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3 Mountain View News Saturday, December 10, 2016 Walking Sierra Madre…The Social Side by Deanne Davis “People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime...” A delightful person came into my life about a year and a half ago, Elaine Holmgren, the mother of my son-in-law, Chuck, married to our oldest daughter, Leah. Elaine had been living in Lewiston, Idaho but it was getting to be too much for her, after all, she was 92! Chuck arranged for his mom to move into the beautiful new Kensington Retirement and Assisted Living facility here in Sierra Madre, where she had a lovely room overlooking an outdoor patio with gardens in every direction. I had met her several years ago, but now she was in Sierra Madre to stay. We met again right around Elaine’s 93rd birthday, which was one day after my birthday. We realized immediately we were going to be best friends. And we were. I would drop in to the Kensington for Happy Hour at 4:00 for a glass of wine while an excellent pianist played songs we actually recognized, or a violinist might be playing show tunes, or we’d just sit and chat in her quiet, peaceful room. Elaine loved to read and, frequently, that’s what she would be doing when I arrived. Our best times, though, were our special outings. We would go, every now and then to the Cheesecake Factory for cheesecake and champagne. If you have not tried cheesecake and champagne, you are missing out. Elaine was partial to the Salted Caramel cheesecake and as soon as pumpkin season started, we were all pumpkin all the time. Pumpkin cheesecake is so good it’s slightly immoral. We would tour the town, look at everybody’s gardens and trees, bemoan the lack of water and sad appearance of many of our trees. We would talk about our families, our parents, our children, incidents from our past where we might have done better. Elaine loved to talk about her mother, who, I do believe, was a mix of Wonder Woman and the best Presbyterian church member ever. Elaine had great stories of her youth and her mother’s exploits. She always thought of herself as a Californian as her dad, John Good, grew up in Northern California. He survived the 1906 earthquake and earned his pharmacy degree from UC Berkley. Elaine’s parents met when her adventuresome mother visited San Francisco for the 1915 Panama-Pacific Exposition. Some time after their 1916 marriage, Elaine’s mother longed for home and the couple moved to Indiana. Elaine was born at the Galbreath family farm in Collamer, Indiana, in the same room where her mother was born 32 years earlier, and where her daughter, Diane, would be born 22 years later. Around the beginning of the Great Depression, her mother would fearlessly take her four children, Elaine being the 3rd child, only girl and about 8 at the time, on long road trips to see the country while her dad stayed home and worked. These were true adventure trips as they “car camped” and dined on the healthy stews her mom created in the pressure cooker pot she had had welded to the engine block of their car, visiting campsites and Presbyterian or Methodist churches. Elaine married young and there were three children from that union, our son-in-law, Chuck, sister, Diane, and brother, Philip. Not the happiest marriage but some years later after it ended, she met Myron Holmgren and they spent 30 wonderful years together, “mostly playing,” as she put it. They loved to ski, bought property in Mesa, Colorado, near a ski resort and built a beautiful home there, moving on to Prescott, Arizona when the altitude became uncomfortable for Myron, then on to Santa Rosa, California, eventually ending in Lewiston, Idaho. Elaine thoroughly enjoyed the Halloween scarecrow contest here in town. We would tour the scarecrows and the amazing pumpkin creations by our neighbors and be astonished by the creativity on display. We looked and laughed and had a great time. While she was in residence at the Kensington, she had a steady stream of visitors: her children, their families, Myron’s children, Mark and Rennie, who absolutely adored her, and many other friends. Every time I appeared where she was, Elaine would greet me with an enthusiastic, “Sweetie!!” and was always glad to see me. Elaine was in my life for a reason, to make us both laugh a lot and enjoy a little champagne from time to time. Her season with me was not nearly long enough as she left us very early November 13th. She was a joy to me for such a short time. I would have liked more cheesecake dates. If someone is in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, take time to go have a little champagne and cheesecake with them, or a cup of tea and a muffin. But enjoy them, my friends, enjoy them. “Millions of people gave their lives fighting fascism and imperialism, but Pearl Harbor was the event that forever changed the course of human history.” Sam Graves The 75th Anniversary of Pearl Harbor was last Wednesday, “A date which will live in infamy.” My book page: Amazon.com: Deanne Davis Blog: www.authordeanne.com “A Tablespoon of Love, A Tablespoon of Laughter” is available from me! Kindle readers, give yourself the gift of Star of Wonder – A Christmas Story It’s on Amazon.com on my book page! Follow me on Twitter, too! https://twitter.com/@ playwrightdd RISE OF THE ROCKET GIRLS IS SIERRA MADRE’S ONE BOOK ONE CITY CHOICE Rise of the Rocket Girls: The Women Who Propelled Us, from Missiles to the Moon to Mars by Nathalia Holt is the February 2017 choice for the One Book One City (OBOC) Program sponsored by the Sierra Madre Public Library. Rise of the Rocket Girls is the true story of the women who helped launch America into space. In the 1940s and 1950s, when the new Jet Propulsion Laboratory needed mathematicians, they recruited a group of young women who transformed rocket design, helped bring about the first American satellites, and made the exploration of the solar system possible. Meet Holt on Saturday, February 25th at 7:00 pm in the Sierra Madre Elementary School auditorium when she talks about her book. Her talk is the grand finale of the annual OBOC Program. Other sensational events include: Wednesday, February 1st, 7:00 pm – Dr. Steve Cornford, Senior Engineer in the Strategic Systems Office at NASA/JPL/Caltech. Cornford has been part of the conception, design, building and testing of a number of spacecraft and their components. Thursday, February 2nd, all afternoon – Children’s Walk-In Craft. Build a rocket and launch at the Library. Saturday, February 4th at 3:00 pm - Saturday afternoon movie: Iron Giant at the Library. Thursday, February 16th, 11:00 am - Third Thursday Book Club - Rise of the Rocket Girls. Drop in for a lively discussion at the Third Thursday Book Club for adults. Thursday, February 16th, 4:00 pm - STEAM Club. Discovery Dome Planetarium for children. Spend an hour exploring space at the Community Recreation Center. Space is limited; registrations begin February 1. Thursday, February 16th, 5:00 - Discovery Dome Planetarium for adults. Journey to Mars during this interactive program at the Community Recreation Center. Space is limited; registration begins February 1. Saturday, February 18th at 3:00 pm - Saturday afternoon movie: October Sky at the Library. Saturday, Feb. 25, at 7:00 pm - Nathalia Holt, in the Sierra Madre Elementary School Auditorium. Bestselling author Nathalia Holt, Ph.D. is a science writer and author of Cured: The People who Defeated HIV. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, The Atlantic, Slate, Popular Science, and Time Magazine. One Book One City is a community reading program that invites everyone to read and discuss the same book during a month of exciting free programs. Read, Discover, Connect @ Sierra Madre Public Library, 440 W. 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