Mountain View News Saturday, May 28, 2022
CHRISTOPHER Nyerges
COMMENTARY FROM
MEMORIAL DAY 1998
A Tale About Death
An excerpt from “’Til Death Do Us Part?” a book by Christopher Nyerges,
available on Kindle, or from www.SchoolofSelf-Reliance.com.
It was Memorial Day 1998, and I had scheduled to conduct a wild food
outing at Pasadena’s Hahamongna Watershed Park. Since it was Memorial
Day, my topic for a short discussion at the end of the outing was “death.”
Hahamongna Park -- formerly called Oak Grove Park -- is the site of one of the Gabrielino
Indian villages along the Arroyo Seco
It was a cool and overcast day as participants for the wild food outing gathered in the parking
area of the park. Among the half-dozen participants who showed up for the outing was
Martin Kruse, a bearded, burly bear of a man who looked like he’d be more at home in the
19th century. He introduced himself and told me that he’d long wanted to meet me. Martin
and I chatted as the other outing participants listened, and he told me about his work with
archery and primitive bow-making.
We walked down in the flat area of the large expanse of the park, where the wet mud had
hardened, capturing countless animal tracks. Martin told us how to differentiate between
coyote and dog tracks. He’d obviously done a lot of tracking during his time hunting with a
bow.
I later learned from Martin’s father that this was a favorite place of Martin’s when he was
much younger. He’d come here and spend a week or two and study nature and tracks and
practice with his bow.
After walking throughout the flat area, I led the way back to the oak trees where I would
share my lesson. Within seconds, someone in the rear called out. Martin had fallen. I first
thought it was a joke, and ran to him. It was no joke. His face already looked purple. The
man who had been walking with him said he’d not tripped -- he just fell. I tried to rouse him,
but it was quickly obvious that he was “out.”
Several of us moved Martin into what we assumed would be a more comfortable position,
and that wasn’t easy! Martin was a big guy. And then -- since I was the only one who knew
the area -- I ran to a phone to call 911. This was before the days of ubiquitous cell phones.
Within 10 minutes, before I even got back to the group and Martin’s flat body -- paramedics
from the City of Pasadena were on the scene, attempting to revive him. They all worked like
a highly-coordinated team, speaking among themselves only briefly and in terms we didn’t
understand. They were what we call a “well-oiled machine.” They carried him into the ambulance
and took him away.
I could tell that the remainder of the outing participants were in varying degrees of shock. It
had all been like a dream, and now Martin was gone. We discussed the merits and pitfalls of
the modern medical system, and whether there was more we could have done to help Martin.
We discussed whether we thought Martin would revive or not.
So there we stood in the cool afternoon breeze, contemplating death in the most sobering
manner possible. I explained to everyone my death lesson -- which hardly seemed appropriate
now. I didn’t talk everyone through the intended exercise -- I just explained a process that
I’d done many times on Memorial Day.
Write a list of all those close people in your life. Then, close your eyes, and imagine getting a
phone call telling you that they have just died. For most people, there are tears and a feeling
of regret that they never told that person something. You write down all those things you
wanted to say to that person. Then, since these folks are still alive, you then go and call them
or write them or see them in person and tell them. This is a very profound exercise, and in
many ways can be called “healing.”
Each person commented how “coincidental” it was that the lecture topic that I’d chosen for
the day, and listed on the schedule, was “Death.” We kept reflecting on Martin. At that moment,
none of us knew yet that Martin would not recover, that he had in fact died, and that
he died in a place he loved. Nor had we known that Martin had a heart pacer, and an artery
to his heart that was narrow. We were aware that he’d had surgery -- probably to the heart
-- because we opened his shirt and saw the scar.
A German woman who’d been on the outing, Walti, told me that we should not feel sad.
“It was quick,” she told me later. “What better place to die.” I could not help but agree with
her. Martin’s death was apparently sudden, and his last memory would have been looking at
the willows and the rushing stream and the cloudy sky and the sand flats of the Hahamongna
Watershed Park. In his final moments, he was surrounded with friends that he’d only met
that day, trail compadres who shared a common love of the outdoors, all brought together at
this time and this place to witness his passing.
The Chef Knows By Peter Dills
OPEN IT NOW SAYS PETER DILLS
“Time in a Bottle” was a hit song by singer/songwriter Jim Croce. A
question I am asked almost weekly basis is “does wine get better as
it spends more time in a bottle?” Answer is “yes… and no”. Philipe
Jeandet is a professor at University of Reims Champagne-Ardenne
in France, and was lucky enough to discover a shipwreck that had
quite a cargo. Gold? No, champagne. Jeandet and his crew brought
all 168 bottles to the surface, and actually opened one on the spot.
First tastes were fantastic. Given his knowledge of bubbles, his first
guess was that they were at least 100 years old. The bottles had no
boxes or labels, so after a few years of inspecting the corks and bottle
engravings his group decided that the champagne was over 200 years
old. It’s home at the bottom of the Baltic Sea provided total darkness
and a temperature of 35 degrees, aided by the compression of depth
for the discovery, perfect for storing wine.
Your home wine cellar provides somewhat different conditions than the bottom of the Baltic
Sea, so getting back to the question above, does wine get better with age? Yes, wines that are
expensive or rare will get better. No, most wine is produced to drink now. In fact, up to 90%
of wines don’t actually get any better with ageing. Many of us will let our wines breathe, especially
the reds, and that’s fine. I suggest using a large wine glass with enough room to swirl
your wine around, watch the legs on the glass, and drink. Many of my class “A” sommelier
friends contend that if it’s not ready drink, it isn’t ready to buy. I agree!!
As for champagne, my storage procedure (for a single bottle or case) is to simply leave it on
the floor of my closet, laying each bottle sideways. Champagne, for many, is only for special
occasions, whereas for me it is a weekly toast. You should only put champagne in the refrigerator
when you are ready to serve it. Once opened it will only last a few hours, so make sure
you have plenty of help to drink it. My bottom line on the subject is to let the supermarkets
and wine shops take care of the storage for you. They have the right equipment, and it is a
heck of job (and a lot of money) to build your own wine cellar.
Dining with Dills Sundays at 5 PM KLAA AM 830 AM
STAY SAFE!
GET VACCINATED!
WEAR A MASK!
Our lovable girl
Cricket…, with the
big personality !!
She is very affectionate,
friendly, full of
spunk, and quite playful.
Cricket is a little
smarty-pants, too, being
a very alert and intelligent
kitty. She loves to
talk to you, and tell you what’s on her mind! She enjoys chasing
little bouncy balls, and then will jump into a cat tree and play a game, “Catch me if you can,
come pet me, while I squirm around happy as a clam, just soaking up your love & atten-tion."
She can be a little rascal at times, but in a cute way. Cricket has a sleek, athletic body, like a mini
panther, with her shiny & silky black fur. She does fine with other cats, but she can be a pickle
some-times, and this is… because she loves to be No. 1. However, she will settle in, just as she
has with her fellow felines at our rescue. Cricket is spayed, healthy, current on vaccines, and microchipped.
Find the adoption application on our website where you'll also find more adora-ble
pix of Cricket. www.lifelineforpets.org.
Pet of the Week
Eight-month-old Shadow is an energetic dog who lovesgetting belly rubs from those in his inner circle! Shadowwould do best with an adopter who has experience readingdog body language, can give him time and patience toadjust to his new home, and is ready to teach him lots of
new things using positive reinforcement (such as snacks
and praise). Shadow would do best as the only pet in the
home so he can get all your love.
The adoption fee for dogs is $150. All dog adoptions includespay or neuter, microchip, and age-appropriate vaccines.
New adopters will receive a complimentary health-andwellness
exam from VCA Animal Hospitals, as well as agoody bag filled with information about how to care for
your pet.
View photos of adoptable pets and schedule an adoptionappointment at pasadenahumane.org. Adoptions are byappointment only, and new adoption appointments are
available every Sunday and Wednesday at 10:00 a.m.
Pets may not be available for adoption and cannot be heldfor potential adopters by phone calls or email.
FREE FILMS AT SIERRA MADRE PLAYHOUSE: SAVING
FACE ON JUNE 1 AND CHINATOWN RISING ON JUNE 8
In connection with its current mainstage production, King of the Yees, Sierra
Madre Playhouse will present two FREE screenings of motion pictures: Saving Face
on Wednesday, June 1 at 7:00 p.m. and Chinatown Rising on Wednesday, June 8 at
7:00 p.m. Admission is FREE, but RSVP is required.
Admission is FREE thanks to a California Humanities Quick Grant.
Saving Face. Comedy/Romance. Written and directed by Alice Wu. Produced
by Will Smith, James Lassiter, Teddy Zee. From Sony Pictures Entertainment. (Color,
2004, USA, 91 minutes, rated R) Starring Michelle Krusiec, Joan Chen, Lynn Chen,
Jin Wang, Guang Lan Koh, Jessica Hecht. In Manhattan, the brilliant Chinese-American
lesbian surgeon Wil is surprised by the arrival of her forty-eight year old widow
mother to her apartment. Ma was banished from Flushing, Queens, when her father
discovered that she was pregnant. The presence of Ma affects the personal life of Wil,
who is in love with the daughter of her boss at the hospital, the dancer Vivian Shing.
Once her grandfather has promised that her mother would only return to Flushing
remarried or proving that it was an immaculate conception, Wil tries to find a Chinese
bachelor to marry Ma.
Winner- Golden Horse Film Festival; San Diego Asian Film Festival; San Francisco
International Asian American Film Festival.
“The picture is nicely cast….Joan Chen registers strongly as the unwed mom
caught between two generations.”----SF Gate.
To RSVP for Saving Face, use this link: https://ci.ovationtix.com/35040/
production/1125334
Chinatown Rising. Documentary. Directed by Harry and Josh Chuck. Produced
by James Chan. From Caam. (Color, 2019, USA, 85 minutes, not rated) A
documentary based on Harry Chuck's collection of clippings and period films about
the issues that motivated members of San Francisco's Chinese American community
to reject submissive stereotypes.
“A worthy reminder that each community that comprises the pulse of the city needs
to see itself represented in the structures that govern urban life.”----POV
To RSVP for Chinatown Rising, use this link: https://ci.ovationtix.com/35040/
production/1125336
Covid-19 protocols in effect on the days of the events will be observed. As of this
writing, it means that masks are required and vaccination record (card or digital)
will be required.
Sierra Madre Playhouse is located at 87 W. Sierra Madre Blvd. in Sierra Madre, CA
91024. This is just east of Pasadena. There is ample free parking in lots behind the
Playhouse and across the street.
For more information about our mainstage show King of the Yees, please go to http://
sierramadreplayhouse.org
This project was made possible with support from California Humanities, a nonprofit
partner of the National Endowment for the Humanities. Visit www.calhum.
org.
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