
Mountain View News Saturday, July 11, 2026
99THE GOOD LIFETHE GOOD LIFE Mountain View News Saturday, July 11, 2026
99THE GOOD LIFETHE GOOD LIFE
StayingConnected: WhySocial Wellness
Matters for Seniors
As we age, it's easy to focus on physical health—
doctor visits, medications, and exercise—but
one of the most important parts of healthyaging is often overlooked: staying sociallyconnected.
Research has consistently shown that seniorswho maintain strong social relationships tend
to live longer, experience less depression, and
even have a lower risk of cognitive decline. Whether it's aweekly lunch with friends, attending church, joining a seniorcenter, or simply making a phone call to a family member,
those connections make a real difference.
Summer is the perfect time to reconnect. Community events,
outdoor concerts, farmer's markets, and family gatheringsoffer wonderful opportunities to get out of the house andenjoy the company of others. Even if mobility is limited,
technology can help bridge the gap through video calls, socialmedia, or virtual activities.
For family members, remember that your time is one of thegreatest gifts you can give. A short visit, helping with errands,
or inviting an older loved one to dinner can brighten their entire week.
If you're a senior living alone, consider trying something new. Many local libraries, community centers, and faith-
based organizations offer free activities designed specifically for older adults. Volunteering is another excellent way tomeet people while giving back to your community.
Social wellness isn't about having dozens of friends—it's about having meaningful connections that provide support,
laughter, and a sense of belonging.
At Safe Path for Seniors, we see every day how important those relationships are. Finding the right living environmentisn't just about safety and care; it's also about finding a place where seniors can build friendships, participate inactivities, and continue enjoying life.
This week, challenge yourself to make one connection. Call an old friend, visit a neighbor, or attend a local event. Oneconversation could make all the difference—not just for someone else, but for you as well.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
IS CRAZY CONTAGIOUS?
Getting into trouble seems to
be an ongoing habit of mine. It
doesn't matter what the trouble
is at the time; it somehow
associates itself with me.
Whenever I think I'm perfect and everything is
going fine, I’m set up for something to go horribly
wrong. Believe me, it happens to me all the time. If
I could accept the fact that I'm not perfect, maybe
my life would be just a little bit better. I’m working
on that.
Every once in a while, The Gracious Mistress of the
Parsonage will say to me, "Are you crazy?"
The fact that she asks that question indicates that
she doesn't really know the answer. Of course, I
always answer in the negative. When I do, she looks
at me, shakes her head, and walks away.
After all these years (we will celebrate our 55th
wedding anniversary this year) she doesn't reallyknow if I'm crazy or not. I'll give her another 55
years to figure that one out.
The other day, I began thinking about this idea of
being crazy. I'm not quite sure I understand what
"crazy" means, and I'm not going to look it up in the
dictionary because you can't believe everything you
read in that dictionary. At least I can't.
I began thinking of my relatives all the way back to
my great-grandmother. We used to have yearly gettogethers,
but that seems to have passed. I began
thinking about those relatives of mine and realized
that some of them actually were crazy.
I got up from my chair, went over to my library and
pulled out my family photo album. I sat down and
began to look through my album. I haven't done this
in quite a few years, so I had forgotten a lot about
my relatives. I looked at them and began to think
about them and what I remembered about them.
The more I looked through my photo album, the
more I saw that some of my relatives were actually
crazy. There is no way I would have to ask them,
"Are you crazy?" I knew they were crazy and
remembered some of the evidence that proved it.
As I was looking at these photos, I was chuckling
and sometimes even laughing aloud, and then The
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage walked by. She
looked at me and said, "What are you laughing
about?"
I looked up and said, "Remember the other day
when you asked if I was crazy?"
She nodded her head and said, "Yes, I remember
that and I'm still asking that question today."
Looking at her, I laughed some more. I said to
her, "After looking at the photo album of myfamily I have come to the conclusion that crazy is
contagious."
Then I showed her a couple of photos of one of my
cousins and said, "This cousin is the model of what
crazy is all about." Then I told her the story of that
cousin and all of the crazy things he did back in "the
day."
As I was explaining to her, she finally said, "Well,
that sure does explain a lot of things."
I went on to show her other pictures of my relatives
and told their stories and how crazy they really
were, from my point of view. Although she did not
know all of my relatives, she began to understand
why I was so crazy.
"So," The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage said,
"when will this contagious craziness stop? With
you?"
Thinking about that was a very serious consideration
for me. Am I going to be the last of the craziness in
my family, or will I pass it on to my children and
grandchildren?
I looked at her and said, "Well, my dear, you married
crazy I didn't."
"I know I did,” she replied, “but at the time I didn't
think it was so contagious."
Both of us laughed, realizing that craziness is quite
contagious and runs in my family. It is impossible
for one relative in a family to be crazy and not pass
it on.
For a moment, I thought about asking about her
family and whether there were any crazy people in
it. However, I did not want to jinx my day. From my
casual observation, a few of her relatives, includingher siblings, showed signs of being crazy. I sure did
not want to walk down that path of thorns.
I guess being crazy is inherited and in some cases,
craziness is contagious among the people around.
My primary agenda in life is to use mycraziness to my benefit. I'm not just going to be
crazy and let it go. Rather, I'm going to use it to
profit in any way I can. I can't profit from myintelligence, which isn’t there, but I can profit
from my craziness, which is there.
I'm not sure what that means, but I'll spend
some time figuring it out and not waste any
time.
I thought of some scripture along this line. “See
then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools,
but as wise, Redeeming the time, because the
days are evil” (Ephesians 5:15-16).
This doesn’t come automatically, I need to
discipline myself along this line The world
is not on my side, it only contributes to mycraziness. I’m going to trust God each day to
walk in God’s wisdom in such a way that He is
pleased.
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MEDICAL BILLS
CAN OVERWHELM
ANYONE, EVEN
PEOPLE WHO
ONCE HAD HEALTH
INSURANCE. LEARN
HOW TO REDUCE
WHAT YOU OWE, FIND FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE AND
NEGOTIATE AFFORDABLE PAYMENT OPTIONS.
Dear Savvy Senior,
I’m 63 and recently had a hospital stay that left me with bills I can’t afford to pay. I had
Affordable Care Act health insurance, but after my premiums went up in January, I had to
drop my coverage. Now I’m overwhelmed by medical bills. What can I do?
–Struggling Patient
Dear Struggling,
You’re definitely not alone. Medical debt is very common. About 1 in 12 Americans are
dealing with it, and many had insurance when the bills started piling up. The good news
is there are ways to reduce what you owe and make it more manageable. Here are some
steps that can help.
Check your billsMedical billing errors are more common than you might think, so start by taking a
close look at every bill and explanation of benefits you receive. Watch for duplicate
charges, services you did not receive or prices that seem off.
If something does not look right, call your provider’s billing office and ask for an
itemized bill. Do not be shy about asking questions. Even small mistakes can add up.
Ask about helpMost hospitals, especially nonprofit ones, are required to offer financial assistance
programs, often called charity care. Depending on your income, you may qualify to
have part or even all of your bill forgiven.
Call the hospital billing office and ask specifically about financial assistance. You can
also visit DollarFor.org, a nonprofit that helps patients apply for charity care programs
at no cost.
Negotiate costsIf you do not qualify for assistance, you still have options. Many hospitals and doctors
are willing to work with patients, especially if you reach out early.
Ask if they can lower the bill or offer a discount if you can pay something upfront. You
can also request a no interest payment plan to spread the cost out over time. If this feels
overwhelming, a medical billing advocate can help. The Alliance of Professional Health
Advocates can connect you with professionals who review bills and negotiate on your
behalf.
Find programsSince you recently lost coverage, it is also worth checking whether you qualify for
Medicaid, especially if your income has dropped. You can apply through Healthcare.
gov or your state Medicaid office.
Another helpful tool is BenefitsCheckUp.org, from the National Council on Aging,
which can point you to programs that help lower health care and prescription costs.
Get supportYou do not have to handle this on your own. There are several trusted organizations
that offer free or low-cost help. The Patient Advocate Foundation provides case
management services and can help you find financial assistance. The National
Foundation for Credit Counseling offers nonprofit credit counseling and guidance on
managing debt. You can also visit NeedyMeds.org to locate programs that can helplower the cost of prescriptions and other medical expenses.
The most important thing is to act sooner rather than later. Ignoring medical bills can
lead to collections and added stress, but many providers are willing to work with you
if you reach out.
Start by reviewing your bills, then explore assistance programs and payment options.
With some persistence, you can often lower what you owe and set up a plan that fits
your budget. Medical debt is common, even among people who had insurance, but it
is often negotiable, and there are real resources available to help you through it.
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