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Mountain View News Saturday, September 13, 2025
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PLANNING AHEAD FOR ASSISTED LIVING
Making the decision to move into assisted living can feel overwhelming, but with careful planning, it
can be a smooth transition that enhances quality of life. Assisted living communities are designed for
seniors who need some daily support—such as help with meals, medications, or transportation—while
still enjoying independence.
One of the most important steps is planning early. Too often, families wait until a crisis occurs, such
as a fall or hospitalization, before considering assisted living. By starting the conversation in advance,
seniors have more time to tour communities, compare options, and make decisions based on preferences
rather than urgency.
Financial planning is also key. Unlike skilled nursing,
which is usually short-term and covered by Medicare or
insurance, assisted living is primarily private pay. Long-
term care insurance may help cover costs, but policies
vary, so it’s wise to review coverage early. Families should
also consider savings, pensions, or veterans’ benefits that
may provide assistance.
Location and lifestyle matter, too. Proximity to family,
social activities, and medical providers can make a big
difference. Visiting communities, asking questions, and
even sharing a meal with residents can help determine if
the environment feels like home.
Finally, involve loved ones in the decision. Open discussions about needs, wishes, and concerns
foster understanding and reduce stress later. Planning ahead ensures that seniors have a voice in their
future and that families feel confident when the time comes.
With preparation, assisted living can be a positive step toward safety, companionship, and peace of
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OUT TO PASTOR
A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder
HOW MUCH FUN IS TOO MUCH FUN?
HOW TO GET HELP WITH YOUR MEDICARE COSTS
If you don't have any fun in life, what is the purpose? I know life is
more than just having fun, but there is a place for fun in our daily
lives.
Everyone has their idea of what fun is, and we don't always agree on that. Take,
for example, The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage has an entirely different idea
of fun than her husband.
What I consider to be fun, she doesn't like at all. What she considers fun, I don't
understand at all. But there are quite a few times that we have had fun together. I
should really write them down so that I don't forget them. The next time we have
fun together, I'm going to make a note.
As for me, I get things confused, and sometimes I say the wrong word. Everybody
is guilty of that at some time. But when I do it, I get into some really deep trouble.
Last week, for instance, we went to the mall together. We don't often do that because
I really don't like the mall. When I go to the mall, I like to go to the coffee
shop, get some coffee and let The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage do all the
shopping.
This week we went together, and just as we got into the mall, we encountered
some friends of ours that we haven't seen for a while. I always enjoy catching up
with friends and having a little fun to-gether.
He and I drifted away from my wife and his wife. I'm not quite sure what the
ladies were talking about, but then I wouldn't understand it anyway, even if I had
heard it.
My friend was a little obsessed with his wife buying purses all the time. He never
called them purs-es; he called them bags. "I don't understand," he said to me,
"why women need so many of these bags. Why can't they be satisfied with just
one." Then he went on describing all of those "bags" his wife had at home.
"I can bet that she's going to buy another bag today here at the mall," he said with
a little bit of sarcasm. We laughed together because we both knew what he was
talking about.
I then pointed over to my wife and said, "Look at that lovely bag over there."
I didn't realize that I used the wrong word. My friend always called a purse a bag,
and so I followed along with him. I wanted him to see the nice purse my wife had.
But, when I said, "Look at that lovely bag over there," I got into so much trouble
that I don't know if I'm out of it today. As usual, my wife heard every word that
I said, and she looked at me with one of her looks and both hands on her hips.
That alone convinced me I was in for some trouble. My fun time had evolved into
“I'm in trouble time”. I didn't say what she heard me say but what she heard me
say is what I said. How I'm going to get out of this is beyond my pay scale.
Sometimes when we're having fun, people hear us say something, but they interpret
it in the opposite direction. There's something about words that can really
get you into trouble.
I like to have fun and enjoy pulling friends into the experience, but I need to
know where to draw the line. And after all of these years of matrimonial bliss, I
don't know where to draw the line.
I stared at my friend for a moment, and he began to smile because he knew that
I was in trouble.
"Well," he said to me, "my wife and I need to get going." And they walked away,
leaving me with The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage and the trouble I was in.
The way she looked at me, I knew I had come to the end of having fun that day.
Nothing I could say or do could ever undo what I said.
As we walked out of the mall to our vehicle, I tried to think of something to say
that would make up for my blunder. Even though I work with words all the time
I could not come up with the right words to use at this time.
As we drove home in the Sissy Van, she was very quiet and focused solely on
driving. I, on the other hand, was focused on being quiet. There's a time to speak
and a time to be quiet. As a veteran husband, I am still learning when it's time to
be quiet.
I'm not going to give up on having fun, I'm just going to try to be more delicate
in the fun I choose at the time. That will not be easy, but sometimes you have to
pay for the fund that you have.
As I was thinking through this I couldn’t help but think of a special Bible verse.
“Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his
lips is esteemed a man of understanding” (Proverbs 17:28).
When I open my mouth people can see what a fool I am. If I keep my mouth shut
I hide all that foolishness. My new goal is to show a smile with my mouth and
keep my mouth shut.
Dr. James L. Snyder lives in Ocala, FL with the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage.
Telephone 1-352-216-3025, e-mail jamessnyder51@gmail.com, website
www.jamessnyderministries.com
Dear Savvy Senior,
Does Medicare offer any financial assistance
for struggling seniors? My mom lives
primarily on her Social Security survivor
benefit and is having a hard time paying her
Medicare costs. Need Assistance
Dear Need,
There are actually several different financial assistance programs that can help Medicare beneficiaries
who are having a difficult time paying their out-of-pocket health care costs. Here’s what’s available,
along with the eligibility requirements and how to apply.
Medicare Savings Programs
Let’s start with a program that helps pay premiums and out-of-pocket costs for Medicare Parts A
and B. It’s called the “Medicare Savings Program,” and it has several different benefit levels for people
based on their income and asset level. At its most generous the program will pay your Part A and B
premiums and pretty much all your Medicare deductibles, coinsurance and copayments. At its least
generous the program will pay just your Part B premium.
To qualify for a Medicare Savings Program, the minimum standard set by Medicare is an income
under 135 percent of the federal poverty level, which at the moment works out to around $1,715 a
month for individuals (or $2,320 for married couples). Everything counts towards income, including
payouts from 401(k) plans, pensions, Social Security, and help from family members.
Medicare also allows states to impose an asset test, which can be as little as $9,430 per individual
($14,130 for married couples), not counting your house, car or personal belongs, but counting retirement
savings and bank accounts.
But some states have made their Medicare Savings Programs a lot more generous, with much higher
income limits and in some cases no asset tests at all. And the program may be called something else
in your state. To find out if you qualify or to apply, contact your state Medicaid program. Visit Medicaid.
gov or call all 800-633-4227 for contact information.
Medication Assistance
For help with Medicare (Part D) prescription drug plan costs, there is another completely separate
low-income subsidy program she may be eligible for called “Extra Help.” To get it, your mom will
need to apply through her Social Security office.
Depending on your mother’s income level, this program will pay part or all of her Part D prescription
drug plan’s monthly premiums, annual deductibles and prescription co-payments. In 2025, individuals
with a yearly income below $23,475 ($31,725 for a married couple), and assets under $17,600
($35,130 for a married couple) can qualify for Extra Help.
If she’s eligible to be in a Medicare Savings Program, she will automatically qualify for Extra Help.
But because the requirements are slightly different, even if she doesn’t qualify for a Medicare Savings
Program for Part B, she might be able to get Extra Help for Part D. For more information or to apply,
visit SSA.gov/medicare/part-d-extra-help or call Social Security at 800-772-1213.
Other Programs
Depending on your mom’s income level, needs and location there are many other financial assistance
programs that can help like Medicaid, SSI (Supplemental Security Income), PACE (Program of All-
inclusive Care for the Elderly), SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program), (LIHEAP) Low
Income Home Energy Assistance Program and many others.
To help you find out what types of assistance programs she may be eligible for, and learn how to apply
for them, go to BenefitsCheckUp.org. This is a free, confidential website designed for people age
55 and older that contains more than 2,500 programs.
It’s also possible to get help in person at one of the 87 Benefits Enrollment Centers scattered across
38 states. Visit
NCOA.org/article/meet-our-benefits-enrollment-centers locate a center in your area. Or call their
helpline at 800-794-6559.
Send your questions or comments to questions@savvysenior.org, or to Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070.
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