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LEFT TURN/RIGHT TURN
Mountain Views News Saturday, April 20, 2013
YOU’RE A PATHETIC,
COWARDLY, FAILURE!
HOWARD Hays As I See It
GREG Welborn
“I’ve heard some say that blocking
this step would be a victory. And
my question is, a victory for
who? A victory for what? It begs
the question, who are we here to
represent?”
- President Barack Obama
April 17, 2012
Sunday nights are back to normal at our
place. With the new season now underway, we’ve
resumed our routine of weekly get-togethers for
the latest episode of “Mad Men”.
Aside from story and characters, I enjoy
reminders of a bygone era; aspects once ubiquitous
and taken for granted, but now jarringly of
another place and time. Early in the first season,
for instance, there was Betty driving home in the
station wagon while her two kids jumped back
and forth between the front and back seats. Seat
belts were an option found mainly in sports cars,
and “car seats,” as we understand the term today,
were unknown.
There’s the dining routine: Once seated, you
have a cigarette with your cocktail; after the soup
or salad, another cigarette; then the main course,
followed by a cigarette with the coffee.
(Stop now if you don’t wish to learn details of
last week’s show.)
In the second episode of this new season,
Peter has an affair with the neighbor’s wife, and
towards the end of the episode she shows up at his
doorstep having been beaten up by her husband.
Peter’s reaction is not concern for her condition,
but annoyance that she blabbed to her husband
about the affair and, because she did, his own wife
now knows about the affair, too.
In “domestic violence”, the emphasis was on
“domestic”; as in a domestic situation between
husband and wife, rather than as a violent crime
which, after seeing to the care and safety of the
victim, calls for immediate reporting to the police.
Perspectives change, but such crimes continue
in the real world.
Zina Daniel suffered three years of abuse
from her husband, but finally managed to get a
restraining order against him. In her request for
the order she described how he’d threatened to
kill her if she ever left him, throw acid in her face
and burn her and her family with gasoline. “His
threats terrorize my every waking moment”.
This order would prevent him from purchasing
a gun from a licensed dealer, so he got one over
the internet. Last year he went to the Brookfield,
Wisconsin beauty spa where his wife worked,
killed her and two co-workers, wounded four
others, and killed himself. Zina was 42 and left
two small kids.
Jitka Vesel was a 36-year-old Czech translator
and teacher in the Chicago area harassed by an ex-
boyfriend. As a Canadian citizen, he couldn’t get a
gun through a licensed dealer, but managed to get
a .40 caliber handgun through armslist.com. In
2011 he used it to pump 12 bullets into Jitka in the
parking lot of the Czechoslovak Heritage Museum
– five of them to the back of her head as she lay on
the pavement.
Jitka’s longtime friend Theresa O’Rourke
commented, “Her murder was preventable,
and she was failed. The American system and
the American dream failed her by allowing her
stalker, her murderer, to obtain a gun without
a background check, without a single question
asked. She didn’t deserve to die alone in a parking
lot with no one there, with no one to hold her
hand, with no one to comfort her. Her life wasn’t
finished.”
Melissa Barton of Redmond, WA, Harvard-
educated lawyer and software developer for
Microsoft, got a protective order against her
estranged husband after repeated harassment
which included threatening her with a loaded
gun and breaking into her workplace. That order
might prevent him from being able to purchase a
firearm from a licensed dealer, so, a few days after
the order was served, he went to a gun show and
brought home a .357 Smith & Wesson revolver
and a 9mm Taurus semi-automatic.
Melissa Barton was shot eight times in the
parking lot outside her home by her husband, who
then killed himself. She was 36.
Earlier this year during debate on the Violence
Against Women Act (in a Republican-controlled
Congress, passage of something called the
“Violence Against Women Act” can be a nail-
biter), Sen. Patrick Leahy (D-VT) pointed out
that states that require background checks for
handgun sales have 38% fewer women shot by
their partners. According to 2010 FBI statistics,
64% of women killed yearly are at the hands of
a spouse or family member and, in incidents of
domestic violence, a woman is eight times as likely
to be killed if there’s a gun in the house.
A 2002 Harvard study found that while the
U.S. has 32% of the female population of 25 high-
income nations, it has 84% of all female firearm
homicides. The reason, simply, is the availability
of guns.
There were 1,280 gun deaths in the United
States in the eight weeks following the massacre at
Sandy Hook Elementary last December. Of those,
90 were women shot to death by their spouses or
domestic partners.
I remember the “Mad Men” era, with congressmen
warning of intolerable increases in new car prices
should seat belts become mandatory. I remember
“scientists” hired by the tobacco lobby questioning
evidence of the harmful effects of smoking, as
those hired by fossil fuel lobbies now question
evidence of global warming.
President Obama asks of a government
that votes to defeat compromise measures for
universal background checks, “who are we here
to represent?” It’s not Zina Daniel, Jitka Vesel or
Melissa Barton; it’s the lobbies insisting we not
inconvenience abusers seeking guns.
From my own research and experience,
including jury service on trials involving domestic
abuse, I find abusers to be basically cowards, with
their own underlying issues of impotency. I can
think of no better characterization of those siding
with the gun lobby and against the conviction of
the overwhelming majority of Americans. In this
current debate, they represent the madmen.
Who are you? You planted two bombs along the
path of the Boston Marathon, you’ve killed at least
3 people and maimed scores of others, so we’re on
a mission to find out who you are. Notice that
I haven’t asked what you are. We already know
that. Regardless of your name – this we will
ascertain in due time – we already know what
you are. You are a spineless coward and pathetic
representative of whatever demented cause you
claim to represent and hope to advance. We also
know that you are a failure, and I hope that sticks
in your craw til the day you die.
That you are a coward is obvious at face value.
You haven’t provided a declaration of war; you
haven’t taken on a uniform to distinguish yourself
as an armed combatant, distinct from innocent
non-combatants; you certainly don’t wage a
conventional war, nor even a guerilla war. Both
of these would require that you focus your actions
toward other soldiers, leaving the innocent alone,
and would at least evidence a certain courage of
conviction and confidence that your cause might
triumph in a fair fight against others similarly
armed and prepared.
Instead, you target innocent and defenseless
people who had no chance of contesting your
actions. You killed Martin Richard, an 8 year-
old boy who might have kicked a soccer ball at
you; you killed Krystle Campbell, a 28 year-old
restaurant manager who might have thrown a
fork at you; you killed Lu Lingzi, a petite 23 year-
old graduate student who might have hit you with
her math book. All of them might have done
something, put up some sort of fight, had you
acted like a man and given them a chance. But
you didn’t do that. You reside in the shadows of a
backwater alleyway of human refuse. Perhaps it is
appropriate after all that you have not given your
name, claimed responsibility or attributed your
actions to some incoherent perceived grievance.
We would prefer you remain irrelevant were it
not for the fact that we need to find you in order
to confine you to an even more dismal existence
and eventually release you in death to the deepest
circle of hell. How you can consider yourself
brave or noble in any way is beyond human
comprehension.
That you have failed may take a little more effort
on your part to fully comprehend, so allow me
to enlighten you. The purpose of terrorism has
never been to win a battle or the war. Its means
are never large enough, nor its scale broad
enough, to accomplish
that. Terrorism at best
can seek to influence
policy or keep a
citizenry compliant
through fear and
intimidation. Perhaps
it has been successful in
other countries and in
other times, but it has
never been successful in
the United States at any
time.
Sheik Omar Abdel Rahman orchestrated the first
bombing of the World Trade Center. He now
rots in jail and is barely remembered. Osama
Bin Laden and the rest of the Al Qaida leadership
orchestrated attacks against Marine barracks,
several U.S. embassies, the U.S.S. Cole, and again
against the World Trade Center, the Pentagon
and the White House, all in an effort to force us
out of the Mideast. I’ve lost count how many of
them we’ve killed, and we haven’t cut and run
from the Middle East. They all failed.
Timothy McVeigh bombed the Oklahoma City
federal building, killing 168 people, in order to
draw attention to and avenge the Branch Davidian
cult. Timmy was executed, and I had forgotten
all about Davidians until I took to writing this
article. He failed.
And so, too, will you fail. In fact, as I wrote
earlier, you already have. Whatever fear and
intimidation you sought to create has instead been
manifested in bravery and determination. Those
who weren’t injured in the blasts, ran toward the
terror, not away from it, to aid the wounded.
Citizens poured out into the public gathering
spots, markets and eateries in tremendous
numbers last night and tonight to enjoy a spring
evening. They didn’t cower in their homes. As
one public official stated at an impromptu news
conference the other day, Bostonians are giving
you the middle finger.
But perhaps the most poignant and visible
evidence of your failure can be seen in the
YouTube video of the start of April 16th’s Boston
Bruins’ game. You should watch that video
if you have any doubts. Rene Rancourt came
out on the ice to sing the national anthem. Mr.
Rancourt was unable to be heard – and he had
the microphone – over the crowd’s singing of that
anthem. Dozens of American flags were unfurled
by those in the stands, and several impromptu,
hand-lettered signs appeared encouraging us all
to “be Boston strong!”
Ironically, whoever you are, I doubt you will
ever understand why you failed. To think you
could accomplish something by your cowardice
bespeaks a profound ignorance of what makes
America, America. Unlike any other country,
America is at its core an ideal. It’s not just a piece
of land; it’s not a grouping of people of the same
ethnicity, features, or customs; it’s not a large
tribe. America is about people who love liberty,
seek freedom and honor bravery. These things are
not easily abandoned. We may get complacent
from time to time, but when we’re pushed, we’ve
never hesitated to come together, stand tall and
fight back. We sing our national anthem with
greater reverence and more determination when
the likes of you come out of the shadows because
it emblemizes those principals and reminds us
that we are the land of the free and the home of
the brave.
About the author: Gregory J. Welborn is a freelance
writer and has spoken to several civic and religious
organizations on cultural and moral issues. He lives
in the Los Angeles area with his wife and 3 children
and is active in the community. He can be reached
gregwelborn2@gmail.com
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