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ASSISTED LIVING OR NURSING HOME?
There are many myths about Assisted Living being like
Nursing Homes. This is not true at all. Nursing facilities
are for those with chronic health issues who require care
around the clock from medical professionals.
In Assisted Living, one will get the support as needed,
such as getting help with showering, grooming, and
dressing. Again, these services are based on the seniors
needs.
There are many reasons in working with us. At Safe Path
for Seniors, we will assess the senior and depending on their care needs and budget, make recommendations.
For example, we may suggest that the right fit is a Board and Care Home (normally a 6-bedroom house) as
opposed to an Assisted Living Community or a Memory Support Facility. You will work with an experienced
agent who
knows the industry well and will give you recommendations. The good news is that there is no cost for this
service.
If you have any questions about placing a loved one, visit www.safepathforseniors.com or call Steve at
626-999-6913
TOP FINANCIAL SCAMS TARGETING SENIORS TODAY
Dear Savvy Senior:
What are the most common scams today that target
elderly seniors? My 75-year-old mother has been
swindled several times over the past year, so I’m being
extra cautious. Paranoid Patty
Dear Patty:
Great question! While many scams today are universal,
there are certain types of fraud that specifically
target older adults or affects them disproportionately.
And unfortunately, these senior targeted
scams are on the rise.
According to the Federal Bureau of Investigation
(FBI), in 2021 there were 92,371 older victims of
fraud resulting in $1.7 billion in losses. This was a
74 percent increase in losses compared to 2020.
Here are five of the most common senior scams
that were reported last year, that both you and your
mom should be aware of.
Government imposter scams: These are fraudulent
telephone calls from people claiming to be from the
Internal Revenue Service, Social Security Administration
or Medicare. These scammers may falsely
tell you that you have unpaid taxes and threaten arrest
or deportation if you don’t pay up immediately.
Or they may say your Social Security or Medicare
benefits are in danger of being cut off if you don’t
provide personal identifying information. They
may even “spoof” your caller ID to make it look like
the government is actually calling.
Sweepstakes and lottery scams: These scams may
contact you by phone, mail or email. They tell you
that you’ve won or have the potential to win a jackpot.
But you need to pay a fee, or cover taxes and
processing fees to receive your prize, perhaps by
prepaid debit card, wire transfer, money order or
cash. Scammers may even impersonate well-known
sweepstakes organizations, like Publishers Clearing
House, to fool you.
Robocalls and phone scam: Robocalls take advantage
of sophisticated, automated phone technologyto carry out a variety of scams on trusting older
adults who answer the phone. Some robocalls may
claim that a warranty is expiring on their car or
electronic device, and payment is needed to renew
it. These scammers may also “spoof” the number to
make the call look authentic.
One common robocall is the “Can you hear me?”
When it comes to
estate planning and
wills, you have a variety
of options for legal
documents. The most
common of these options
is a “last will and
testament,” which is
also known simply as
a “will.” But you may
have also heard people
talk about a “living will” and wonder what that is,
and whether you need a living will in addition to a
regular last will and testament.
Both terms describe important legal documents
used in estate planning, but their purpose and
function differ significantly. In this article, we will
review some of the most critical things you need
to know about living wills and why having a living
will is essential to every adult’s estate plan. And it
may be that a living will is even more important
than a last will and testament.
What Is a Living Will?
A living will, also called an advance healthcare
directive, is a legal document that tells your loved
ones and doctors how you would want your medical
care handled if you become incapacitated and
cannot make such decisions yourself, particularly
at the end of life. Specifically, a living will outlines
the procedures, medications, and treatments
you would want and would not want if you cannot
make such decisions yourself.
For example, within the terms of your living will,
you can articulate certain decisions, such as if and
when you would want life support removed should
you ever require it and whether you would want
hydration and nutrition supplied to prolong your
life.
Beyond instructions about your medical care, a living
will can even describe what type of food you
want and who can visit you in the hospital. These
are critical considerations for your well-being at a
time of greatest need for you. And if you haven’t
provided any specific instructions, decisions will
be made on your behalf that may not be what you
want.
Living Will vs. Last Will and Testament
Upon death, a last will and testament ensure your
assets are distributed as you choose. Note that your
last will only deals with your assets and only operates
upon your death. In contrast, a living will is
about you, not your assets. And it operates in the
event of your incapacity, not your death.
In other words, a last will tells others what you
want to happen to your wealth and property after
you die, while a living will tells others how you
want your medical treatment managed while you
are still alive. And that’s really important for you
and your care!
call. When the older person says “yes,” the scammer
records their voice and hangs up. The criminal
then has a voice signature to authorize unwanted
charges on items like stolen credit cards.
Computer tech support scams: Theses scams prey
on senior’s lack of knowledge about computers and
cybersecurity. A pop-up message or blank screen
usually appears on a computer or phone, telling
you that your device is compromised and needs
fixing. When you call the support number for help,
the scammer may either request remote access to
your computer and/or that you pay a fee to have it
repaired.
Grandparent scam: The grandparent scam has been
around for several years now. A scammer will call
and say something along the lines of: “Hi Grandma,
do you know who this is?” When the unsuspecting
grandparent guesses the name of the grandchild
the scammer most sounds like, the scammer has
established a fake identity.
The fake grandchild will then ask for money to
solve some unexpected financial problem (legal
trouble, overdue rent, car repairs, etc.), to be paid
via gift cards or money transfers, which don’t always
require identification to collect.
Other Scams
Some other popular scams targeting older adults
right now are romance scams through social media
and online dating sites, COVID-19 scams, investment
scams, Medicare and health insurance scams,
and Internet and email fraud.
For more information on the different types senior
scams to watch out for, along with tips to help your
mom protect herself, visit the National Council
on Aging website at NCOA.org, and type in “the
top 5 financial scams targeting older adults” in the
search bar.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box
5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org.
Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show
and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.
FAMILY MATTERS
By Marc Garlett
WHY EVERY ADULT NEEDS A LIVING WILL
Living Will vs. Medical Power of Attorney
Medical power of attorney is the part of an advance
healthcare directive that allows you to name a person,
known as your “agent,” to make healthcare decisions
for you if you are incapacitated and unable
to make those decisions yourself.
Simply put, medical power of attorney names those
who can make medical decisions on your behalf
in the event of your incapacity, while a living will
explains how you would want your medical care
handled during your incapacity.
Why Having a Living Will Is So Important
A living will is a vital part of every adult’s estate
plan, as it can ensure your medical treatment is
handled exactly the way you want if you cannot
communicate your needs and wishes. Additionally,
a living will can prevent your family from undergoing
needless trauma and conflict during an
already trying time.
Without a living will, your family would have to
guess what treatments you might want – or not
want, and your loved ones are likely to experience
stress and guilt over the decisions they make on
your behalf. In worst cases, your family members
could even end up battling one another in court
over who should manage your medical care and
how.
Should You Rely on A Living Will Created Online?
While there is a wide selection of living wills, medical
power of attorney, and other advance directive
documents online, you likely want more guidance
and peace of mind than is available through an on-
line service to support you to address such critical
decisions adequately. Regarding your medical
treatment and end-of-life care, you have unique
needs and wishes that cannot be anticipated or
adequately addressed by generic documents or
without the counseling and guidance a trusted attorney
can provide through your decision-making
process.
To ensure your directives are tailored to suit your
unique situation, work with an experienced estate
planning professional to support you to create and/
or review your living will.
To your health, wealth, and family legacy,
Marc Garlett, Esq.
Cali Law Family Legacy Matterswww.caliLaw.com
626.355.4000
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …JANUARY BIRTHDAYS*
Gerald Day, Mary Tassop, Judy Webb-Martin, John Johnson,
Mary Bickel, Marlene Enmark, Shirley Wolf, Ross Kellock, Ruth
Wolter, Sandy Thistlewaite, Bobbi Rahmanian, Fran Syverson,
Judy Zaretzka and Becky Evans. * To add your name to this
distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737. YEAR of
birth not required
DOMINOES TRAIN GAME
1st & 3rd Wednesdays 11:00 am— 12:30 pm Hart Park House
The object of the game is for a player to play all the tiles from their hand onto one or
more trains, emanating from a central hub or “station”. Call Lawren with questions that
you may have.
TEA AND TALK BOOK CLUB
Tuesday, 1/11 & 1/25 9:00 am Hart Park House
Staff has launched a new book club series, Tea and Talk, which meets twice a month
to discuss the fun, suspense, intrigue, love and so much more that each selection will
have in store!
FIBER FRIENDs
Tuesday, 1/17 10:00 am Hart Park House
If you enjoy knitting, crocheting, embroidery, needlepoint, bunka, huck, tatting or
cross stitch then we have a group for you! Bring your current project, sit and chat
with like-minded fiber friends.
HULA AND POLYNESIAN DANCE
Every Friday 10-10:45 am
Bring a lei, your flower skirt or just your desire to dance! Hula in the Park is back
and waiting for you to join in on all the fun! Memorial Park Pavilion.
CHAIR YOGA
Every Monday and Wednesday 10-10:45 am
Please join us for some gentle stretching, yoga, balance exercise and overall relaxation
with Paul. Classes are ongoing and held in the Memorial Park Covered Pavilion
or the Hart Park House.
BINGO
Thursday, 1/19 Hart Park House 1:00 pm-2:00 pm
Please join in a fun and lively game of BINGO. Several rounds fun will be had with
prizes for each rounds winner.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
WHAT WOULD MY LIFE BE WITHOUT A COOKIE?
This past week was about as crazy as they get. When I think it can't get any
crazier, somebody hears me and makes it crazier just for me.
One morning I had to go across town to get some office supplies and other things. I try to ensure
that when I go, it's for several things, not just one.
The traffic was somewhat crazy. Everybody was driving as though trying to escape some danger
behind them. I don't like it when the traffic gets like this. I'm not sure why people drive the
way they drive.
I must say, one of the craziest drivers seemed to be somewhat religious. He stuck his hand
out the window and pointed toward heaven. Unfortunately, he got the wrong finger. It's the
thought that counts.
Hearing a roaring noise behind me; I looked in my rearview mirror and saw a little red convertible
zooming up past me, and behind the steering wheel was an older man looking like my
grandfather. He had the biggest smile as he was roared past me. I guess he was living out his
teenage years be-fore he died, which could be soon.
Then there was a motorcycle zinging in and out and crossing the double line several times, and
he whizzed by me, laughing like he was having the time of his life.
Carefully driving home to avoid getting hit, I began to think about this. Where do these people
get their driver's licenses? Perhaps it's an online service, and they don't have to take any driving
test. So I would like to get a hold of the person that gave them a driver's license, and shake my
finger in his face.
Then I asked myself, who in the world sold a vehicle to these people?
Before I got home, I passed an accident along the way. I guess people don't know that there's a
consequence in driving like an idiot. So again, where do idiots get driver's licenses?
The fact that I got home without any accident was a real blessing.
I was frustrated with all the nonsense on the highways. I come from Pennsylvania, and the
most traffic is horse and buggy. So what would it be like if all vehicles, both gas and electric,
were banned in our country and everybody had to drive a horse and buggy?
It ain't ever going to happen, but it was at least worth thinking about, as nervous as I felt at the
time.
I finally arrived home, parked my vehicle, and went inside. The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage
met me as I walked in and said, "What happened? You look terrible."
Well, I did look in the mirror that morning, so I did look terrible, but that wasn't what she
meant.
I told her about all the crazy drivers I had to deal with driving across town.
"Who," I said to her most frantically, "gave these people a driver’s license?"
She looked at me sympathetically and smiled.
Then I said, "Who in the world sold them a vehicle thinking they could drive?"
She knew I was frustrated and tense with all of this nonsense on the road.
It wasn't anything new, but sometimes things have a way of building up.
I went into the living room, sat in my easy chair, and decided to watch a little TV to calm my
nerves. I'm not sure what I was watching; I just wanted to take some time and unwind from
the crazy day I had.
Then, The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage brought me a nice hot cup of coffee.
"Here," she said. "Maybe this will calm you down a little."
I smiled and thanked her because nothing calms me down like a nice hot cup of coffee. Whoever
invented coffee should get a Nobel Peace Prize.
I took one sip, and I could feel my nerves starting to unravel. How I love a cup of coffee!
Then, The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage did something unexpected. She came in and
brought me some cookies. "Here, these cookies may help you calm down a little more."
She handed me not one but two cookies. This was something that had never happened in my
life before.
I sat in my chair, sipped some more coffee, and then gently smelled those cookies. That morning
my wife was making cookies for somebody, so the kitchen was full of the cookie aroma.
Walking in, I was so stressed that I did not smell those cookies.
The aroma of that cookie seemed to fill me with good vibes, like it was 1969.
I took one bite and began slowly and delicately munching on that cookie. Nothing so wonderful
in all the world as a freshly baked cookie. So I leaned back, closed my eyes, and enjoyed
that cookie.
In no time, the first cookie was gone. Then I picked up the second cookie, looked at it with
admiration, and began nibbling it.
As I was chewing that cookie, I thought to myself, what would life be without cookies?
In a rather relaxed mode, I remembered what the apostle Paul said. “The Lord give mercy
unto the house of Onesiphorus; for he oft refreshed me, and was not ashamed of my chain” (2
Timothy 1:16).
It’s amazing how God sends people into our lives to refresh us when we seem to be under some
kind of stress.
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