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THE GOOD LIFE
Mountain Views-News Saturday, November 15, 2014
SENIOR HAPPENINGS
FREE AND LOW-COST LEGAL SERVICES
THAT HELP SENIORS IN NEED
HELPFUL HINT: Get a picture of all of your prescription bottles and keep it in your phone’s
photo album.
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FOR YOUR FUNNY BONE - A 45 year old woman had a heart attack and was
taken to the hospital. While on the operating table she had a near death experience. Seeing God, she
asked, “Is my time up?” God said, “No, you have another 43 years 2 months and 8 days to live.” Upon
recovery, the woman decided to stay in the hospital and have a face-lift, liposuction, breast implants
and a tummy tuck. She even had someone come in and change her hair color and brighten her teeth!
Since she had so much time to live, she figured she might as well make the most of it. After her last
operation, she was released from the hospital. While crossing the street on her way home, she was
killed by an ambulance. Arriving in front of God, she demanded, “I thought you said I had another
43 years? Why didn’t you pull me out of the path of the ambulance?” God replied, “I didn’t recognize
you.”
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY! … November Birthdays
Flo Mankin, Alberta Curran, Carmela Frontino, Kathy Wood, Lena Zate, Joe Pergola, Janice
Kacer, Valerie Howard, “Mike” Ruggles, Joan Ruggles, Lois Stueck, Jean Wood, Shirley
Yergeau, Kathi Jefferson, Pat Krok, Irene Nakagawa, Anna Ross, Mary Steinberg and Sue
Quinn.
* To add your name to this distinguished list, please call the paper at 626.355.2737. YEAR of birth not
required
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ACTIVITIES: Unless listed differently, all activities are at the Hart Park House
(Senior Center) 222 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre
YMCA San Gabriel Valley Intervale Senior Café: Monday-Friday at 12:00 Noon
(Participants are urged to arrive no later than 11:45 A.M.)
All seniors 60 and up can take part in the lunch program. There is a suggested donation of $2.00
for those 60 and over and $3.75 for non-senior guests. Daily reservations are necessary as space is
limited. Please call 24 hours in advance...626.355.0256
Free Balance Class: Every 3rd Monday, from 11:00 to 11:45 am with Shannon. All ability levels are
encouraged and welcomed.
Hawaiian and Polynesian Dance Class: Every Tuesday morning from 10:00am to 11:00am. Join
instructor Barbara Dempsey as she instructs you in the art of hula.
Bingo: Every Tuesday beginning at 1:00pm. Cards are only $0.25 each! Everyone is welcome to join.
May be canceled if less than 5 people. Canceled on August 5th and 12th.
Free Blood Pressure Testing: Held 2nd Tuesday of the month from 11:00am to 12:00pm. No
appointment is necessary.
Free Legal Consultation: Wednesday, August 27th from 10:00am to Noon. Attorney Lem Makupson
is available for legal consultation. He specializes in Family Law, Wills, Trusts, Estates, and Injury.
For an appointment call 626-355-7394.
Chair Yoga: Mondays and Wednesdays from 11:00 to 11:45 am, except on the third
Monday of the month when the balance class is held. A suggested donation of $5 at one
of the classes is requested, but is not required.
Birthday Celebrations: Every second Thursday of the month the Hart Park House
Senior Center celebrates birthdays of our patrons. The free birthday cake is provided by
the Sierra Madre Civic Club.
Game Day: Every Thursday starting at 12:45pm. A regular group of seniors play poker. Other games
available for use.
Free Strength Training Class: Every Friday from 12:45pm to 1:30pm with Lisa Brandley. The class
utilizes light weights for low impact resistance training. All materials for the class are provided.
UPCOMING EXCURSIONS
December 2014 – The Mission Inn and Festival of Lights
On Wednesday, December 3, 2014 join us for a 75-minute late afternoon guided tour of the Mission
Inn in Riverside. The Mission Inn is a national historic landmark and the Festival of Lights is an
annual gift to the community from the present owners, who saved the Inn from destruction in
1992. This is your opportunity to see parts of the Inn that are inaccessible to the general public.
Following the tour, at approximately 5:15 pm, participants will have three hours to eat dinner, shop,
and enjoy the annual Festival of Lights – which features more than 4 million dazzling lights, the
world’s largest manmade mistletoe, freshly fallen snow, and an elaborately decorated Christmas
tree in the hotel lobby. Dinner will be on your own and there are many dining options along Main
Street or at The Mission Inn Hotel which offers an array of award-winning restaurants, each with
their own unique ambiance. Participants should bring money for dinner and souvenirs. The cost
of this trip is $20 and does not include dinner; the bus departs from the Hart Park House Senior
Center at 1:30 pm and will return at 9:30 pm. Last day to register is Monday, November 24. Level
of Walking: Medium to High.
Dear Savvy Senior:
Where can seniors turn to for free or low-cost legal
help? My husband and I need some professional
legal assistance but don’t have a lot of money to
pay a high priced lawyer. What can you tell us?
Seniors in Need
Dear Seniors:
There are actually a number of free and low-cost
legal resources available today to help seniors,
but what’s available to you and your husband will
depend on where you live, the type legal assistance
you need and your financial situation. Here are
several resources to check into.
Legal Aid: Directed by the Legal Services
Corporation, legal aid offers free legal assistance
to low-income people of all ages. Each community
program will differ slightly in the services they
offer and income qualifications. See lsc.gov/find-
legal-aid to locate a program in your area.
Pro Bono programs: Usually sponsored by
state or local bar associations, these programs
help low-income people find volunteer lawyers
who are willing to handle their cases for free.
You can look for a pro bono program through the
American Bar Association at findlegalhelp.org, or
through lawhelp.org.
Senior Legal Hotlines: There are a number of
states including the District of Columbia that
offer senior legal hotlines, where all seniors over
age 60 have access to free legal advice over the
telephone. To find the states that offer this service
and their toll free number, visit legalhotlines.org.
Senior Legal Services: Coordinated by the
Administration on Aging, this service may offer
free or low-cost legal advice, legal assistance or
access to legal representation to people over the
age of 60. Your Area Agency on Aging can tell
you what’s available in your community. Call the
Eldercare Locator at 800-677-1116 to get your
local number.
National Disability Rights Network: This is a
nonprofit membership organization that provides
legal assistance to people with disabilities through
their Protection and Advocacy System and Client
Assistance Program. If you or your husband is
disabled, visit ndrn.org to find help in your state.
Other Options
If you can’t get help from one of these programs,
or find that you aren’t eligible, another option is to
contact your state or local bar association, which
may be able to refer you to a low-fee lawyer. Or, you
may want to consider hiring a lawyer for only part
of the legal work and doing other parts yourself.
This is known as unbundled legal services.
Many bar associations offer public service-
oriented lawyer referral services that will
interview clients and help identify the problems
a lawyer could help them with. If a lawyer can
help with your problem, the service will provide
you with a referral to a lawyer. If the problem
does not require a lawyer, the service will provide
information on other organizations in your
community that may be able to help. Most of these
lawyer referral services conduct their interviews
and make referrals over the phone.
To contact your state or local bar association,
go to americanbar.org and type in “state and local
bar associations” in the search field to find their
state-by-state directory.
And finally, if you are an AARP member, one
other discount resource that may be able to help
you is AARP’s Legal Services Network from
Allstate. This service provides members a free
legal consultation (up to 45 minutes) with an
attorney along with 20 percent discounts on other
legal services you may need. To locate a lawyer
near you, call 866-330-0753.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy
Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or
visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor
to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy
Senior” book.
KATIE Tse..........This and That
SUCCESS AND OTHER INTANGIBLES
I’ve never been
a fan of reality
shows. However,
last weekend
my husband and I were listening to
89.3 FM (KPCC, I think) when we
heard a great “Ted Talk.” In it, Mike
Rowe, of “Dirty Jobs,” chronicled
memorable experiences, and
explained his motivation to create
that reality series.
Rowe started by commenting on
the trite proverb we’re all told as young
adults --”Follow your passion!” It’s a
nice quote for graduation speeches
and motivational posters. While that
sentiment is all well and good, it’s
also created many “starving artists”
and impoverished entrepreneurs.
So, what are we to do if following
our passion doesn’t put food on the
table?
Rowe said something so
profound, yet simple, I nearly kissed
the car stereo! “Take your passion
with you.” We can’t all be actresses,
painters, musicians, or writers (at
least not making a living at it), but we can all bring
our passion to whatever job we have. Rowe’s “Ted
Talk” was part of the program’s theme, “What
we define as ‘success.’” Our society has become
so “success-driven” that many of us suffer from
“success-anxiety.” This nagging worry is an offshoot
of the keeping-up-with-the-Joneses mentality.
There are only a handful of “respectable” jobs one
can aspire to (e.g., doctor, lawyer, CEO, etc.). If
you’re not part of this elite club, then you must
be a “loser.” Another interviewee on the program
pointed our that “failure” and “loser” labels are
uniquely American. In the U.S. everyone is equal,
and therefore, anyone can do anything if they just
“work hard enough.”
I’m not knocking equality! Every person deserves
respect and dignity because they are a human
being. However, once you say that everyone has
the same opportunity and potential for limitless
material success, it implies that those who haven’t
achieved that goal have only themselves to blame.
That person huddled in a blanket on the streets
of L.A. is there because he didn’t take advantage of
all the opportunities afforded to him. While part
of that may be true, it’s still cruel and judgmental.
The interviewee pointed out that in
England during the 1800’s, “poor”
people were called “unfortunates.” This
term is much more compassionate,
implying that these people were victims
of misfortune; they were just dealt a bad
hand in life.
The main thrust of these discussions
was that it’s OKAY to not be a lawyer,
doctor, or CEO! Dare I say it, it’s even
okay not to go to college! In public
education, we often have to bite our
tongues and go along with the “No
Child Left Behind” and “Everyone
Should Go to College” mantras. By
sending this message, we perpetuate
the misconception that a college degree
guarantees a decent job. (Okay, maybe
the Art History and English majors
should’ve known better.) But these
days, even the credentialed teachers,
psychologists, and (gasp!) lawyers
are scrounging for jobs! One of my
Mom’s friend’s sons is a lawyer, and it
took him over a year to find a position.
Another friend’s son has a full teaching
credential, but decided to join the Navy
since the teaching market is bone dry.
So, not only are our schools setting the college
bound kids up for likely failure, but the kids who
don’t go to college have to deal with 12 years of being
told they’re not good enough because they don’t
excel in math or English. The time these students
spent trying to fit into the academic mold could’ve
been spent learning a valuable trade. Society needs a
healthy balance of scholars and skilled workers. Let’s
face it, when the pipes under my sink start shooting
out water at 3 a.m., it’s the plumber I’m calling, not
the business major. Besides plumbers, electricians,
arborists, carpenters, and other trade professionals
make good money!
At the end of the day, we should all aspire to do
our best at whatever job in which we find ourselves.
Not envying those who have more, nor looking down
on those who have less. Our peace and wellbeing
should not be wrapped up in our ability to impress
others. Two verses come to mind; and Hebrews
13:5, “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be
content with such things as you have.” Good words,
but it gets even better, “For He Himself has said, ‘I will
never leave you nor forsake you.”
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