Mountain Views News Saturday, April 11, 2026 
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Mountain Views News Saturday, April 11, 2026 
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HOW TO TALK TO A LOVED ONE 
ABOUT ASSISTED LIVING 

(A Compassionate Guide for Families) 

If you’re wondering how to talk to a loved one 
about assisted living, you’re not alone. Manyfamilies in the San Gabriel Valley face this emotional 
and important conversation. With the 
right approach, you can help your loved one feel 
supported rather than pressured.
The first step is choosing the right time. Avoid 
having this discussion during a crisis. Instead, 
find a calm, private moment where your loved 
one feels safe and heard. Position the conversation 
around their well-being. Assisted living 
communities today offer more than care—they 
provide safety, social interaction, and a higher quality of life. Listening is essential. Your loved one may fear 
losing independence or worry about costs. Acknowledge these concerns with empathy. Let them know this is 
a shared decision and that their preferences matter. When people feel included, they are more open to exploring 
options. 

It’s also helpful to introduce the idea gradually. You might suggest touring a local assisted living community 
together or sharing positive stories of others who have made the transition. Seeing a welcoming environment 
firsthand can reduce fear and build comfort. 


In some cases, involving a professional can make a difference. 
A senior care advisor or physician can provide 
guidance and help answer questions objectively. Families 
throughout the San Gabriel Valley often find that 
expert support brings clarity and reassurance.
Remember, this is rarely a one-time conversation. Be 
patient and revisit the topic with compassion. By focusing 
on safety, dignity, and quality of life, you can help 
your loved one move toward a decision that benefits 
their future. 
If you need help navigating assisted living options in 
the San Gabriel Valley, Safe Path for Seniors is here to 
guide you every step of the way. 

LOW-COST SMARTPHONE PLANS FOR BUDGET-MINDED SENIORS 

Dear Savvy Senior,
What are the absolute lowest-cost smartphone 
plans for seniors who mainly talk and 
text but need a little cellular data for email 
and occasional use? I’m currently paying$40 a month and hoping to cut that down.
--Looking to Save 


Dear Looking,
You’re asking a smart question. Many seniors pay far more for smartphone service than they actually 
use. If most of your phone activity is calls, texts, email, and light web browsing, there’s usually no need 
to spend $40 or more a month. The good news: plenty of low-cost carriers now cater to light users 
who want reliable service without the extra cost. 

The cheapest plans today mostly come from mobile virtual network operators (MVNOs) – smaller 
carriers that lease coverage from major networks like T-Mobile, Verizon, and AT&T. Because theydon’t run their own towers, MVNOs can offer basic service for a fraction of the cost of major carriers, 
while still providing nationwide coverage. Here are some of the best options available now. 

Cheapest Wireless Plans 

According to Consumer Reports, one of the best overall values among low-cost smartphone plans is 
Mint Mobile. Mint offers a $15-per-month plan that includes unlimited talk and text plus 5 gigabytes 
(GB) of high-speed data each month. The catch is that you must pay for a full year upfront, which is 
$180 plus taxes and fees. For seniors who are comfortable paying annually, this can be an excellent 
way to lock in long-term savings. Mint runs on T-Mobile’s network and works with most unlocked 
smartphones. 

If that’s more service or commitment than you want, the absolute cheapest wireless plan currently 
available is Ultra Mobile’s PayGo plan. For just $3 per month, plus fees, it provides 100 minutes of talk,
100 text messages, and 100 megabytes (MB) of data. Additional usage costs 3 cents per minute or MB 
of data and 1 cent per text. This plan is best for very light users or those who primarily want a phone 
for emergencies. Ultra Mobile also uses T-Mobile’s network. 

Another solid budget-friendly choice is Tello, which allows you to customize a plan to fit your specific 
needs. Plans start at just $6 per month and include unlimited texting, 100 minutes of talk time, and 1 
GB of high-speed data. If your usage changes, you can easily add more minutes or data in affordable 
$1 monthly increments. This flexibility makes Tello especially appealing to seniors who want control 
over their costs. Tello also operates on T-Mobile’s network. 

Other super low-cost plans for digital minimalists include US Mobile, which offers a light plan starting 
at $8 per month (when paid annually) for unlimited talk and text plus 2 GB of data. Tracfone is 
another long-standing option, offering very basic 30-minute talk, text and web plan, for $9 per month 
with auto-refill. 

Lifeline Program 

If your budget is especially tight, be sure to check into the federal Lifeline Assistance Program. Lifeline 
provides a $9.25 monthly discount on phone or internet service. 

You may qualify if you receive benefits such as Medicaid, SNAP (food stamps), Supplemental SecurityIncome (SSI), public housing assistance, or Veterans Pension. You may also qualify based on income 
alone if your household income is below 135 percent of the federal poverty level – currently $21,546 
for one person or $29,214 for two. 

To learn more or apply, visit lifelinesupport.org. If approved, you can choose from participating providers 
in your area, and in some cases even apply the discount to service you already have, if your 
provider participates. 

Before switching plans, make sure your phone is unlocked and compatible with the new carrier’s network. 
A quick compatibility check on the provider’s website can help ensure a smooth transition and 
keep your savings on track. 

Send your questions or comments to questions@savvysenior.org, or to Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, 
Norman, OK 73070. 

SENIOR HAPPENINGS 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! …APRIL BIRTHDAYS* 


Howard Rubin, Anita Hardy, Hattie Harris, Marilyn Diaz, Virginia Elliott,
Elma Flores, Betty Jo Gregg, Barbara Lampman, Betty Mackie, Elizabeth 
Rassmusen, Maria Reyes, Marian DeMars, Anne Schryver, Chrisine 
Bachwansky, Colleen McKernan, Sandy Swanson, Hank Landsberg,
Shannon Vandevelde, Barbara Rounkle, Wendy Senour 

* To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at626.355.2737. YEAR of birth not required 
Enjoy classic and family-friendly films at our Senior Cinema series, held 
at the Hart Park House. Join us for a relaxed and social movie experience 
with a variety of titles throughout April. 

Upcoming Showings: 

• April 1 -McFarland, USA 
• April 8 -Ray
• April 15 -Evan Almighty
• April 15 -The Story of Us 
• April 29 -You've Got Mail 
For more information, please visit sierramadreca.gov or call 
626-355-5278. 


OUT TO PASTOR 

A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder 

DOES ANYBODY EVER GROW UP? 

In a few months, I will celebrate another birthday. Interestingly, these 
birthdays come every year. This year, if I've kept up to date, I will celebrate 
my 75th birthday. I never expected to get this far along in life. I 
always thought 75 was old. 

If I believe one of my old uncles, my 75th birthday amounts to 7+5 = 

12. So I will be 12 years old in a few months. I can't imagine what it's going to be like to be12 once again. I guess I don't know the difference between 75 and 12. There may not bemuch of a difference. 
As a youngster, my mother would often say in a very sarcastic tone, "Are you ever going to 
grow up?" Sometimes she would say, "Just grow up." 

At the time, I didn't quite understand what she was saying. By the time I reached 6 foot, Ibegan to realize that wasn't what she meant by growing up. Of course, I really don't know 
what she meant by that. 

Looking back over the years of my life, I'm not quite sure what it means to grow up. I 
can't see anywhere in my life where I have actually grown up. Sure, I've gotten older, but I 
haven't grown up. 

I'm not sure I work hard enough throughout my life to grow up. Of course, not knowing 
what growing up means, how do I know if I got there? 

I spent some time reflecting on my family and trying to figure out which one of them 
actually grew up. When I assumed one relative had grown up, they did something that 
completely destroyed the image I had of them. 

What does growing up mean?

Getting older does not mean you're actually growing up. I know a lot of old people who 
certainly do not show any signs of having grown up. For example, look at some of the 
politicians at the White House. If they represent what grown up is, then I do not want to 
grow up in any regard. 

Back when I was in my teenage glory, I thought I knew everything. I thought I was 
smarter than my teachers, and of course, I was smarter than my parents at the time. I 
assumed that I had grown up back then. But as my life unwound, I saw very clearly that I 
was nowhere near being grown up. 

My resolution for my birthday this year will be to discover what it actually means to be 
grown up. After I study that subject, I may come to the conclusion that I really don't want 
to grow up. 

Looking at the people around me and thinking they are grown-ups would make me want 
not to grow up, as far as that is concerned. 

The only person I know who has honestly grown up is The Gracious Mistress of the 
Parsonage. After all, that's why I married her. If she has grown up, then I don't have to be 
grown up, which is the case all through these years of marital bliss. 

Every once in a while, when I do something really stupid, she will reply to me and say,
"Oh, why don't you just grow up." 

Of course, if I knew what she meant by "grow up," I might do a little bit about it. But I'm 
enjoying life too much to stop and try to figure out what it means to grow up. After all, 
one grown up in a marriage is all that is needed. Since she is a grown-up, I don't have to 
worry about that at all. 

This year, we will celebrate our 55th wedding anniversary. Throughout that time, I had 
never noticed that I had achieved any "grow up" status. All of that weighs on the shoulders 
of The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage. She's the grown-up in this relationship, 
and I'm very happy with that. 

When you grow up, you lose a lot of fun times in your life. What is the purpose of that? 
I want to live life on the "Fun Train," and my understanding is that you can't ride it once 
you have grown up. 

I have some friends that I've known for a very long time who think that they have grown 
up. According to what I see, because they have grown up, there are a lot of things that 
they can no longer do, things that are fun in life. They have sacrificed fun activities for the 
sake of being grown-ups. 

Whatever somebody accuses me of doing something stupid, my excuse is, "I'm just not 
grown up yet." That has gotten me out of many difficult situations. 

When I'm ready, I'll surrender to being grown up. Until then, I'm going to enjoy all of the 
fun things in life. When I run out of steam for enjoying these things, I will consider growing 
up. 

As I was reflecting on this a Bible verse came to mind. 2 Peter 3:18, “But grow in grace, 
and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now 
and for ever. Amen.” 

Honestly, I’m not sure what it means to “grow up”, but my focus as a Christ is seen in this 
verse. I am to “grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.” 
The most important growth is my relationship with Christ. 

Dr. James L. Snyder lives in Ocala, FL with the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage. Telephone 
1-352-216-3025, e-mail jamessnyder51@gmail.com, website www.jamessnyderministries.com. 

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