of what they truly
faced when they agreed to don a uniform,
pick up arms, set aside 3 to 4 years of their
life and walk into a hell not of their making.
The pastor reminded us all that when we
entered the conflict, the Nazis controlled
the European continent, save for that tiny
speck, Switzerland. Only Britain held
out, even then just barely, Russia was
in Hitler’s sights, and there were many
here in the homeland who said it was a
lost cause. There were still sentiments
toward striking a deal with Hitler when
the Japanese bombed Pearl. Japan, herself,
was a fearsome opponent. As of that day,
December 7, 1941, the Imperial Japanese
army had never been defeated. China
had fallen, Korea had fallen, the French
and British in Southeast Asia had fallen,
and Russia retreated. On both sides of
the oceans protecting us lay disciplined
military forces in control of continents,
each planning how we would be destroyed.
We asked these young men, and they came
forward, to confront the fears of a nation,
bear unfathomable hardship, persevere
against overwhelming opposition, and, for
too many, pay the ultimate sacrifice so the
rest of us at home, and
around the world, could
resume a life of peace
and security. To put a
gritty, real world face on
that, we asked these men
to penetrate jungles,
march hundreds of
miles in the dead of winter, take hills and
hamlets – too many to recount, traverse
the Sahara, land on a sliver of a beachhead
and climb cliffs under withering enemy
opposition. They did it all. And then they
returned to their civilian lives. Neither
they, nor we as a nation, claimed conquered
territory as our own, took title to colonies
or bled populations of their sustenance.
In fact, after the conflict, we, as a nation,
shipped food and supplies to starving
populations and rebuilt countries ravaged
by this war. We asked not for repayment.
These soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines
were, as they are now, the greatest force for
peace the world has ever seen.
And when it was all over, they returned
home to resume peaceful and productive
lives. Many toiled to build up the greatest
economy the world had ever seen, while
others – like Don Richter – turned their
attention and efforts to their communities,
both secular and sacred. Public service
has always been part of the heartbeat
of Americanism, and this generation
– and Don Richter in particular – was
no exception. In point of fact, he was
emblematic of this American trait.
Don, earned his credentials as a minister
and then returned to the South Pacific,
where he had fought as a marine, to nurture
and preach the Gospel. He left a legacy of
service and sacrifice beyond the short years
he spent in uniform. He devoted a lifetime
to it.
Fast forward to today – November
2013 – and we read that the U.S., through
its uniformed ambassadors, is lending a
needed hand to those in the Philippines
ravaged by what is being called the worst
storm ever recorded. Typhoon Haiyan
has displaced a million people and killed
thousands. Into the midst of devastation
sails, flies and marches today’s next greatest
generation. The USS George Washington,
support ships, and crew have entered
Philippine waters. Once again, in a story
that has been repeated countless times in
history, the U.S. military is bearing witness
to the true meaning of America.
So, let me conclude with a salute to
America, its military, and one Don Richter
- U.S. Marine, minister of the gospel of
Jesus Christ, but at heart just an average
American – this Veteran’s Day week.
Don, you bore as impressive a witness on
the hearts and minds of your family and
friends as the U.S. has born on the hearts
and minds of the world. That is why we
celebrate!
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