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Mountain Views-News Saturday, November 22, 2014
FAMILY MATTERS By Marc Garlett
DON’T RISK IT
When listing your home, you may need to move
before a sale takes place. If you vacate the home,
it’s very important that you notify your insurance
company, because many homeowner policies have a
“vacancy clause” that goes into effect once the home
is unoccupied, usually for more than 30 to 60 days.
Insurers see different risks in vacant homes, like
vandalism, systems failures, or other liabilities. In most
cases, you’ll simply purchase an endorsement to your
existing policy, but different insurers have different
options, and if an endorsement is not available, you can
get a separate “vacant-home” policy.
It may be an additional cost, but it’s called “insurance”
for a reason, and could save you a lot of money down
the road. If you don’t notify your insurance agent
about vacating your home, they could reject any
claims you file for property damage or liability, or
accuse you of insurance fraud.
It may be tempting to just hope that your home
will sell within 30 to 60 days after you have to move
out, but it’s critical to speak with your insurance
agent before you move to discuss your options. They
may even pro-rate and refund part of your premium
if you sell before the end of the policy’s term. It’s a
small price to pay to protect your home and your
peace of mind.
THE FINAL LOG-OFF: WHAT HAPPENS
TO OUR DATA WHEN WE DIE?
“DON’T CAGE ME IN”
Take a moment and consider how much of your life you
live online. If you are like me, you bank, pay bills, make
purchases, connect with friends and conduct business
online (in fact, I even met my wife online)! Now think
about all the digital assets you have accumulated -
account information, passwords, emails, photos, videos,
etc. But what happens to all of it when we die?
Since you will not be around anymore, you may not
care. But chances are good your loved ones will. There
have been many stories of families trying to get access to
a deceased family member’s photos and emails on social
media sites - in fact, there have been so many requests
that most of these sites now have policies in place for
family to gain access or deactivate online accounts:
Google. Last year, Google unveiled its Inactive
Account Manager, which allows users to choose to
name a beneficiary for their online account activity on
all Google sites (which includes YouTube) or to delete
it after a set amount of time passes during which the
account is inactive.
Facebook. Facebook allows family members to
request that a decedent’s account be deleted or provides
them with an option to “memorialize” the decedent’s
page so it stays up, but is essentially frozen in time.
Facebook requires you to provide a death certificate or a
published obituary to accomplish this.
LinkedIn. LinkedIn provides an online form to
remove a deceased member’s profile page from the
site. You will need to furnish the member’s name,
email address, the URL to their LinkedIn profile and
some other information as well as a link to their online
obituary.
Twitter. You must email Twitter a request to delete the
account of a family member who has passed and mail
them a copy of the death certificate, the obituary as well
as a copy of your ID and proof that the decedent owned
the account if his or her Twitter handle is different from
their given name.
Yahoo. You can have an account deleted by providing
Yahoo with paper copies of the death certificate and the
document appointing you are the executor of the estate
or personal representative of the deceased along with
a letter furnishing the Yahoo ID of the decedent and
your request that the account be deleted. Yahoo will not
transfer or preserve any data in the account.
But why make your loved ones jump through hoops
to deal with your digital assets? You can take care of it
yourself with these three simple steps:
List all your digital assets. You may already have a list
of all your online accounts and passwords (who can
remember them all?) so you’re halfway there. Add to
that a list of documents on your computer as well as
photos and other data that may be stored on backup or
flash drives.
Decide to keep or delete. Not everyone wants their
family to have access to all their digital files, so review
your list and decide which files are worth preserving
and which ones can be deleted. Then tell your family.
Designate a digital executor. If you have already
named an executor in your estate plan, you may want
the same person to handle the disposition of your
digital assets. If not, then designate someone in your
will to handle this task. Do NOT include your accounts
and passwords in your will! A will is a public document
and this private information can easily be stolen.
To talk about digital asset protection or estate
planning in general, call our office today. Be one of the
first two readers to mention this article and we’ll waive
our normal planning fee (a $750 value). As the holiday
season approaches, there really is no better gift you can
give yourself and your family.
To you family’s health, wealth, and happiness,
A local attorney, father, and CASA volunteer (Court
Appointed Special Advocate for Children), Marc Garlett
is on a mission to help parents protect what they love
most. His office is located at 49 S. Baldwin Ave., Ste. G,
Sierra Madre, CA 91024. Call 626.355.4000 to schedule
an appointment to sit down and talk about ensuring a
legacy of love and financial security for your family or
visit www.GarlettLaw.com for more information.
By Amanda Rogers
Have you ever tried to cage a wild animal? I know Guinea
Pigs don’t conjure up visions of wild, fierce, untamed beasts,
but work with me here. . .
Over the weekend a friend asked me to pet-sit her guinea
pig. I was to pick him up from her garage and transport
him in a small cage back to my house. When I arrived, it
was clear that this fast and feisty rascal was master of his
domain. This guinea pig (we’ll call him Sam to protect his
anonymity) roamed freely and had no interest in being
caught, let alone put in a small carrier. He was enjoying
himself too much. On all fours I tried to chase, coax, trick
and bribe Sam in order to catch him. Finally with only a
carrot for arsenal, I grabbed him. He fought me tooth and
nail (and I mean that quite literally) refusing to be caged.
Finally, after a dramatic struggle between man and beast, I
was able to get him safely inside the cage and quickly close
the small door.
Sam got quiet on the thirty-minute ride home. Was he
sulking? Giving me the cold shoulder? Was he being passive
aggressive in a rodent-like way? Finally home,
I placed the cage in my empty garage, opened the little
cage door and with arms wide open, declared, “You’re free!”
He lay still in the back corner of his prison cell refusing
to leave. I put my hand in to lift him gingerly out of this
isolation chamber and on to the floor. But Sam would have
nothing to do with it. With every attempt to get him out, he
dodged my grasp. Giving up, I sat on the floor in front of
the cage. I thought…. I get it, Sam. You’re just like me. Well,
parts of me…
We all have that isolated creature hiding in the cage of
our discarded selves. In fact it seems we spend the first half
of our lives deciding what parts of ourselves to put into
the cage and then the next half of our lives trying to coax
them back out. Of course Carl Jung brilliantly described
this as the “human shadow.” We’re born whole. But over
the course of our childhood, we learn to hide pieces of
ourselves. The parts our parents look at disapprovingly. By
the time we get into High School and have had a multitude
of relationships, even more pieces of ourselves are caged.
Somewhere in our fourth or fifth decade, after a great
many life experiences, we’re ready to start opening our cage
and trying to retrieve what we’ve been hiding all these years.
We discover that the pieces of ourselves we’ve kept hidden,
unattended to in the cage haven’t evolved like the rest of us
has. In the dark, these shadow pieces have regressed; they’ve
become primitive and sometimes hostile to the person who
finally opens that cage. They’re angry. Beaten down. And
who can blame them?
I thought about what I have held prisoner in my own
cage. I thought about how impatient I can be to recover
those pieces of me and bring them back into the light
where I now understand they belong and have their place. I
realized I couldn’t just drag them out of isolation and expect
them to run free. It takes time. It takes love and it takes
patience. With this newfound insight, instead of forcing
Sam through the narrow door of the cage, I disassembled
the cage around him. I breathed deeply with the knowledge
that he needed space and he would come out when he was
ready.
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SHARE INTERESTS WITH LISTLY
Recently I’ve discovered a cool tool called List.ly. It
allows you to share interests and build lists with
other people in an interactive way. It works great with
Facebook and Twitter.
Basically, you start a list on list.ly and it posts to
your Facebook account so that others can add to your
list. People are making lists of restaurants, favorite
iphone apps, tv shows, best cameras, gift ideas etc. It’s
an interesting way to curate content and share ideas
with others.
To get started, go to list.ly. Connect with your
Facebook account. Select “Make a List.” Add a few links
to your list and then share to Facebook to encourage
participation. I just started a list called “Unique and
fun places to visit in Southern California.” I can’t wait
to see what ideas people share!
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a creative services business that specializes in Internet
Marketing strategies and Social Media. They offer
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Many of my clients come to me, because they are
miserable at their jobs. They are sick of the hamster
wheel, working hard and feeling unfulfilled. They
want answers… what kind of job would they truly
love? What were they created to do?
They remember they used to be creative as
kids, even as teenagers, but once college hit, they
abandoned that part of themselves. They left their
natural passions for something more “grown up.”
For a “real job.” For something that made lots
of money. The problem is if your work does not
include passion, no matter how much you make,
you will be left unsatisfied.
Who you were as a child offers clues to who you
are as an adult. You’re probably not going to make
a living playing with legos, but construction and
design may be your thing. Dolls could point to a
deep desire to nurture. If you’re miserable, go back
and look. What interests did you leave behind
and how might they be employed today to create
meaningful work?
When you reconnect to those innate passions,
you will rediscover your path and find that
fulfilling work. It’s what you’re here to do.
. . . . .
LORI KOOP : Coaching for Creatives… Career
~ Business ~ Life. Schedule a complimentary
session: www.LORIKOOP.com or call 626-836-
1667. (Location: 47 E. Montecito Avenue, Sierra
Madre 91024) I’m here every other week.
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