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Mountain Views-News Saturday, October 29, 2022
Specializing in Placing
Seniors in Assisted Living and
Memory Care Communities
ASSISTED LIVING OR NURSING
HOME?
There are many myths about Assisted
Living being like Nursing Homes.
This is not true at all. Nursing facilities
are for those with chronic health
issues who require care around the
clock from medical professionals.
In Assisted Living, one will get the support as needed, such as getting help with showering, grooming,
and dressing. Again, these services are based on the seniors needs.
There are many reasons in working with us. At Safe Path for Seniors, we will assess the senior and
depending on their care needs and budget, make recommendations. For example, we may suggest
that the right fit is a Board and Care Home (normally a 6-bedroom house) as opposed to an Assisted
Living Community or a Memory Support Facility. You will work with an experienced agent who
knows the industry well and will give you recommendations. The good news is that there is no
cost for this service.
If you have any questions about placing a loved one, visit www.safepathforseniors.com or call Steve
at 626-999-6913
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS*
Janda Ferris, Darlene Traxler, Margit Johnson, Sole Krieg, Dick Anderson,
Eva Poet, Mary Jane Baker, Dixie Coutant, Jill Franks, Cathleen Cremins,
Darlene Crook, Susan Gallagher, Maggie Ellis, Gloria Giersbach, Ellen
O’Leary, Jenny Piangenti, Anita Thompson, Linda Boehm and Angela
Stella * To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at
626.355.2737. YEAR of birth not required
SIERRA MADRE SENIOR CLUB Every Saturday from 11:30am-3:30 pm in the Hart
Park House Senior Center. Join us as we celebrate birthdays, holidays and play BINGO.
Must be 50+ to join. For more information call Mark at 626-355-3951.
DOMINOES TRAIN GAME 1st and 3rd Wednesdays, 11:00 am— 12:30 pm Hart Park
House The object of the game is for a player to play all the tiles from their hand onto one or
more trains, emanating from a central hub or “station”. Call Lawren with questions that you
may have.
PAINT PALS
Thursday, 10/13 10:30 am—Hart Park House If you enjoy painting, sketching, water color,
or making some other form of artistic creation please join our new program, PAINT PALS!!!
Bring a project that you are working on to the HPH and enjoy some quality art time with other
artists looking to paint with a new pal.
TEA AND TALK SENIOR BOOK CLUB Tuesday Oct. 12 and Oct. 26 — 9:00 am
Staff has launched a new book club series, Tea and Talk, which meets twice a month to discuss
the fun, suspense, intrigue, love and so much more that each selection will have in store!
FIBER FRIENDS Tuesday, 10/4 and 10/18 —10:00 am If you enjoy knitting, crocheting,
embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or cross stitch then we have a group for you!
Bring your current project, a nonalcoholic beverage, then sit and chat with likeminded fiber
friends. We meet in the Hart Park House
CHAIR YOGA Every Monday and Wednesday, 10-10:45 am Please join us for some gentle
stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall relaxation with Paul. Classes are ongoing and
held in the Memorial Park Covered Pavilion or the Hart Park House..
HULA AND POLYNESIAN DANCE Every Friday, 10-10:45 am Bring a lei, your flower
skirt or just your desire to dance! Hula in the Park is back and waiting for you to join in on all
the fun! Memorial Park Pavilion.
BLOOD PRESSURE CLINIC - Tuesday, Oct. 11 11:00 am - 12:00 pm
Methodist Hospital will be holding a free to seniors clinic once a month in the Hart Park
House. Walk in are welcome - no pre-registration required.
LOTERIA: Oct. 20 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Come down to the HPH (Hart Park House) for a lively round of Loteria (Mexican Bingo)
Prizes await!
OCTOBER CRAFT Tuesday, October 25 10:30am Hart Park House
Have you ever had interest in balloon art? Well you are in luck! Join Recreation Coordinator
Pardo as she instructs us on how to create a cat, bat or pumpkin balloon column. Space is limited
so please call or email Lawren to reserve your spot.
SENIOR CINEMA Wednesday, 10/12— 1:00 pm HUBIE HALLOWEEN PG-13 1h 43m
Good-natured but eccentric community volunteer Hubie Dubois finds himself at
the center of a real murder case on Halloween night. Despite his devotion to his
hometown of Salem, Massachusetts (and its legendary Halloween celebration).
Wednesday, 10/26 – Beginning at 1:00pm THE BIRDS PG 1h 59m
TOP FINANCIAL SCAMS TARGETING SENIORS TODAY
Dear Savvy Senior:
What are the most common scams today that target
elderly seniors? My 75-year-old mother has
been swindled several times over the past year, so
I’m being extra cautious. Paranoid Patty
Dear Patty:
Great question! While many scams today are universal,
there are certain types of fraud that specifically target older adults or affects them disproportionately.
And unfortunately, these senior targeted scams are on the rise.
According to the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), in 2021 there were 92,371 older victims
of fraud resulting in $1.7 billion in losses. This was a 74 percent increase in losses compared to
2020.
Here are five of the most common senior scams that were reported last year, that both you and
your mom should be aware of.
Government imposter scams: These are fraudulent telephone calls from people claiming to be
from the Internal Revenue Service, Social Security Administration or Medicare. These scammers
may falsely tell you that you have unpaid taxes and threaten arrest or deportation if you
don’t pay up immediately. Or they may say your Social Security or Medicare benefits are in danger
of being cut off if you don’t provide personal identifying information. They may even “spoof”
your caller ID to make it look like the government is actually calling.
Sweepstakes and lottery scams: These scams may contact you by phone, mail or email. They tell
you that you’ve won or have the potential to win a jackpot. But you need to pay a fee, or cover
taxes and processing fees to receive your prize, perhaps by prepaid debit card, wire transfer,
money order or cash. Scammers may even impersonate well-known sweepstakes organizations,
like Publishers Clearing House, to fool you.
Robocalls and phone scam: Robocalls take advantage of sophisticated, automated phone technology
to carry out a variety of scams on trusting older adults who answer the phone. Some
robocalls may claim that a warranty is expiring on their car or electronic device, and payment is
needed to renew it. These scammers may also “spoof” the number to make the call look authentic.
One common robocall is the “Can you hear me?” call. When the older person says “yes,” the
scammer records their voice and hangs up. The criminal then has a voice signature to authorize
unwanted charges on items like stolen credit cards.
Computer tech support scams: Theses scams prey on senior’s lack of knowledge about computers
and cybersecurity. A pop-up message or blank screen usually appears on a computer or phone,
telling you that your device is compromised and needs fixing. When you call the support number
for help, the scammer may either request remote access to your computer and/or that you
pay a fee to have it repaired.
Grandparent scam: The grandparent scam has been around for several years now. A scammer
will call and say something along the lines of: “Hi Grandma, do you know who this is?” When
the unsuspecting grandparent guesses the name of the grandchild the scammer most sounds
like, the scammer has established a fake identity.
The fake grandchild will then ask for money to solve some unexpected financial problem (legal
trouble, overdue rent, car repairs, etc.), to be paid via gift cards or money transfers, which don’t
always require identification to collect.
Other Scams
Some other popular scams targeting older adults right now are romance scams through social
media and online dating sites, COVID-19 scams, investment scams, Medicare and health insurance
scams, and Internet and email fraud.
For more information on the different types senior scams to watch out for, along with tips to help
your mom protect herself, visit the National Council on Aging website at NCOA.org, and type in
“the top 5 financial scams targeting older adults” in the search bar.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.
org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior”
book.
SPECIAL MEDICARE PRESENTATION NEW DATE! Thursday 10/20, 9:00 am-
10:00 am Hart Park House Please join Duarte Councilmember Vihn for
a Medicare presentation. Pastries and coffee will be served during this informative
presentation. Space is limited, call Lawren to reserve your spot.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
I DIDN'T DO IT MY WAY
I don’t think I’ve learned
very much during my life. I
just bounce from day to day
and take what comes.
The one thing I did learn as I look back is, for
the most part, I didn’t do it my way.
Remember Frank Sinatra and his song, “I
Did It My Way?” I would have liked to ask
him, how’s that been working for you?
Whenever we do everything our way, there is
a consequence.
You know what they say that for every action,
there is a consequence. By the time the consequence
hits you in the face, it’s too late to
make any changes.
When I ever did something “my way,” it never
really worked out.
The other day as I was meditating on this,
I thought of how smart I was when I was a
teenager. I knew everything; all you had to
do was ask me. Sometimes you didn’t even
have to ask. I was ready to give my opinion
at any time.
If only I were a smart as I thought I was when
I was a teenager, everything would be gloriously
wonderful. The problem is, I’m not.
I have learned that I don’t have to have everything
my way. That was the first thing I
learned as a husband. If I get everything my
way, somebody in the house is not happy.
As long as I have been with the Gracious
Mistress of the Parsonage, she is the only one
I know that gets things done her way. Not in a
bullying manner, she just seems to know the
right thing to do at the right time.
I, on the other hand, cannot even tell time.
Thinking along this line, a memory flashed
back. I remember rushing my wife to the
hospital to deliver our first baby. I’m not sure
who was more nervous, the mother or the expected
father.
We got there, and she was escorted back to
the delivery room where they would deliver
the baby. I paced the lobby, not knowing exactly
what I should be doing.
Several hours went by, and I heard nothing
concerning the birth of our baby. If I only
had my way, I would go back there and see
for myself.
Just then, the nurse that took my wife back
into the delivery room came out, and I approached
her and said, “Can I go and see my
wife and baby now?”
After all, I was the father, and I was paying
the bill for this baby.
The nurse, who looked like she had just gone
through World War II, glared at me and, with
a very rough voice, said, “No, you’re not going
back there. After all, you’re the one that’s
responsible for all of this.”
I did not know what she meant or what she
was talking about?
There was not anything I could do but continue
waiting. As I sat in the waiting room, I
thought, she ought to be very, very, very glad
that I was not doing it my way. My way would
have been very nasty and ugly for her.
I let that nurse do it her way because she was
not significant in my life. For me to let her
have it her way did not in any way harm me.
I just had to wait a little longer.
Finally, I had the opportunity to go back and
see my wife and our first baby. That took
away all my memories, at the time, of that
nasty nurse who wanted to do everything her
way.
I was glad I didn’t do it my way.
On many occasions, I have wanted to give
people a piece of my mind to do it my way.
Unfortunately, I have run out of pieces of
mind. For all things considered, it has turned
out to be a good thing.
Many times through life, I allowed the Gracious
Mistress of the Parsonage to have it her
way. Most of the time, her way was the right
way. If I would’ve stepped in to do it my way,
we would be in a lot of trouble today.
There have been some very wonderful times
when her way did not work, and if I would
have had my way, things might not have
turned out better. But I chose the high road
and let her have her way.
Only a few times in my life have I been right,
and she has been wrong. I choose not to identify
those times for various reasons.
Every once in a while, I sit back and think
about a few times when I have been right but
did not step up to interfere in the situation.
That always causes me to chuckle.
The other night I was chuckling as I was
thinking of one in particular, which I cannot
disclose, when my wife said, “What are you
chuckling about?”
“Oh,” I said, “I was just thinking about a
joke.”
“And, what joke was that,” she asked?
“Why was 6 afraid of 7? Because 7, 8, 9.”
As I sat back in my chair, a verse of Scripture
came to mind. “Submitting yourselves one to
another in the fear of God” (Ephesians 5:21).
Some of my happiest times in life are when
I’m not doing anything my way. Giving
someone else the privilege of doing it their
way is a very satisfying thing.
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