Mountain View News Saturday, May 21, 2022
CHRISTOPHER Nyerges
CASSIUS GIFT
“The Greatness of a Nation can be determined by how its animals are
treated” – Ghandi
[This story is from Nyerges’ book, “Til Death Do Us Part?” his stories and
lessons about death, including how he held animal “faunerals.” The book is
available from Kindle, or www.SchoolofSelf-Reliance.com. Cassius Clay, or
Cassie, was Nyerges’ pet Staffordshire Terrier.]
I recently participated in an Animal Appreciation Day, where everyone talked
about how much they loved their pet dog or cat, and, how they conducted a “fauneral”
when the animal died.
I shared my many fond memories of Cassius Clay, my purple ribbon pure-bred Staffordshire
Terrier who was with me 17 years. I always thought that I was taking care of Cassius and
helping and saving Cassius in his last months – I had to carry him in and out, and was always
concerned about his welfare. In the end, I realize that Cassius was helping and saving me. He
instilled in me a sense of responsibility and caring that maybe I never had before.
When I talked about Cassius, I thought about his role in my life. I thought about how I tried
to see his dog pictures of the world, how he processes the many smells that he takes so long
each day to smell. When I attempted to go into his mind, like Beatrice Lydecker described
in her How I Talk to the Animals book, I “saw” a colorful, very dynamic image of flowing
geometric shapes that all moved like the wind in varying patterns, in a three-dimensional
complexity. To me, it was the complexity of odors that meant so much to Cassius, and verylittle to me.
Shortly after he died, I asked him to show me his picture, and I “saw” in front of my his bigface licking mine. He was telling me that he was happy, in peace, no pain and that I was OK.
I thought about Easter Day some years ago when Cassius died. Though he had had trouble
walking for weeks, he seemed OK in the morning. When I came home in the early evening, it
was dark and he was warm but I could not rouse him from his house, and when I pulled him
out, I knew it was over, even though I tried to bring him back. There was no music, no singing
of birds, just the quiet of the night and the final sounds of his dying body.
I realized as I thought back over my life with Cassius that his gift was his unconditional love.
And now that he was gone, I tried to sort out the meaning of that love. I have heard it said
that Eternal Life is synonymous with Eternal Love. That Eternal Love is also impersonal. It
is universal loving without concern for prejudice or opinion or preferences. It is doing what
is right, and not being concerned about my group, or my party, or my race, or my gender, or
my family. It is finding those ways of thinking, and of living, that exemplify the Golden Rule,
and Jesus’ command to “Love ye one another as ye love your self.” Which means we must love
our spiritual self, and see that every single one of us is the same.
Cassius taught me to be a better person. He taught me to see that only through impersonal
love can we ever find real meaning and harmony. Of course, I feel a personal love for Cassius,
and for other close people in my life. But now again, Cassius has made me realize that death
is inevitable, and personal love is full of pain and heartache and disappointment. Impersonal
loving is not focused exclusively towards one person or animal but is a way of thinking about
all life, including all animals. This was Cassius’s gift to me.
[Nyerges is the author of several books, including “Til Death Do Us Part?”, “Enter the Forest,”
and “How to Survive Anywhere.” He can be contacted via this paper, or www.SchoolofSelfReliance.
com.]
The Chef Knows By Peter Dills
WHAT DO THE STOCK MARKET AND PARKWAY GRILL
HAVE IN COMMON?
Well, one is consistent and the other is a rollercoaster.
Friend Jim Cascone and I had plans to taste wine at the local bottle
shop Thursday Night, are plans got interrupted so I decided to
revisit one of the most popular and well-respected restaurants in
Pasadena. The Parkway Grill has been awardeded-congragulated
-praised for over thirty years. For good reason is it has proven to be
very consistent, which has always been a formula for success.
Would Thursday’s night adventure pass the Peter Dills' test? Sure,
with flying Colors. Why is The Parkway Grill so successful, I believe
owners Gregg and Bob Smith will settle for nothing less. Am
I giving you a "homer" review? Nope!!! Paid for my own meal. Gregg was present at the
restaurant, a good sign.
But let's stick to the task at hand. On my Thursday visit, .....Seems that I have been here a
hundred times, I decided to sit in the bar for dinner I wanted to keep an eye on the local
talent in hopes that my luck on stocks wouldn’t interfere with a great meal and people watching.
My server/bartender was Mark and he gleefully handed me the dinner menu. After he
rattled off a few weekly specials, I opted to stick with the regular dinner menu. I started with
Parkway’s Caesar salad ahhh perfect, Caesar Cardina would be very proud!!! The Romaine
was prefect and the croutons were mixed correctly with the dressing. We are off to a very
good start. Second up, the Tiger Shrimp Corn Dogs, think hotdogs but a better stuffing!
My final choice the main course was the Chilean Sea Bass cooked perfectly and was a big
enough portion to share with my table (bar) mates. All in all two thumbs way up!!! ParkwayGrill always is a great choice and today's lunch was no different. Dessert? Forget about it!
I’m stuffed.
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LITTLE SNUGGLEBUGS
The cute tabby is Daniel
(or Danny boy as his
foster mom likes to call
him). She says that Daniel
is one of the sweetest
kittens she's ever had as
he likes to snuggle and
be held. Devon, all fluffy
gray, is not re-lated, but
they have been lovinglyhand raised together like brothers, so they will be adopted
together. Devon has tested early FIV+, which
might change to negative later on, but it's not an issue
as long as he's monitored, as you would with any cat.
Age 7 weeks. They’ll be ready for delivery by next month, after they're vetted, vaccinated,
and neu-tered. See more pictures and their cute video at www.lifelineforpets.org.
Submit your application now as they're sure to be in demand!
Pet of the Week
Five-year-old Gia is a sweet cat who’s friendly withpeople, other cats, and polite dogs. Gia is an easygoing
gal who would enjoy relaxing on the couchwith you and watching birds out the window. This
beautiful tabby has such a calm disposition andwould make a great addition to your family!
The adoption fee for cats is $100. All kittenadoptions include spay or neuter, microchip, and age-
appropriate vaccines.
New adopters will receive a complimentary healthand-
wellness exam from VCA Animal Hospitals, aswell as a goody bag filled with information about howto care for your pet.
View photos of adoptable pets and schedule an adoption appointment at pasadenahumane.
org. Adoptions are by appointment only, and new adoption appointments are availableevery Sunday and Wednesday at 10:00 a.m.
Pets may not be available for adoption and cannot be held for potential adopters byphone calls or email.
FREE FILMS AT SIERRA MADRE PLAYHOUSE: SAVING
FACE ON JUNE 1 AND CHINATOWN RISING ON JUNE 8
In connection with its current mainstage production, King of the Yees, Sierra
Madre Playhouse will present two FREE screenings of motion pictures: Saving Face
on Wednesday, June 1 at 7:00 p.m. and Chinatown Rising on Wednesday, June 8 at
7:00 p.m. Admission is FREE, but RSVP is required.
Admission is FREE thanks to a California Humanities Quick Grant.
Saving Face. Comedy/Romance. Written and directed by Alice Wu. Produced
by Will Smith, James Lassiter, Teddy Zee. From Sony Pictures Entertainment. (Color,
2004, USA, 91 minutes, rated R) Starring Michelle Krusiec, Joan Chen, Lynn Chen,
Jin Wang, Guang Lan Koh, Jessica Hecht. In Manhattan, the brilliant Chinese-American
lesbian surgeon Wil is surprised by the arrival of her forty-eight year old widow
mother to her apartment. Ma was banished from Flushing, Queens, when her father
discovered that she was pregnant. The presence of Ma affects the personal life of Wil,
who is in love with the daughter of her boss at the hospital, the dancer Vivian Shing.
Once her grandfather has promised that her mother would only return to Flushing
remarried or proving that it was an immaculate conception, Wil tries to find a Chinese
bachelor to marry Ma.
Winner- Golden Horse Film Festival; San Diego Asian Film Festival; San Francisco
International Asian American Film Festival.
“The picture is nicely cast….Joan Chen registers strongly as the unwed mom
caught between two generations.”----SF Gate.
To RSVP for Saving Face, use this link: https://ci.ovationtix.com/35040/
production/1125334
Chinatown Rising. Documentary. Directed by Harry and Josh Chuck. Produced
by James Chan. From Caam. (Color, 2019, USA, 85 minutes, not rated) Adocumentary based on Harry Chuck's collection of clippings and period films about
the issues that motivated members of San Francisco's Chinese American community
to reject submissive stereotypes.
“A worthy reminder that each community that comprises the pulse of the city needs
to see itself represented in the structures that govern urban life.”----POV
To RSVP for Chinatown Rising, use this link: https://ci.ovationtix.com/35040/
production/1125336
Covid-19 protocols in effect on the days of the events will be observed. As of this
writing, it means that masks are required and vaccination record (card or digital)
will be required.
Sierra Madre Playhouse is located at 87 W. Sierra Madre Blvd. in Sierra Madre, CA
91024. This is just east of Pasadena. There is ample free parking in lots behind the
Playhouse and across the street.
For more information about our mainstage show King of the Yees, please go to http://
sierramadreplayhouse.org
This project was made possible with support from California Humanities, a nonprofit
partner of the National Endowment for the Humanities. Visit www.calhum.
org.
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