ADAPTIVE CLOTHING TAKES THE STRESS OUT OF DRESSING
Dear Savvy Senior:
What kinds of clothing options are available to mobility challenged seniors who have a difficult time dressing?
Looking for Mom
Dear Looking:
The chore of dressing and undressing in traditional
clothing can be difficult, time-consuming and even
painful for millions of people with certain health and
mobility problems. Fortunately, there’s a wide variety
special clothing, known as “adaptive clothing,” that
can help with most dressing challenges. Here’s what
you should know.
What is Adaptive Clothing?
Adaptive clothing is specially designed garments for people with mobility issues, disabilities and cognitive
challenges who have a difficult time getting dressed. This type of clothing incorporates discreet design features
to make dressing and undressing easier, while still having the outward appearance of typical clothing.
Depending on your mom’s needs, here are some of the many different types of adaptive clothing options
that could help.
For self-dressing seniors who suffer from Parkinson’s or other disabilities that affect dexterity, there are
pants, shirts, dresses and outerwear made with Velcro or magnetic closures instead of buttons and zippers,
which are much easier to fasten and unfasten. But be aware that magnetic closures are not suitable for those
who have pacemakers.
For those who are disabled or who have limited range of motion and need assistance dressing, there are
adaptive pants with zippers or snaps on both sides of the pants that are easier to pull on. And a wide range
of rear closure shirts, tops and dresses with Velcro or snap fasteners in the back for those who can’t raise
their arms over their head.
For wheelchair users there are higher back and elastic waistband pants that don’t slip down, as well as pants
with fabric overlaps at the seat to allow for easier toileting access.
For people with tactile sensitivity, there are garments you can purchase that have soft and stretchy fabrics
without tags and are sewn with flat seams to help preventing chafing.
And for seniors with Alzheimer’s disease there are one-piece jumpsuits that have a back-zipper access to
prevent the wearer from disrobing inappropriately.
Where to Shop?
Because each person’s dressing needs and style is so specific, finding appropriate adaptive clothing can be
difficult.
Recently, mainstream clothing stores like JCPenney (jcpenney.com), Target (target.com) and Tommy Hilfiger
(usa.tommy.com) have started offering a line of adaptive clothing for adults that combines fashion and
functionality, but their instore options are limited. To get a bigger selection, visit the store’s website and type
in “adaptive clothing” in their search engine.
You can also find a large selection at online stores that specialize in adaptive clothing like Buck & Buck
(buckandbuck.com) and Silverts (silverts.com). Both of these companies have been selling adaptive clothing
for decades and offer a wide variety of garments to accommodate almost any need, condition or style,
for independent self-dressers and for those who need help.
Some other adaptive clothing sites you should visit include Joe & Bella (joeandbella.com), Ovidis (ovidis.
com), and IZ Adaptive (izadaptive.com), which sells clothing primarily designed for wheelchair users.
And, if your mom is in need of adaptive footwear, Velcro fastening shoes (instead of shoelaces) have long
been a popular option and can be found in most local shoe stores.
Some other new lines of adaptive shoes that may interest her include Kiziks (kizik.com) and Zeba (zebashoes.
com), which make fashionable sneakers and comfortable walking shoes that just slip on, hands-
free, along with Billy Footwear (billyfootwear.com) and Friendly Shoes (friendlyshoes.com), which makes
uniquely designed zip-on shoes.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a
contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.
FAMILY MATTERS
By Marc Garlett
DON'T LET YOUR KIDS LEAVE THE NEST WITHOUT
SIGNING THESE 3 DOCUMENTS
As we head into sum
mer, many parents will
see their children graduate high school and prepare
to leave home to attend college or pursue other life
goals. This can be an exciting and emotional time,
and with so much going on, estate planning probably
isn’t at the front of your (or their) mind right
now.
However, estate planning should actually be a top
priority for both you and your kids.
Here’s why: Once your kids turn 18, they become
legal adults, and many areas of their life that were
once under your control will become entirely their
responsibility, whether you take action or not. To
this end, if your kids don’t have the proper legal
documents in place, you could face a costly and
traumatic ordeal should something happen to
them.
If your child were to get into a serious car accident
and require hospitalization, for example, you would
no longer have the automatic authority to make decisions
about his or her medical treatment or the
ability to manage his or her financial affairs. Without
legal documentation, you wouldn’t even be able
to access your child’s medical records or bank accounts
without a court order.
To deal with this vulnerability and ensure your
family never gets stuck in an expensive and unnecessary
court process, before your kids leave home,
have a conversation about estate planning and
make sure they sign the following three documents.
1. Medical Power of AttorneyThe first document your child needs is a medical
power of attorney. A medical power of attorney is
an advance healthcare directive that allows yourchild to grant you (or someone else) the immediatelegal authority to make healthcare decisions on hisor her behalf if they become incapacitated and areunable to make these decisions for themselves.
For example, a medical power of attorney would allow
you to make decisions about your child’s medical
treatment if he or she is incapacitated in a car
accident or falls into a coma due to a debilitating
illness like COVID-19.
Without a medical power of attorney in place, if
your child suffers a severe accident or illness that
requires hospitalization and you need to access
their medical records to make decisions about
their treatment, you’d have to petition the court
to become their legal guardian. While a parent is
typically the court’s first choice for a guardian, the
guardianship process can be slow and expensive—
and in medical emergencies, time is of the essence.
Not to mention, due to HIPAA laws, once your child
becomes 18, no one—not even a parent—can legally
access his or her medical records without prior
written permission. However, a properly drafted
medical power of attorney should include a standalone
HIPAA authorization, so you can immediately
access your child’s medical records to make
informed decisions about his or her treatment.
2. Living WillWhile a medical power of attorney allows you tomake healthcare decisions on your child’s behalfduring their incapacity, a living will is an advancedirective that provides specific guidance aboutthese decisions, particularly at the end of life.
For example, a living will allows your child to advise
if and when he or she would want life support
removed should it ever be required. In addition
to documenting how your child wants his or her
medical care managed, a living will can also include
instructions about nourishment and hydration. For
example, if your child is a vegan, vegetarian, or
takes specific supplements, these things should be
considered and documented in their living will.
Additionally, given the pandemic, speak with your
child about the unique medical decisions, particularly
intubation, ventilators, and experimental
medications. At the same time, your child’s living
will should also outline their quality-of-life decisions
to ensure their emergency medical treatment
doesn’t end up doing more harm than good.
Although you’ll find a variety of medical power of
attorney, living will, and other advance directive
documents online, your child has unique needs and
wishes that can’t be anticipated by these fill-in-theblank
documents. Given this, we recommend you
and your child work with a trusted estate planning
attorney to create—or at the very least, review—
their advance directives.
3. Durable Power of AttorneyShould your child become incapacitated, you mayalso need the ability to access and manage theirfinances and legal affairs, and this requires yourchild to grant you durable power of attorney.
Durable power of attorney gives you the authority
to manage your child’s financial and legal matters,
such as paying tuition, applying for student loans,
paying rent, negotiating (or re-negotiating) a lease,
managing bank accounts, and collecting government
benefits if necessary. Without this document,
you’d have to petition the court for this authority.
Start Adulthood on The Right TrackBefore your kids leave the nest, discuss the value of
estate planning and make sure they have the proper
legal documents in place. By doing so, you are helping
your family avoid a costly and emotional court
process, while also demonstrating the importance
of good financial and legal stewardship, which sets
your kids on the right track from the very start of
their journey into adulthood and beyond.
Marc Garlett, Esq.
Cali Law Family
Legacy Matterswww.caliLaw.com
626.355.4000
Mountain View News Saturday, June 4, 2022
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …June Birthdays*
Joanne Thrane, Nellie Haynes, Dorothy McKay, Diane Hatfield, Georgette
Dunlay, Elizabeth Shul, Donna Doss, Mary Carney, Carol Handley, Marilyn
McKernan, Pat Fujiwara, John Shier, Beth Smith-Kellock, Ann Disbrow,
Joan Ellison, Anne Montgomery, Trini Ornelas, Martha Spriggs, Pat Starkey,
Kathleen Coyne, Suzanne Decker, Jacque Persing, Jeanne Peterson and Grace Sanders
To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737.
YEAR of birth not required
THE HART PARK HOUSE SENIOR CENTER IS OPEN!!!!
SIERRA MADRE SENIOR CLUB Every Saturday from 11:30am-3:30 pm in the
Hart Park House Senior Center. Join us as we celebrate birthdays, holidays and pay
BINGO. Must be 50+ to join. For more information call Mark at 626-355-3951.
DOMINOES TRAIN GAME Wednesday, 5/18 11:00 am— 12:30 pm Hart Park
House The object of the game is for a player to play all the tiles from their hand onto
one or more trains, emanating from a central hub or “station”. Call Lawren with questions
that you may have.
PAINT PALS
Tuesday, 5/10 & 5/24, 10:30 am—Hart Park House If you enjoy painting, sketching,
water color, or making some other form of artistic creation please join our new
program, PAINT PALS!!! Bring a project that you are working on to the HPH and
enjoy some quality art time with other artists looking to paint with a new pal.
TEA AND TALK SENIOR BOOK CLUB Tuesday, 5/25— 9:00 am Staff has
launched a new book club series, Tea and Talk, which meets twice a month to discuss
the fun, suspense, intrigue, love and so much more that each selection will have in
store!
FIBER FRIENDS Tuesday, 5/17 —10:00 am If you enjoy knitting, crocheting,
embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or cross stitch then we have a group
for you! Bring your current project, a nonalcoholic beverage, then sit and chat with
likeminded fiber friends. We meet in the Hart Park House
BINGO Monday 5/16 1:00 pm- 2:00 pm Come on down to enjoy this time with
friends. We are trying a new spin on BINGO fun so please bring your good luck
charms and BINGO markers!
CHAIR YOGA Every Monday and Wednesday, 10-10:45 am Please join us for some
gentle stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall relaxation with Paul. Classes are
ongoing and held in the Memorial Park Covered Pavilion or the Hart Park House..
HULA AND POLYNESIAN DANCE Every Friday, 10-10:45 am Bring a lei, your
flower skirt or just your desire to dance! Hula in the Park is back and waiting for you
to join in on all the fun! Memorial Park Pavilion.
SENIOR CINEMA WEDNESDAY, 5/25 1:00 PM
MERMAIDS 1hr 50min An unconventional single mother relocates with her two
daughters to a small Massachusetts town in 1963, where a number of events and relationships
both challenge and strengthen their familial bonds.
SIERRA MADRE SENIOR CLUB
Every Saturday from 11:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. in the Hart Park House Senior Center. Join us
as we celebrate birthdays, holidays and play BINGO.
Must be 50+ to join. For more information call Mark at 626-355-3951
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
ANGELS DO PLAY HARPS AND I HAVE PROOF
A few weeks ago, The Gra
cious Mistress of the Par
sonage came to me with
a question. I'm always very cautious whenever
that happens because it could be a trap.
"Next Saturday I have to go and pick up
something. It's about an hour away, and I
wonder if you could come with me?"
This is a new one. So I asked her, "What are
you going to be picking up?"
That's a straightforward question with no
strings attached.
She looked at me for a few moments and finally
said, "It's a secret, and I don't want to
tell you yet."
That was enough to put me on my guard. A
secret? What kind of a secret could this be?
So I ask her, "What is the secret?"
She didn't respond right away, but finally,
she said very soberly, "I don't want to tell
you right now. It's a secret, and you'll understand
when we get there."
I don't mind secrets as long as they are my
secrets. But when The Gracious Mistress of
the Parsonage has a secret, the red flags begin
waving.
Thinking about it for a few moments, I
thought I should go along with her, so I said,
"If you need me to go with you, I'll be glad
to go."
Hoping to trip her up, I said, "And what is
the secret?"
She looked at me, smiled, and walked away.
For her to have a secret and then want me
to help her facilitate that secret without telling
me what it is, is beyond my pay scale. As
long as we've been married, I've never heard
her ask for this kind of favor.
Of course, this kind of favor could work in
my favor down the line. Whenever I want
something, I could always say, "Do you remember
that secret I helped you with a few
years ago?" I'm sure I could use it for some
value at the proper time.
For the last few weeks, I noticed she's been
searching for things on her computer, but
there's no way in the world I'm going to get
on her computer and try to figure out what
she was searching for.
Finally, the Saturday came, and she said,
"Are you ready to go?"
"And," I said staggeringly, "what are we going
for?"
"You'll find out in due time."
I didn't know what I was in for, and I did
not know how to prepare for it. I'm not very
good at handling secrets, especially if they're
not my secrets.
We finally arrived at our destination, and
my wife parked her van there was a lady on
the sidewalk waiting for us.
My wife looked at me and said, "That's the
lady who has my secret."
We got out of the van and I walked rather
slowly towards the lady, not knowing if I
should shout or run. She did not look like a
dangerous lady with a dangerous secret, but
I was going to be cautious nevertheless.
We greeted her, and my wife introduced me
to her; then we walked to the back of her
van, and I found out what that secret was.
I didn't quite know how to handle the secret
or what to make of it, but I just smiled and
helped transfer this "secret" from the lady's
van to my wife's van.
As the transfer took place, my jaw dropped.
I really could not believe what I was seeing.
There was a harp and all the things that
went with it. The secret was my wife had
just purchased a professional harp. I did not
know what she was going to make of it, but
our travel home was very interesting as she
described this new interest to me in detail.
In the next several weeks, The Gracious
Mistress of the Parsonage learned how to
play the harp. She watched a bunch of videos
and was quite a fast learner.
She played the piano for years and did it for
all our church services as long as I knew her.
From what she told me, playing the piano
helped her learn how to play the harp.
Every time I came home, I walked into the
house and she was sitting there with her
harp playing it. I discovered she was quite
good with this harp as I listened to it.
I did not know very much about this kind
of an instrument; as far as I was concerned,
only angels played harps in heaven, which
got me wondering.
Is there another secret that I don't know
about?
Could she be playing this harp, preparing
me for heaven?
I know my wife knows everything, and maybe
there is this other secret she's not telling
me for a reason.
One consolation is she's not playing fireballs.
I can handle the harp preparing me
for heaven, so I just sit back every time she
played and enjoyed it.
After all, angels do play harps, and my wife
is getting better at it every day.
As she was playing her harp I thought of a
verse of Scripture. “I will also praise thee
with the psaltery, even thy truth, O my God:
unto thee will I sing with the harp, O thou
Holy One of Israel” (Psalms 71:22).
Is going to be a wonderful time in heaven
as we gather together listening to the Angels
play their hearts as we worship the Lord
together.
Dr. James L. Snyder lives in Ocala, FL with
the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage.
Telephone 1-352-216-3025, e-mail jamessnyder51@
gmail.com, website www.jamessnyderministries.
com.
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