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7 BEST FRIENDS & MORE Mountain Views-News Saturday, September 29, 2018 Happy Tails by Chris Leclerc BEST FRIEND WE’VE GOT TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER Meet Betty DeVille models her distinctive black and white colored fur coat markings. It looks like she’s wearing a solid color designer cap with cat ears attached. She has the same name as a Rugrats cartoon mother, who has a nice but loud personality. Our Betty also was a loving mother to her two kittens named Phil and Lil. (Who are also currently available for adoption.) Betty has a calm loving nature, is friendly, and enjoys seeing new people coming to meet her. Melting into hands that massage her head and throat, Betty purrs with contentment. A lap is always nice to sit on when offered. If given a toy, she will show her sporting playful side which ranges from bat and pat to attack and toss, depending on what is being offered for her amusement. Whether it’s a still object, a flying teaser, or the laser dot, Betty takes the challenge. Her adoption fee is $99 and includes spay surgery, vaccinations, microchip and a free wellness exam at a participating veterinarian. Betty is accepting visitors at Alhambra PetSmart, a San Gabriel Valley Humane Society adoption partner. For more information, call (626) 284-3390. I remember when I was a kid, hearing the adults say, “When one stops learning, one stops living“. That probably meant very little to me at the time, but as I grew older and had my own personal experiences with learning and living, I began to realize the amazing lessons that God’s wonderful creatures can teach us. I once saw a video which reminded of an amazing phenomenon of nature that truly astounds me, and makes me wonder, “How can this be?”. I am talking about animals of distant and unrelated species who are apparently able to put away their inherent instinctive differences to, not only survive, but share symbiotic and friendly relationships with other beings that are for the most part very different from themselves. There have been many documented accounts of cross-species relationships over the years, but the e-mailed video that brought this subject to mind for me was uniquely inspiring. It was a home movie showing a dog and a wild crow playing together in the pup’s enormous back yard located in the south of Germany. The dog was apparently quite a social sort but there were no other pets in his home to interact with, so having become lonely for companionship, he decided to befriend a huge crow that came flying out of a tall tree nearby and plopped itself down in the backyard. The crow promptly commenced squawking at the dog and taunting him. Instead of rushing forward and frightening the seemingly crazy crow, the dog approached slowly, whimpered humbly and proceeded to rub his furry neck against the big black bird’s beak! Soon they were inseparable pals, spending all their time together under the tree canopies in the back yard. Who knew? After watching that video, I decided to look up more information about unusual cross-species relationships, and I found a few similar stories. One was about a maternal relationship that developed between Pixie, a darling standard poodle, and three abandoned wild squirrels who, by forces beyond their control, showed up on the poodle’s property. The tree where the squirrel family had nested for years was felled by chainsaws, so the adult squirrels were left with no choice but to abandon the nest. The three infant squirrels were too tiny to run when the tree came down, so they were left lying in the grass where Pixie romped and played daily. In an epic stroke of fate, Pixie opted to befriend the baby squirrels rather than attack them, as one might expect a dog to do. Not only was Pixie friendly with the baby squirrels, she allowed them to exploit the remaining lactated milk left over from a recently birthed litter of puppies. If it hadn’t been for Pixie’s willingness to show random kindness, those baby squirrels would most likely have perished. As it turned out, all three of those little squirrels survived and grew strong enough to be released back into the wild. Another remarkable account of an unlikely loving relationship between members of two very different species happened at the Elephant Sanctuary in Hohenwald, Tennessee, just southwest of Nashville. In this case, a young female elephant affectionately named Bella bonded with a yellow lab named Tara. All of the other elephants at the sanctuary chose a friend of their own species to connect with, but apparently Bella ended up the 5th wheel in the deal, so with no other elephant to partner with, she focused her need for friendship on a cute, cuddly canine companion. There are several rescued elephants and dogs at the Sanctuary in Hohenwald who share the same open space, but the two species typically avoid contact with each other. But that was not the case with two unlikely lovebirds named Bella and Tara, who ultimately became inseparable. They ate together, wandered together and even slept together until the day when Tara passed away at which time the good folks at the sanctuary immediately got to work finding Bella another partner and today she is happy to have another kind canine in the center of her small, yet significant circle of friend(s). I observe and learn so much from the animals every day. They truly inspire me, and I hope to play it forward by inspiring others in the same way. If animals, both domestic and wild, can be willing to forego instinctual expectations in order to love and be loved by someone very different from themselves, why can’t we humans do the same? I don’t know about you, but I am willing to cross the bridge of unfamiliarity and reach out to those with whom I may have very little in common. When I do take that chance I find that I learn a lot, not only about other people, but about myself. I learn about living with a giving spirit and it allows me the opportunity to get out of my own head and be part of something bigger than myself. And, interestingly enough, I often find out that I have more in common than not, with folks I thought were very different from me. Learn from the animals, try to emulate their positive traits, and as always - love and let live! CUTIE PATOOTIES—SPUNKSTER, SWEET PEA, & TIGER! These sweet babies are just adorable! They are about 5 mos. old. Sweet Pea is the pretty, all charcoal gray girl, very cuddly, who looks at you with such soulful eyes. Tiger is one of her brothers, and he has an abyssinian look to his fur, gray with whitish ticking. Spunkster is a definite gray tabby, with white under his chin, white paws, and a cute white tip on his tail. All have a very mild condition of cerebella hypoplasia, which makes them shake their heads a little. However, no meds are needed and they can run, jump, & chase just like any other feline! To meet them 818-749-9095 or kelly@pasadena- chamber.org. THE WORLD AROUND US OUT TO PASTOR A Weekly Religion Column by Rev. James Snyder CHRISTOPHER Nyerges THE GOOD, THE BAD, THE UGLY Can anything be learned from TV? IF THIS IS AUTUMN, WHAT WAS SUMMER? [Nyerges is an educator and author of nearly two dozen books, such as “Extreme Simplicity,” “How to Survive Anywhere,” “Self- Sufficient Home,” and others. His web site is www. SchoolofSelf-Reliance.com] I took a short lunch break today, sitting down on my couch and turning on the TV. I wanted to hear the weather forecast, which I never did. I first learned about a bicyclist who was killed in Torrance, and the killer simply drove away in his Toyota truck. Shocking! How is that a person can run down someone on a bicycle, kill them, and then just drive off into the wild blue yonder? As someone who looks at the non-sustainability of the Los Angeles area “machine,” I know that more and more of us should take to our bicycles and become a part of the solution. As I sat shaking my head, I thought about my own lifetime of bicycling, and how I just started bicycling more, in part, inspired by a female friend who wrote about her bicycling to her job in Azusa from Highland Park. Wow! I used to have difficulty biking to my job in Pasadena from Highland Park because I’d show up dripping in sweat and had no way to change or shower. Drivers need to wake up, and realize that the bicyclist is your friend, and is a friend to the sprawling mass of Los Angeles County. Don’t treat them as an irritation, or a fly to be swatted. And bicyclists – some anyway – also need to wake up to the fact that their total 150 pounds of small mass is nothing compared to a minimum 2000 pound car. I have never figured out why some bicyclists taunt auto drivers, and bicycle far from the curb in a way that makes them a target in a confrontation they can’t win. As Rodney asked, “Can’t we all get along?” Then, when I was about a third done with my soup, the news program began showing the wreckage of the aftermath of Hurricane Florence. OMG! It was clearly not good for my digestion to see whole neighborhoods half underwater, houses turned into splinters, people crying for help, families in need of food and fresh water. And I watched some of the remarkable rescuers who came out on boats and took people to dry land and brought supplies to those who needed it the most. There were also showing a convenience store in some town that was being looted, and a few people were arrested. As C.S. Lewis so insightfully pointed out in the Screwtape Letters, times of great stress and disaster brings out the worst in mankind, but somehow it also brings out the very best as well. Heroes are made and lives are changed. I watched these dramas being played out on my TV screen as I pushed my empty soup bowl to the side and started for my half-sandwich (Subway vegetarian). Floods of memories flowed through my mind as I recalled two of the best bits of advice for anyone preparing for disasters (or old age, for that matter): Develop useful skills, and develop deep meaningful relationships with people. Not “gather lots of stuff,” and not “make sure you have the biggest knife,” etc. ad nauseum. Yes, stuff is important, but look what Florence did to all that stuff! You can’t predict the weather, but we should be able to rely upon our own hard-earned skills and our deep friendships. I didn’t have much time to watch TV, and my sandwich was nearly done, so I flipped around to other stations, and came up with a few ironclad rules of life, though of lesser importance than what I’ve already mentioned. Number one: If you have a small claims court case to settle, and you’re guilty, never, ever, under any circumstances, have Judge Judy try your case. She will not only expose you but will humiliate you as well. Try your luck with one of the local judges in a local, non-televised court. Number two: If anyone from the Jerry Springer show ever calls you to come onto their show to meet some mystery person of your past, don’t even think about calling them back. It will not turn out well. I must confess that in the Parsonage there are times of confusion. It has nothing to do with age; it has everything to do with the human brain that is undernourished. The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage can say one thing and I can say something completely different. There are those rare occasions when we are on the same page, the same sentence and almost the same words. Those occasions do not come as often as I would like. The good news is, we are all on the same book, which makes the difference. The other day, for example, I was in a panic mode. I was trying to get stuff done and was not making progress. Finally, the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage said, “What are you in such a fuss about?” “Well,” I said rather exhaustively, “it’s Friday and I’m trying to get my work done.” My wife just stood there looking at me with one of those “looks” she is most famous for. Then, placing both hands on her hips, she said, “Silly boy, don’t you know it’s Thursday?” It is quite disconcerting when you get something wrong. You think you are doing the right thing, but it turns out you are not. I think it is one day and it turns out to be another day instead. Sometimes one day looks exactly like the other. As we were eating breakfast the other day, my wife stopped and said, “Do you know this is the first day of autumn?” I had to stop and think about that for a while. That means summer is over and fall is in the air. “If it’s autumn,” I said quite seriously, “why is it still so hot outside?” The last three weeks the temperature has been in the 90s and the heat index was over 100. That is really hot. Looking at her, I said, “It sure doesn’t feel like autumn does it?” She agreed with me, which was quite an accomplishment on my side of the table. A song says, “And the beat goes on.” I would like to change that a little bit and sing a song, “And the heat goes on.” Simply put, I found no difference between the first week of autumn in the last week of summer. After all, if it is autumn then the weather ought to act like it is autumn. I did not realize how serious the heat was. I was going Wednesday morning to a local elementary school to participate in the “Pray around the Pole.” It was the first thing in the morning so I decided not to have breakfast before I went, but rather go to my favorite restaurant for breakfast after the event. As I was walking to the pole, I noticed it was rather hot outside. Oh well, I thought to myself, I am not going to be here long so I can just endure it. About eight of the teachers had gathered around the pole along with a resource officer. We gathered in a circle, held hands and began to pray. Many of them prayed and my job was to close the session in prayer. As they began praying, I felt a little odd. Now my wife will tell you that it is not just a feeling; I am odd. But my blonde roots were beginning to manifest itself and I was feeling a little dizzy. I felt the sweat roll off my face and my legs were wobbling, more than usual. I really did not feel good at the time. Then, it came time to close the session in prayer. I cannot remember what I prayed because every word that came out of my mouth felt weird and odd. I was getting dizzy and I was thinking to myself, “Just don’t fall down.” I knew if I fell down, somebody would call the ambulance and rush me off to the hospital. The last place I wanted to be. When we were done praying one of the teachers looked at me and said, “Are you all right? Your face looks flushed.” The more I stood there the wobblier my legs got. Finally one of the teachers said, “Let’s take him inside and get him some water.” In the meantime, one called my wife to come and get me. I do not remember going into the school at the time. Everything was quite dizzy for me. Then the nurse came, checked me out and made sure I was okay. As it was, I was having a heat stroke. I never had such a thing before in my life. I think I heard of them, but I did not know what they were. As I was collecting myself a little bit, my wife and granddaughter arrived to take me home. They would not let me drive my own vehicle. Don’t tell anybody, but I sure was glad. I am not sure I could have driven that vehicle out of the parking lot. It took several days to recover, but during recovery, I could not help but think of an incident with Jesus in the midst of the storm. “And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm” (Mark 4:39). You cannot always select the “storm” in your life, but you can always trust Jesus to get you through it. The Rev. James L. Snyder is pastor of the Family of God Fellowship. He lives with the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage, in Ocala, Florida 34472. Call him at 352-687-4240 or e-mail jamessnyder2@att. net. The church web site is www.whatafellowship. com. 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