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CHOOSING THE RIGHT CAREGIVER FOR
SENIORS: A CRUCIAL DECISION
As seniors age, many face challenges that require assistance with
daily activities, making the decision of selecting the right caregiver one
of the most important choices a family can make. Whether the need is
for part-time help or full-time care, finding a caregiver who is compassionate,
qualified, and trustworthy is essential for both the senior’s well-
being and peace of mind for their loved ones.
When starting the search for a caregiver, families should consider
the specific needs of the senior. For example, does the individual need
help with mobility, personal care, or medication management? Do they have chronic health conditions that
require specialized attention? Understanding these requirements will guide the type of care-giver needed—
whether it’s a certified nurse, home health aide, or companion.
Experience and qualifications are also key factors. Caregivers should have relevant training and experience,
particularly for those requiring specialized care. Certified nurse assistants (CNAs) or home health aides
often have the necessary expertise in managing health-related tasks, while companions can provide emotional
support and companionship for those with less demanding needs.
Another important consideration is the caregiver’s personality. Seniors often thrive in environments
where they feel comfortable and respected, so it’s important to ensure a good match between the senior and
caregiver. Personality tests, interviews, and trial periods can help assess compatibility.
Lastly, families must consider the logistics, including cost, availability, and the caregiver’s background
check. Most agencies provide resources to ensure caregivers meet legal and safety standards, offering a level of
assurance for families.
Choosing the right caregiver is a process that requires time, research, and careful thought. By considering
the individual needs of the senior and finding a caregiver who offers both the right skills and a caring
attitude, families can ensure their loved ones receive the best care possible.
NAVIGATING SOCIAL SECURITY
AS IT DOWNSIZES
Dear Savvy Senior,
My local Social Security office was recently shut down
because of staff layoffs and large-scale downsizing by the
Department of Government Efficiency. All this disruption
makes me very nervous, as I’ll be applying for my
Social Security retirement benefits later this year. My
question is, how are we supposed to get help with our
Social Security questions or problems now that our office
is permanently closed? What can you tell me?
Anxious Aaron
Dear Aaron,
I’ve been getting a lot of questions on this very topic.
The Social Security Administration (SSA) is facing
massive budget cuts and layoffs under President Donald
Trump’s administration, which is leading to dozens
of office closures and a lot of angst across the country.
Led by Elon Musk and the Department of Government
Efficiency (DOGE), many Social Security experts believe
these deep staff cuts could cause interruptions in
monthly benefit payments, an increase in improper
payments, delays in the processing of new benefit applications
and disability claims, and longer wait times
for Social Security help.
There are 73 million Americans who currently receive
Social Security benefits, including seniors, children
and people with disabilities. Many rely on these benefits
for the bulk of their income, so any disruption or
errors in payments or other service delays could cause
a lot of problems for beneficiaries.
Advocacy groups are urging concerned Americans
to contact their members of Congress and demand
protections for the program. To find your elected
members contact infor-mation, go to Congress.gov/
members/find-your-member.
With that said, here’s how you can best navigate the
SSA as they downsize.
Use SSA.gov
Most Social Security business today can be conducted
online. To get started, just go to SSA.gov/onlineservices
where you can create a personal online “my
Social Security” account so you can view your latest
statement and earnings history, apply for retirement,
disability, and Medicare benefits, check the status of an
application or appeal, request a replacement Social Security
card (in most areas), print a benefit verification
letter, and much more.
Their
website
also has a wealth of information and answers to frequently
asked questions that you can
access at SSA.gov/faqs.
Phone Assistance
If you can’t conduct your Social Security business
online or you need some extra help, you can also get
phone assistance by calling your nearby field office (see
SSA.gov/locator for contact information) or by calling
the SSA national number at 800-772-1213 (TTY 800-
325-0778) between 8:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. local time,
Monday through Friday.
This number has many automated service options you
can use without waiting, but if you do need to speak to
a representative, wait times are typically shorter early
in the morning (between 8 and 10am) or later in the
afternoon (between 4 and 7pm). You may also ex-perience
shorter wait times later in the week (Wednesday
to Friday) and later in the month.
If you need to visit your nearby SSA office, it’s best to
call and make an appointment first as walk-ins have
much longer wait times. To make an appointment call
800-772-1213 or contact your local SSA office.
Be Patient
Also remember to practice patience and plan ahead.
With all the SSA staff cuts, delays and longer wait time
will be inevitable. And if you’re planning to start drawing
your Social Security benefits in the near future, it’s
best to apply as early as possible as the SSA recently
announced that new applicants who cannot properly
verify their identity over the agency’s “my Social Security”
online service, will be required to visit an SSA
field office in person to complete the verification process.
And that could take some additional time.
This change will also apply to unverified existing recipients
who want to change their direct deposit
information.
You can apply for benefits up to four months before
you expect to receive them. Applying as early as possible
can help ensure they’re available when needed.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box
5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim
Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author
of “The Savvy Senior” book.
OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
ANOTHER WEEK ON MY OWN!
Several weeks ago, The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage informed
me she would be in St. Augustine with our daughter and granddaughter
for spring break. As always, I really didn’t properly process
this information. I get so busy with other things that there are some
things I can’t process.
It was a Monday, and as I was drinking my morning coffee, the Gracious Mistress
of the Parsonage came into my office and said, “Well, I guess the girls and I will
be leaving for the week. I hope you have a good week.” I put my coffee cup down,
looked at her, and said, “What are you talking about? Where are you going?”
“Don’t you remember weeks ago I told you that our daughter, granddaughter and I
will be going to St. Augustine for the spring break?”
I was stunned and said, “I guess I forgot.”
She looked at me and smiled. As she was going out the front door, she said, “Try to
behave yourself this week, and most importantly of all, do not get any apple fritters.
Remember our agreement?”
Then she opened the door and said, “Your dinners and suppers are in the refrigerator.
Try not to make a mess.” Then she closed the door.
It took me a few minutes to process this whole idea, and I’m sure she told me about
it, and was helping me prepare for this week. There are times I get so busy with a
project that I don’t hear what’s going on around me. I may not be at my computer,
but I’m still writing in my head and thinking about my project. I may know what’s
happening around me, but I’m not processing it as I should.
Sitting back in my chair, I thought about the week before me. The Gracious Mistress
of the Parsonage will be in St. Augustine, and I will be here managing every
moment of every day. That doesn’t happen often, and I wasn’t sure where to begin.
I went back to my office and worked until lunchtime. Usually, at lunchtime, The
Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage has my lunch all prepared for me. All I have to
do is sit down and eat it. That has been my schedule since I said, “I do.”
I walked into the kitchen, and there is nothing. I almost call out for my wife, but
then I remember that she isn’t here. I am in charge of my week. I was beginning
to feel rather happy. I have the whole week to do whatever I want, which rarely
happens.
Opening the refrigerator, I saw that she had prepared a whole week’s worth of eating.
There were dishes and bowls in the refrigerator, and all of them had tags telling
me what they were. That was rather convenient for me, and I appreciated it very
much.
As I was planning my apple fritter, I remembered that in the Publix store where I
usually get them, all the workers know my wife, and she knows them. I remember
one time when she was away, I got an apple fritter.
When she came home and went to Publix to buy groceries, everybody told her I had
bought an apple fritter. By the time my wife got home from shopping, she knew I
had bought an apple fritter behind her back. How can you buy something behind
her back when everybody knows her?
I had to put a plan together, which was to go across town to a Publix that she had
never been to.
I got in my vehicle to drive across town to acquire several apple fritters for the week.
As I began my journey, I just couldn’t help but chuckle and smile. I can’t remember
the last time I had an apple fritter, and I was surely looking forward to this one.
As I was driving, I was listening to some preacher on a radio station. I was listening
as I was driving, still very happy inside. Unfortunately for me, his sermon that day
was on lying.
I enjoyed his sermon, and as I was driving into the Publix parking lot, I began to
think about it. What is a lie?
I knew I could go into that store, buy as many apple fritters as I wanted, and then
take them home. I knew I could put this together so that The Gracious Mistress of
the Parsonage would never know about it. Then, a thought burned into my head.
Am I cheating on The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage?
Halfway from my vehicle to the store, I stopped. Is it worth lying?
I’m unsure what was happening in my heart, but I stopped, turned around, returned
to my vehicle, and went home. Not all the apple fritters in the world are worth lying
to The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage.
Driving home, I remembered a hymn that had the phrase, “Yield not to temptation,
for yielding is sin.” I can’t stop the temptation, but I can refuse to yield to it.
I also thought of a Bible verse. “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is
common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above
that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may
be able to bear it” (1 Corinthians 10:13).
Temptations will come, but I do not have to yield.
UNLOCK YOUR LIFE
Tips From Lori A. Harris
ACCEPTING HELP ON THE JOURNEY: THE
LONE RANGER WASN'T SO LONE AFTER ALL
Sometimes, we
need a little help,
and sometimes
we know it, but
often we don't. If
you're anything
like me, you
have a lifetime
of doing things
independently.
It may have started
innocently. As
a toddler pushing your mom away confidently, "I can
do it!" Or being the elementary student mumbling under
your breath, "You're not the boss of me," at some
adult thwarting your plans.
"I can do it!" is a great mantra, but we don't have to do
everything alone. Getting help is not only a good thing,
sometimes it's necessary. Why, even the Lone Ranger
had help. Do you remember that fictional character
known for the tagline, "Hi-Ho Silver!"? You might be
surprised to learn that more than one actor played the
role.
Clayton Moore is most famously known as the Lone
Ranger, playing the character for the first 78 episodes.
However, during a pay dispute, John Hart also played
the role for 52 episodes. Eventually, Moore made it
back on his horse.
And let's not forget Tonto, the Lone Ranger's trusted
companion. Despite the "lone" in his name, he relied
on partnership to accomplish his mission.
When Dreams Go Dormant
As adults, we often find ourselves stuck in a rut, our
dreams muted by the routines and responsibilities of
daily life. What once sparked excitement has been filed
under "someday" or "impossible." But it doesn't take
much to reawaken that spark.
Many people are reluctant even to try dreaming again
because they're immediately worried about "the how."
They put on the brakes before their dream can even
develop. Sometimes, it's fear of an unknown, unidentifiable
danger. Sometimes, it's the fear of failure or
disappointment.
Sound familiar? You're not alone.
Would it be okay with you if life got easier? Think that's
impossible? Well, the first step is to explore what you
would love. What would it look like to have support?
In what areas of your life would you welcome that
support?
Visionary Salon: Discover Your Path to a Life You Love
If you don't know how to get started, I'm hosting a special
workshop next weekend where we'll explore how
to live a life you love. The Visionary Salon is designed
to help you identify what truly matters to you and create
practical steps toward achieving it.
Join me in a supportive environment where you can:
• Clarify your vision for different areas of your
life
• Identify obstacles that have been holding you
back
• Learn practical tools for creating meaningful
change
• Connect with others on a similar journey
In this workshop, you'll learn powerful tools to identify
and articulate your dreams and, most importantly,
how to take those first steps even in the face of fear.
You'll discover that dreaming isn't just for children—
it's an essential part of living a fulfilled life at any age.
Space is limited, so reserve your spot today at loriaharris.
com/workshop. Together, we'll discover that
asking for help isn't a sign of weakness—it's the first
step toward creating the life you truly desire. Don't get
stuck living the year over and over like "GroundHog's
Day."
Your life is the only investment that matters.
--
Lori A. Harris Is an award-winning coach who loves helping
people. Learn more about her at her website, loriaharris.com,
or tune into her podcast, Unlock Your Life with Lori Harris
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