Mountain Views-News Saturday, October 15, 2022
Specializing in PlacingSeniors in Assisted Living and
Memory Care Communities
ASSISTED LIVING OR NURSING
HOME?
There are many myths about Assisted
Living being like Nursing Homes.
This is not true at all. Nursing facilities
are for those with chronic health
issues who require care around the
clock from medical professionals.
In Assisted Living, one will get the support as needed, such as getting help with showering, grooming,
and dressing. Again, these services are based on the seniors needs.
There are many reasons in working with us. At Safe Path for Seniors, we will assess the senior and
depending on their care needs and budget, make recommendations. For example, we may suggest
that the right fit is a Board and Care Home (normally a 6-bedroom house) as opposed to an Assisted
Living Community or a Memory Support Facility. You will work with an experienced agent who
knows the industry well and will give you recommendations. The good news is that there is no
cost for this service.
If you have any questions about placing a loved one, visit www.safepathforseniors.com or call Steve
at 626-999-6913
HOME SHARING: A GROWING TREND AMONG BABY BOOMERS
Dear Savvy Senior:
I saw a news segment on television a few months
ago about home sharing programs for seniors and
would like to learn more. I’m 68, divorced, and am
interested in renting out a room in my house to help
make ends meet. What can you tell me?
Interested Boomer
Dear Boomer:
Because of inflation and rising housing costs a growing number of baby boomers are opting to rent
out a spare room in their house as a way to generate some extra income, and for some, increase
companionship. To find a good fit, older homeowners often turn to “home sharing programs” that
will match an empty nester with someone needing affordable housing.
But be aware that home sharing isn’t for everyone. You need to carefully consider the pros and cons
of renting out a spare room in your house and make a list of what you want and don’t want in a
housemate/renter.
To help you figure all this out, a good resource is SharingHousing.com, a website dedicated to
understanding the home sharing concept. They offer various articles, online lessons and resource
books that can help you determine if this is a good option for you, and if so, how to find and choose
a good housemate.
Home Sharing Tools
If you decide to proceed in finding a housemate/renter, a good first step is to seek out a home sharing
program in your area.
Home sharing programs, usually nonprofits, screen both homeowners and renters. They check
references, handle background checks and consider lifestyle criteria when making matches. They
can also help you with the leasing agreement that the renter would sign that covers detailed issues
like smoking, pets, chores, overnight guests, use of common rooms, quiet hours, etc.
Most home sharing programs are free to use or request a small donation. Others, however, may
charge the homeowner and potential renter a fee for this service. To look for a home sharing program
in your area visit the National Shared Housing Resource Center website at NationalSharedHousing.
org.
If you don’t find a program that serves your area, you can also search for housemates through an
online home sharing service like Silvernest.com. Or, if you’d rather have a younger housemate that
can help out with some household chores, consider Nesterly.com. This is an online home sharing
agency, available in a few select communities, that matches young renters with older adults looking
to supplement their incomes and share their space.
If you don’t have any luck with any of these home sharing sites, put a call in to your Area Aging
Agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) who may be able to offer assistance or refer
you to local agencies or nonprofit organizations that offer shared housing help.
You can also check with your local senior or community center, or local church you attend to see if
you can post an ad on their bulletin board or in their newsletter. Or you can advertise in your local
newspaper or online at sites like CraigsList.org or RoomMates.com.
If you find someone on your own that you’re interested in renting to, ask the prospective renter
to fill out a rental application (see RentalLeaseAgreement.org to download and print one for free)
and run a tenant screening and background check, and then call their references. Tenant screening/
background checks can be done at sites like E-renter.com or MySmartMove.com.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.
org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.
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Call Patricia @ 626-818-2698 TODAY!
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS*
Janda Ferris, Darlene Traxler, Margit Johnson, Sole Krieg, George Maurer,
Dick Anderson, Eva Poet, Mary Jane Baker, Dixie Coutant, Jill Franks,
Cathleen Cremins, Adie Marshall, Darlene Crook, Susan Gallagher, Maggie
Ellis, Gloria Giersbach, Ellen O’Leary, Jenny Piangenti, Anita Thompson,
Linda Boehm and Angela Stella * To add your name to this distinguished
list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737. YEAR of birth not required
SIERRA MADRE SENIOR CLUB Every Saturday from 11:30am-3:30 pm in the Hart
Park House Senior Center. Join us as we celebrate birthdays, holidays and play BINGO.
Must be 50+ to join. For more information call Mark at 626-355-3951.
DOMINOES TRAIN GAME 1st and 3rd Wednesdays, 11:00 am— 12:30 pm Hart Park
House The object of the game is for a player to play all the tiles from their hand onto one or
more trains, emanating from a central hub or “station”. Call Lawren with questions that you
may have.
PAINT PALS
Thursday, 10/13 10:30 am—Hart Park House If you enjoy painting, sketching, water color,
or making some other form of artistic creation please join our new program, PAINT PALS!!!
Bring a project that you are working on to the HPH and enjoy some quality art time with other
artists looking to paint with a new pal.
TEA AND TALK SENIOR BOOK CLUB Tuesday Oct. 12 and Oct. 26 — 9:00 am
Staff has launched a new book club series, Tea and Talk, which meets twice a month to discuss
the fun, suspense, intrigue, love and so much more that each selection will have in store!
FIBER FRIENDS Tuesday, 10/4 and 10/18 —10:00 am If you enjoy knitting, crocheting,
embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or cross stitch then we have a group for you!
Bring your current project, a nonalcoholic beverage, then sit and chat with likeminded fiber
friends. We meet in the Hart Park House
CHAIR YOGA Every Monday and Wednesday, 10-10:45 am Please join us for some gentle
stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall relaxation with Paul. Classes are ongoing and
held in the Memorial Park Covered Pavilion or the Hart Park House..
HULA AND POLYNESIAN DANCE Every Friday, 10-10:45 am Bring a lei, your flower
skirt or just your desire to dance! Hula in the Park is back and waiting for you to join in on all
the fun! Memorial Park Pavilion.
BLOOD PRESSURE CLINIC - Tuesday, Oct. 11 11:00 am - 12:00 pm
Methodist Hospital will be holding a free to seniors clinic once a month in the Hart Park
House. Walk in are welcome - no pre-registration required.
LOTERIA: Oct. 20 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Come down to the HPH (Hart Park House) for a lively round of Loteria (Mexican Bingo)
Prizes await!
OCTOBER CRAFT Tuesday, October 25 10:30am Hart Park House
Have you ever had interest in balloon art? Well you are in luck! Join Recreation Coordinator
Pardo as she instructs us on how to create a cat, bat or pumpkin balloon column. Space is limited
so please call or email Lawren to reserve your spot.
SENIOR CINEMA Wednesday, 10/12— 1:00 pm HUBIE HALLOWEEN PG-13 1h 43m
Good-natured but eccentric community volunteer Hubie Dubois finds himself at
the center of a real murder case on Halloween night. Despite his devotion to his
hometown of Salem, Massachusetts (and its legendary Halloween celebration).
Wednesday, 10/26 – Beginning at 1:00pm THE BIRDS PG 1h 59m
SPECIAL MEDICARE PRESENTATION NEW DATE! Thursday 10/20, 9:00 am
10:00 am Hart Park House Please join Duarte Councilmember Vihn for
a Medicare presentation. Pastries and coffee will be served during this informative
presentation. Space is limited, call Lawren to reserve your spot.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
HOW MUCH COFFEE IS TOO MUCH COFFEE?
I will be the first to confess
that I love my coffee, espe
cially in the morning. When
anybody asks how much coffee is enough, I
usually say, “Just one more cup.”
My day cannot get started until I’ve had a
sufficient amount of coffee. If I don’t have
enough coffee when I meet somebody, they
will look at me and say, “Have you had your
coffee today?”
I respond by saying, “Well, not enough.”
I haven’t always been a fan of coffee. If I am
obsessed with coffee, I will have to blame The
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage for this.
She is the one that introduced me to coffee,
and here I am.
When I was young, I hated the coffee my parents
had. I tried tasting it a couple of times,
and it really was awful, almost like mud. How
they were able to drink that coffee is beyond
me.
It was not until I married The Gracious Mistress
of the Parsonage that I understood what
the problem was.
When I was young, my parents used “instant
coffee.” I’m not sure why they drank that, but
I did not like it. I thought, at the time, coffee
was for idiots. I never said it out loud because
I feared who might hear me saying it. But I
believe it and have a good reason for believing
it.
After we were married, The Gracious Mistress
of the Parsonage bought something
I never saw before, which was a coffee pot.
I thought my father was a coffee pot at the
time. I did not know what it was for, but when
you’re first married, you don’t create any ambiance
of negativity.
It was then I understood what real coffee was
all about. The coffee pot made real coffee. I
had never had real coffee before and fell in
love with coffee after one gentle sip.
So, you see, The Gracious Mistress of the
Parsonage is responsible for my addiction to
coffee.
Since then, I’ve enjoyed many a cup of coffee,
particularly from her coffee pot in the
kitchen. I began understanding the difference
between “instant coffee” and “real coffee.”
I’m surprised my parents didn’t know the
difference.
After being married for over 50 years, I have
never been tempted to get a cup of instant
coffee, what a tragedy of taste that would be.
Since I’ve been drinking coffee, my days have
never been better. But, of course, there are
those few days when I don’t have a chance
to grab my coffee because of oversleeping or
something. Those have been brought down
to very few, I assure you.
My day starts perfectly after that first coffee
in the morning.
Recently, in the afternoon, I was drinking
some coffee; the Gracious Mistress of the
Parsonage entered the room and, looking at
me, said, “Haven’t you had enough coffee for
the day?”
I looked at her, smiled, and cheerfully said,
“That animal doesn’t exist.” Then I went back
to sipping my heavenly cup of coffee.
My morning cup of coffee enables me to start
the day rather cheerful. I know when I start
each day, there’s going to be something that’s
going to give me a problem. A day without
problems is a day I haven’t gotten out of bed.
A great solution to these problems is a hot
cup of coffee in the morning. Not just “a” cup
of coffee but a series of cups of coffee. I’m a
serial coffee drinker.
“Drinking too much coffee,” The Gracious
Mistress of the Parsonage warned me, “is not
very good for your health.”
I looked at her with a mischievous smile and
said, “Would you like to deal with me without
my cup of coffee in the morning?”
Laughing, she looked back and said, “No,
there probably isn’t enough coffee for that.”
One year, a report says coffee is not good for
you. It’s bad for your health, so they say. So
the next year, there’s another report that says
drinking coffee is good for your health. Who
in the world am I going to believe?
Well, I tell you what, I’m not going to believe
any reports I hear from the news media. I will
take this subject up with my cup of Joe in the
morning and get his opinion.
There is one thing that makes a cup of coffee
magnificent in the morning. That one thing
is an Apple Fritter. I believe these two were
made for each other, and there is nothing
more delicious than the combination of these
two delicacies.
I can get away with my coffee with The Gracious
Mistress of the Parsonage, but it’s hard
for me to get away with the Apple Fritter. I
try, but I am not very successful with that as
yet.
I’ve been working for years on ways in which
to trick her into believing that Apple Fritters
are healthy for you. But to date, I’ve not been
very successful, but I haven’t stopped trying.
I will work on it, and in the meantime, I will
indulge in my coffee.
Everybody has a taste for something. I was reminded
of what the Bible said along this line.
“O taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed
is the man that trusteth in him” (Psalm 34:8).
When it comes to my spiritual taste, I need
to focus on God. My experience with God
makes my life the joy that it is.
Dr. James L. Snyder lives in Ocala, FL with
the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage. Telephone
1-352-216-3025, e-mail jamessnyder51@
gmail.com, website www.jamessnyderministries.
com.
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